#Unfortunately all 3 of them are people pleasers so people arnd me like hanging out with them bc they are fun n say what people want to hear
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Skipping an important party bc someone who emotionally abused me, another who emotionally manipulated me, and another who cheated on me, are attending too. I want to scream
#And I can't scream about this elsewhere bc my main friend group are on good terms/friends/close with these 3 people on varying levels#Unfortunately all 3 of them are people pleasers so people arnd me like hanging out with them bc they are fun n say what people want to hear#And I have good boundaries and self respect so I'm not about to put myself in a situation where I could have a mental breakdown#Or have to spend energy the whole night trying to regulate my emotions#One of them gave me ptsd so there will be panic attacks#I felt one incoming earlier when I found out the emotionally abusive one was attending#Anyway I need to stop attracting/settling on people pleasers#The moment that 'challenge' of trying to please someone hard to please (me) and they see what's behind the wall#Which is boundaries and standards and expectations and needs to be met#They just noped outta here#Which tbh is the best thing that could happen to me and us#Wish it didn't have to happen so messily that I cannot share space with some of them#The cons of living in a small queer community#My posts#My rants
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