#I am asdfgjkl so hype!

[mossmx]

I have aquired some cardboard so soon my desk will not be a dumpster anymore and I can resume drawing >:D

[oflockhearted]

✥ I have roleplayed with you and it was great(still is! XD)

✣ I like the way you express your muse

❋ Your blog is one of my favs

✦ I like seeing you on my dash

❇ I love the way you write

♥ My dude! I adore our threads! The zombie one has me hyped ASDFGHJKL also you're super awesome! I love reading your headcanons!!! They're sooooo good!!!

Send in something nice to the mun | @chaton-encore | Always accepting c:

Ahhhh. I really needed to hear this. Thank you so much Kitten. :_; It means a lot to me that you still find my presence here tolerable xD The zombie thread is definitely an up and coming piece, as I am excited to see how these two fair against a horde of zombos lol

I think you will always be one of my fave people to talk to and write with since you’re so incredibly nice and asdfgjkl; YOU ARE AMAZING GURL. TYSM FOR BEING MY FRIEND.

[sumeshi-t]

when to shutcho bitchass up.

so i had this long ass reply as i was about to reblog a haikyuu writer’s response to a hate ask but i had to eat lunch, and my wifi’s acting up so it all got deleted. but anyway, after lurking in the shadows for god knows how long, i decided to speak up about this on-going issue of hate being poorly masked as “constructive criticism”. 

it doesn’t just happen on haikyuu blogs, like, every fandom has it. and it saddens me because i’ve seen the greatest blogs out here just vanish into thin air (or has gone on hiatus and never returned/archived the blog/deactivated) for getting hate that they absolutely do not deserve. nobody does. nobody needs that hate; not now not ever. most often than not, there are people who hide behind the anon feature in asks. but i guess some people lately have now learned how to own up to their own mistakes; and yes, everyone’s opinion is valid, is welcome to be entertained; however the way you word these things out also matters. it’s just like when someone writes something, you know? why do you get to complain, “your writing suckxz” when you can’t even write down why you think so? lol gtfo. people can interpret your words in however way they want, and that’s the one thing you cannot control. so at least, when you attempt to apologize for something you “didn’t mean to” or “was just a joke”, at least make it sound like you mean it. if you want your opinion to be taken seriously, learn how to say it with manners.

anyway, this post will be terribly long, probably longer than the shit i’ve ever written anywhere lmao. some of the things i’ll say here might come off as redundant but because the same thing happens over and over again, what else would you expect?

Exhibit A: “constructive criticism” does not mean, or shall never be equated to “hate”

if you go around tumblr, there are tons of posts which educate people how to properly write a critique, how to decently and reasonably critic someone’s work, whether it be in the form of writing, or digital art, etc. even if you type “constructive criticism” on that google search bar, tons of websites are going to tell you how to do it, so it really is unacceptable to use “it’s constructive criticism” as an excuse when all you’ve said is “your writing sucks”. literally, how can “constructive criticism” go from “you’re not even a good writer, why the hype?” to “you’re too positive, too fake, if you’re sad, show that you’re sad.” that ain’t it chief. constructive criticism is given to the works of a content creator, not directed at the content creator itself.

ever heard of the sandwich method? yeah, yummy and easy, right? basically it means, you start it off with the positive things about the content creator, then the negative ones in the middle, then reinforce them at the end. okay, i’ll repeat that here, let me break it down if that isn’t enough for cute little noggins to understand:

tell the content creator what made you hooked on their works in the first place. what made you indulge in all that deliciously free content, that has brought you to tears, to laughs, to orgasm. you don’t necessarily have to praise them, but acknowledge that you’re aware of what they’re doing and how it is, or how their progress is so far.

now here comes the critique part. this where the “however” and the “but” words come in, to transition from (for example) “your way with words is breathtaking” to “sometimes i feel they’re too much to digest all at once”. get it? pinpoint to the content creator just exactly what aspects in their current state do you wish they could improve on, or areas do you think they are lacking or weak, so to speak. be concise, be comprehensive, be nice.

lastly, my favorite part, is you give them tips or advice or just a fucking hint how you think they can achieve the things you said from #2. even if you know or assume that they’d understand your point, or “it’s their job to find it out by themselves”... well, a little input or jumpstart wouldn’t hurt, would it? so from the example, “your way with words is breathtaking” to “(however) sometimes i feel they’re too much to digest all at once” you end it with a, “i think or why don’t you try doing so, and this, and that,”

lemme go back to the “it’s their job to find it out by themselves” aha, news flash honey: this isn’t their job. it’s their way of enjoyment, their leisure, their free time that they use up just to bring out free content for lots of people like you to indulge in. most people come here, or on ao3, or basically anywhere where you can post your work, just for fun. you cannot be demanding, that’s why they have their rules and all, but i digress. content creators feed on feedback, and feedback alone. i hope you have an idea how something as simple as “asdflkjshdls” in the tags can bring a phat smile to a content creator’s face, what more, if it’s something coherent. just fucking keyboard smash is a boost to their confidence (trust me, it’s very fun knowing that how “asdfgjkl” i was when writing something, is the same as the “asdfgjkl” the readers had when reading)

this sandwich method thing doesn’t only apply to this certain situation. in fact, this is an effective means of communicating your point across to people in school, at work, and even in the comforts of your home. right? 

