Changing Lives One Shimmy At A Time
The Sensational Summer Hafla/ Shimmy Mob Louisville, KY 2024 has concluded. We had a blast on Saturday May 11th here in the Kentuckiana Valley. On World Bellydance Day we gathered together not only to have a good time and catch up, but to help raise money for our local action center, The Center for Woman and Families.
During the day, Shimmy Mob Louisville gathered on the waterfront and performed while raising money on the Big 4 Walking bridge platform. Truthfully, I was very very tried from all the prep work, checking in to the AirBnB, and communicating with all the performers bout the lineup and any changes we had to make. But everyone showed there support by performing the main choreography and participating in the secondary one which involved audience participation.
This years crew consisted of many people whom had never danced any style before and a few whom had never danced bellydance.
At the hafla, we had many local performers and supports from around the region as well fellowshipped to the beat of the tunes. Grateful for MarleyVon and Samira for headlining along with myself. We had a few people not make the evening event, but sent love and shimmies their way. This is one of many gatherings for this year. Be sure to stay tuned to the Devi Dance Studio® website for updates and upcoming events. https://www.DeviDanceStudio.com
The VP of The Center's Marketing and Outside Outreach spent time in Jordan and Egypt. He said he was very impressed and happy to be apart of something like this as it reminded him of his time abroad.
This made me super grateful. I am glad to have made all of the food except for the baklava and the roasted veggies. (The veggies and baklava was made by one of the Shimmy Mob participants) I had a feeling there would be people from or spent time or was of the culture at the event. I didn't want them to try the hummus and it not be authentic. lol I noticed most store bought hummus was made with canola or soybean oil and not olive oil.
Having something positive to do is important to the healing process. It can be one of the key elements in victims becoming survivors. Getting out of victim mode is not easy and looks differently for everyone. It is just as important to be gently with those going though recovery.
I recently heard something that was very profound and possibly something I have always known, but didn't have the best phrasing. "The opposite of trauma is play." Which when you think about it, is very true. But sometimes allowing yourself to play can be hard as processing the trauma and going through it can be difficult.
One of the many things abusers do is limit free thinking, play, happy moments, negate the curious nature, limit interactions, and create conditions/environment where brainwashing/or changing/manipulating the narrative as a way to control them or a situation. Some people and places use these tactics to keep people low and instill physiological phrases so later on in life it makes it hard for them as a person to be their authentic self, explore, live, and play. Often times without proper help and support, victims will subconsciously seek out similar emotional limits, people, places, and things thinking they are doing better, but they are not.
There is no shame in getting help, going to counseling/therapy, and belonging to authentic helpful support groups. It is important to do things that are different, experience different cultures, and learn new things so you can not only reprogram your own thoughts, but to allow the healing process to thrive in your life. Mental and physical health is just as important as having a safe place to live, income, and quality of life.
One of the Goddess Life with Tahulla Setsena Principals is, "You are the only You you have!" Let that sink in. You are important, and have the right to existence just like anyone else. We are not meant to always be subservient, obedient, quite, or limited. Ask questions, have adventures, laugh, sing, dance, create, appreciate, write, think, study, love and live for yourself. It is honorable to do things for and with yourself. Remember you don't need permission from anyone to do the things that are healthy and happy for you in your life.
Focusing on yourself can be hard to start, but when you do stick with it. It's just like dance. Many people don't even try because they are afraid of not being good at it, it being a waste of time, or what other people think. These limits can hinder your own growth and thoughts because you stop yourself before you even get started. We as a society need to stop focusing on being the most perfect prodigy at something, but should strive for the healthy ability to be motivated in the process of doing things. This can help lower jealous/envious and doubtful emotions which often stop the best outcome in most areas of life.
