#agab should only matter in medical and other scientific contexts

[mikoran]

questioning what someones agab is is wrong and shitty dont get me wrong but i think the points people make against it having to do with genitalia miss the mark in a lot of ways because from what ive seen and heard it’s only about genitals in some contexts

a lot of the time people arent asking that because they want to know whats in your pants, its because they want to know if you were gifted dolls or cars growing up. was your childhood decorated in light colors and flowers or was it all dark blues and videos games and things considered “boyish”? what did your closet look like? how did you talk? what were your mannerisms like? how did people treat you?

how should they really see you because they think you arent actually your gender since you didnt grow up like it? you arent truly one of them, you havent had the “real” and “correct” experiences. they need to view you “properly” because its oh so misleading to them if you say youre one thing when they believe you arent