didn’t you feel bad when your teacher returned your paper to you and just said, “i gave you that grade just because” and nothing more? or when that classmate of yours said, “no, i don’t like this idea. think up of something else” for a project? didn’t you ever question them, “why, and on what basis?” 

how about, when your boss returned your report, only saying, “revise this” but what is “this”? sure, there are bosses who do this to try to teach their employees to find things out and find solutions on their own, but you cannot deny that some are just being disgustingly rude about it. 

how about at home you say? well... remember that time when your parents compared you to their friends’ children, or even compared you among your own siblings? or that time you were lashed out on? actually, you know, what, i’m sorry for bringing this up, as light as this was worded out, some people might get triggered simply from those two phrases i put out. however, i will address this issue next.

Exhibit B: you don’t know the people you are talking to, therefore you do not know what they are going through

you can’t say, “oh, you’re all just so sensitive” or “it’s just an opinion” when clearly, this (tw: depression, suicide, family issues, gender and sexuality, body positivity, etc) topics is/are sensitive to most content creators, to most people. some brush it off fine, and take a while to reach their boiling point, but not everyone’s like that. you can’t tell people how they should react to your random spewing of hate. each person has their own level of tolerance, so don’t go off and assume that everybody online is the same and grew from the same fucking tree. 

some or most people use writing/drawing/etc. as a means to cope with what shit life has thrown at them; and then you, being so stupidly ignorant, just waltz in and drop that bomb on what possibly, could be the only ray of sunlight they have in their life, especially now in this bleak year. 

receiving anon-hate or hate-asks should not be the norm. it is not and never will be okay. i thought you were here to critic their work, why even joke about something that could have been personal to someone? why even joke about these kinds of things in the first place? why even bring up something that might have been a personal issue when all you had to do was critic their work? 

my god, stop acting like a boomer already. tbh the audacity of some people here, idk. if you’re not going through anything at all, then may god/brahma/allah/whichever supreme being you believe in or whatever good karma it is, bless you. 

it’s not that one should sympathize, or, it isn’t also expected of people to full on empathize, but a little respect goes a long way. why don’t we try to put ourselves in the shoes of the person we’re about to send that hate-ask to. if not us, how about that close friend who’s easy to bring to tears, or mom, or cousin? wouldn’t it be aggravating? wouldn’t it be painful?

well... who am i to assume, i don’t even know you. get it?

just please, acknowledge that everyone here is human. they have emotions, they have their own thoughts, they have their own lives outside of the screen. how they choose to portray themselves here has nothing to do with you. how they choose to react to that hate ask doesn’t have to do with anything you should concern yourself with. 

LET PEOPLE ENJOY THINGS. LET PEOPLE LIVE THEIR LIFE THEIR OWN WAY, both virtual and in reality. 

i know this post won’t get too far, but i have had enough of seeing the nicest people, who just wanted to express their creativity and share the happiness and the fun, be put down just because of unnecessary hate. i hope those people who send those in never get to experience that, or if they have, i hope they understand that doing so to others isn’t going to change anything about themselves.

[sequoiann]

❧ l.c | roommate!au

pairing; seventeen dino x reader

genre; bulletpointed, roommate!dino, humor, fluff

collab with; @kpop–fics

notes; i feel like i haven’t posted in a few days and that feels weird to me bc i usually try to post every day ? heh but here’s another roommate!au !!  (ﾉ◕ヮ◕)ﾉ*:･ﾟ✧ and yes i’m probably gonna start adding gifs to my scenarios just bc there’s a ton of cute svt gifs out there :”) and just in case any of you missed my prev post, i was sunshine-otter and i just changed my username !! :p && sorry this is so short ><

you just got your key to your room 

and you were almost in front of your door 

when there was REALLY loud music coming from inside

like really really loud

 so you leaned closer and listened

and 

,,, it’s michael jackson’s music

i think

so you just knock 

but of course there’s no answer 

whoever is in there can’t hear you over the music

smh 

so you just 

open the door with your key 

and tried to be quiet bc you felt like you’re gonna meet a whole new level of awkward

and you see a boy,,, dancing to the song 

you were about to turn and walk away and come back later 

but then he noticed you 

yay

and weird enough ,,,,

he isn’t even a little embarrassed

“HELLO!” 

he just says loudly and you literally flinch in surprise lolol

he walks towards the speakers and turns off the music so you can finally introduce yourself gdi

so you just

awKwArdLy-

“hi, i’m y/n, your new roommate” 

“nice to meet you! i’m chan!” he smiles. 

omg that smile 

adorable squish

okay let’s not get distracted

also 

he is hyped like this every morning and/or afternoon

he listens to michael jackson non-stop and dances to it 24/7 so it’s pretty obv that michael jackson is his idol

and ngl his dance moves are really good

so it’s like a free mini performance lolol

but when it’s evening or night time

he’s always watching a movie 

like 

how he hasn’t seen them all yet???? 