Be inspired, but not envious. Allow good counsel, but not gaslighting. Forgiveness is for you and not anyone else. Be gentle with yourself. You are worthy of peace and happiness. Nice and kind are not the same thing. Also allow yourself to know the difference and how it feels to be held accountable, but not disrespected. Allow yourself to recognize those who are comfortable with hindering you, for they not your friends or family. There is no shame in leaving and saying no. You owe it to yourself to do better for you by you.
Not everyday will be perfect and there may be times where you don't have the energy to go forth and prosper. That is okay. It's not really healthy to give 110% at everything you do all the time. Rest, existing, and fulfillment will be different for everyone. Celebrating and being safe with these difference could be the vibe your heart needs.
To find out about Shimmy Mob (A world wide organization) go to: https://www.ShimmyMob.com
For more info about The Center for Woman and Families visit: https://www.thecenteronline.org and to donate on behalf of Shimmy Mob Louisville, KY/Kentuckiana use our unique link of: https://tinyurl.com/ShimmyMob
To donate to Devi Dance Studio® so we can help bring things like this and many others to the community visit: http://paypal.me/devidancestudious Feel free to follow Devi Dance Studio® on various social media outlets and on our website: https://www.DeviDanceStudio.com
Hugs until the next article,
Tahulla Setsena <3
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Reflection & Some Food for Thought from Tahulla Setsena
Whew... doing some much needed updates to events, website info, and also pages. Thank you for your patience during this time as I haven't been on facebook much. Hugs and much love to you all.
Over the past week many things have been revealed in most of our lives....(Click link to read the article and subscribe to become a Patron of Tahulla!)
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Self Care Sunday!! Had a serious acne breakout where my skin just hurt with clogged pores. My usual bentonite clay honey mask wasn't working :( So I am trying one made of Fenugreek Seed Powder and honey.
Thus far I can feel it pulling the pain out of my skin, it feels soothing, and doesn't smell bad. Kinda looks like ground mustard seeds, gritty going on, but thickens quickly. I didn't make enough to cover my whole face. I focused on the target areas. Looking forwards to seeing what becomes of things after it dries.
Reminds me of Mrs. Doubtfite where she pits her gace in the pie to hide her real face. Lol
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Would you like to learn tricks of the trade, improve on your performer etiquette, and try you hand at being a producer or director? Join Adam and I for our training intensive on Nov 20th so you have tools in your tool belt from seasoned vets in the industry. These tips and tools work with most events, gigs, performances, and gatherings to help increase attendance, make sure things go smoothly, and help to prevent burn out.
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It’s that time of year where the wheel is turning. Be prepared for chilly nights and cozy season with some of our favorite items in our Devi Wear line. Head over to https://deviwear.company.site to get our Sacred Tea, Sacred Lip Balm, Throw Blanket, and more. 🙂
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Shimmy Mob- Flash Mob In Louisville, KY
Registration Date: March 31, 2019 11:59PM EST
Practice Dates: TBA EST
Dance Date: May 11, 2019 at TBA EST
Ages 3 and up
All Genders Welcome
No Prior Dance Experience Required
All Levels of Movement Are Welcome
Louisville, KY and the surrounding areas are welcome to participate in this year's Shimmy Mob. Shimmy Mob is the worlds largest flash mob held on International Bellydance Day to raise awareness about the signs of Domestic Violence, Sexual Assault, and Abuse. Stay tuned to our social media pages, website, and look out for the event page via Facebook. To register go to http://www.ShimmyMob.com to sign up. Make sure you select Louisville, KY when signing up. Deadline to register is March 31, 2019, and we dance on May 11, 2019.
We are looking for people to join us in a record breaking worldwide belly dance flashmob. We dance for fun, we dance as a worldwide team all over the world on the same day to the same song to the same choreography all wearing the same t-shirt, and we dance for a cause on world bellydance day.
NO EXPERIENCE needed to be part of this amazing event. 140+ Locations worldwide have already signed up. Join our local team. Great way to meet new people, connect with the community in a whole new way and it's going to be EPIC! Let me know if you have any questions or would like to sponsor us Contact Us.
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