#Side note: It reminds me of this fairy fantasy series I got roped into reading

[plan-d-to-i]

I didn't interact much with my previous fandom but it followed a pattern. The angry character(A) who clearly had major faults in the initial books but the author decided to give A a book after things where mid way over to tell more about their personality and perspective(idk I don't like A that much but I appreciated them a little after the choices they took in the next book).

The ending of their book had them saving their family members(one of them B) and that's canon. We get most the development in the book and A choosing to save their family is canon. The two family members, A and B, actually become close and I liked the way they went thru their issues.

BUT there are still people who try to drag down B and write takes about how they're inconsiderate and didn't deserve A's sacrifice (B is infact a good character and always looked out for A, even if they had issues.)

I mean half of the fandom is filled with people supporting the angry person and ignoring all the initial stuff. Ofc i left the fandom.

Their relation is not like jc and wwx.

In mdzs, wwx left for good and people try to write reconciliations.

In their fandom, things because better and family persisted. But they try to show how A was way way better and no one really understands her. This lead to them calling A's sacrifice as given to someone unworthy.

It's really a pattern. Stick to the angry character and either seek company and validation and/or believe that you're high and mighty and everyone wronged you and doesn't deserve you.

People reward a piece of shit for doing one small minor good act in a sea of assholeishness, and punish a kind selfless person for the smallest imperfection or show of human frailty. In this world it doesn't pay to be good, selfless and kind. I admire those who still do it. Couldn't be me.

I can't stand that angry, shouty, tantrum throwing, emotionally messy character type. If you don't vibe w someone anymore cut them out. These people want to have their cake and eat it too; Squat in someone's life, but use them as an emotional punching bag and then try to act like they're the ones getting the rough end of the deal. And they always do it to better ppl than them who don't have the heart to set their foot down.