but every time you end up joining him under the five blankets heh

yes, five 

fiVeEEE

somehow, you like every movie he watches 

he must have a good taste or something idk 

and uk those drama scenes where a guy & a girl watches a horror show tgt and gets closer through?

that does nOT happen in your dorm room lol

both of you hate horror movies so that genre is completely out

like once both of you tried watching conjuring and it barely started and both of you were already pinching each other and throwing pillows at the tv screen lmao

so horror movies? nope.

dino is the same age at you are but you honestly saw him as a cute lil ball of fluff

and you sometimes just unconsciously start staring at him lovingly bc of how much you wanted to just crush him with a hug

and dino feELS your stare even when he’s not looking in your direction

“y/n i am feeling so very uncomfortable right now do you mind---”

and you just break your gaze and laugh and go over to him to ruffle his hair 

and he just pouts

whiCH MAKES EVERYTHING CUTER ASDFGJKL

but you know where to draw the line and not tease him too much so it’s all good

and chan also does it back to you so tbh it’s forever even between you two

when you’re at your desk doing your homework he just stares into your skull and you feEL IT TOOO

“chan ,,,,,my head is suspiciously hurting ,,,,,”

and he just stares even harder and

“hmm i wonder why??”

“i’m serious i need to do my project pls stop”

and he just bursts out laughing like you do and then hugs you from the back bc he finds you just as cute as you find him

awwwwwwww

although dino’s smol and everything,, he can murder someone if he wants to

a bigger guy teased him non-stop once for a whole day and dino flung him down the hallway istfg

don’t mess with him !!!! : ))

dino and you are vvv mutual as roommates;; the two of you take hella good care of each other

like if you’re busy, he’ll do everything else for you

and if he’s busy, you’ll do everything else for him

eg buying food, cleaning up the dorm, doing the laundry

very! healthy! relationship !!

so yep that’s dino as your roommie!

[kpop--fics]

Lee Chan (Dino) fluff

[Roommate AU]

Again, another collab with @theliqht! Check her out, it’s worth your time~~

—

you just got your key to your room 

and you were almost in front of your door 

when there was REALLY loud music coming from inside

like really really loud

so you leaned closer and listened

and 

,,, it’s michael jackson’s music

i think

so you just knock 

but of course there’s no answer 

whoever is in there can’t hear you over the music

smh 

so you just 

open the door with your key 

and tried to be quiet bc you felt like you’re gonna meet a whole new level of awkward

and you see a boy,,, dancing to the song 

you were about to turn and walk away and come back later 

but then he noticed you 

yay

and weird enough ,,,,

he isn’t even a little embarrassed

“HELLO!” 

he just says loudly and you literally flinch in surprise lolol

he walks towards the speakers and turns off the music so you can finally introduce yourself gdi

so you just

awKwArdLy-

“hi, i’m y/n, your new roommate” 

“nice to meet you! i’m chan!” he smiles. 

omg that smile 

adorable squish

okay let’s not get distracted

also 

he is hyped like this every morning and/or afternoon

he listens to michael jackson non-stop and dances to it 24/7 so it’s pretty obv that michael jackson is his idol

and ngl his dance moves are really good

so it’s like a free mini performance lolol

but when it’s evening or night time

he’s always watching a movie 

like 

how he hasn’t seen them all yet???? 

but every time you end up joining him under the five blankets heh

yes, five 

fiVeEEE

somehow, you like every movie he watches 

he must have a good taste or something idk 

and uk those drama scenes where a guy & a girl watches a horror show tgt and gets closer through?

that does nOT happen in your dorm room lol

both of you hate horror movies so that genre is completely out

like once both of you tried watching conjuring and it barely started and both of you were already pinching each other and throwing pillows at the tv screen lmao

so horror movies? nope.

dino is the same age at you are but you honestly saw him as a cute lil ball of fluff

and you sometimes just unconsciously start staring at him lovingly bc of how much you wanted to just crush him with a hug

and dino feELS your stare even when he’s not looking in your direction

“y/n i am feeling so very uncomfortable right now do you mind---”

and you just break your gaze and laugh and go over to him to ruffle his hair 

and he just pouts

whiCH MAKES EVERYTHING CUTER ASDFGJKL

but you know where to draw the line and not tease him too much so it’s all good

and chan also does it back to you so tbh it’s forever even between you two

when you’re at your desk doing your homework he just stares into your skull and you feEL IT TOOO

“chan ,,,,,my head is suspiciously hurting ,,,,,”

and he just stares even harder and

“hmm i wonder why??”

“i’m serious i need to do my project pls stop”

and he just bursts out laughing like you do and then hugs you from the back bc he finds you just as cute as you find him

awwwwwwww

although dino’s smol and everything,, he can murder someone if he wants to

a bigger guy teased him non-stop once for a whole day and dino flung him down the hallway istfg

don’t mess with him !!!! : ))

dino and you are vvv mutual as roommates;; the two of you take hella good care of each other

like if you’re busy, he’ll do everything else for you

and if he’s busy, you’ll do everything else for him

eg buying food, cleaning up the dorm, doing the laundry

very! healthy! relationship !!

so yep that’s dino as your roommie!