#Shower Maintenance

[satans-knitwear]

Breaking news! Basic acts of self care can make u feel good sometimes.

Treat me ~ Tip me

[that-one-girls-blog-posts]

mentally in a hotel, freshly showered, getting ready for dinner

[xchrryblssmx]

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[pocketwish]

using shimmer fountain pen ink in my journal for the month of april and truly feeling like a sorcerer with a temperamental + willful wand

[colorisbyshe]

this is another reason why i hate the clealiness olympics on here because 90% of the "you're nasty if you do/don't this" posts are really just confessions... like people who are like 'i could never use a washing cloth because they get so nasty' like oh... so you don't wash them??? or like crying over cats in the kitchen as if you don't wipe down your counter before using it for meal prep (not that you should meal prep directly on your counter)

like... idk...

[butch-himbo-king]

staying at the in-laws’ house overnight bc our downstairs neighbors turned off their heat when they left for a trip and froze the pipes so now we have no water 🤪🤪🤪

[rubiesintherough]

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[moony-ghoul]

i have been slowing growing an obsession and it’s like actually a problem but like kinda not as well

it started with growing my hair out i started taking better care of it and loved my routine with it

then my friend found out i didn’t have a skin care routine and bullied me into one (which i’m very thankful for)

since then it’s grown into a ridiculously complicated self care routine i love buying new products when my others run out i love my shower routine i love how nice everything smells and how nice it makes me smell i love coming home from a long day and having a long relaxing shower and then climbing into bed in a lil clean bubble of nice smells

[straydogged]

sometimes ...cleaning is good

[emcant]

Wet beast Wednesday postponed until Thursday this week evidently

[ikkaku-of-heart]

It never fails to make me blush when people say they love my Ikkaku. Like I've been writing her for nearly four years now and I occasionally wonder if people have gotten bored of her or me so when someone says they love her and what I've done to flesh her out, it's very heartwarming and helps keep the doubt goblins in my brain at bay. So, to those of you who have done this in the past few weeks, thank you. You make me blush and flustered and so very happy.

[rottengurlz]

Did the full moon make everyone crazy or something this week I feel like I need to stare at a wall for an hour or 2 to heal myself

[ungroomedcat]

Whenever people called me 'young lady' at work it used to always feel so demeaning. Say, for example, in my first job fresh out of college I was put in charge of a large project that I had to present at the end of the year to a bunch of white old men. I received plenty of compliments. But not without the blood boiling, "-for such a young lady" appended at the end.

"She did an amazing job for such a young lady."

"Great job young lady."

Young lady this. Young lady that. Hated that shit. It's died down some now after nearly a decade of it. And today, for the first time, I didn't take offense. Maybe it's because I've become more comfortable and confident in my own skin, not feeling like I have something to prove all the time.

It's interesting how much your perspective changes as you age. I was referred to as "that youngster" today ("what's that youngster saying over there?") and while I'm certain I would have seethed inside not even five years ago, today I found it humorous. Humbling even. Because this was said by a 60+ yo man, and in his eyes, I really am just a young little buck. And that's fine. I am just a young little buck. Even at 30. Especially at 22 when I thought being called a young lady was the most degrading thing in the world.

[crimeronan]

grocery shopped and then put the groceries away and then did the dishes and then cleaned up a giant mess i made on the stove this morning. i am as unto a god <-person currently doing the absolute bare minimum in literally Every Single Area of their life,

[dokyeomini]

our landlords are fucking useless we haven't had hot water since friday and they're basically doing nothing abt i

[doctormage]

I’m having a “wants to post ten billion things” day for some fucking reason