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It is essential to recognize that every individual has the right to bodily autonomy, regardless of their sex, gender, or cultural background. Forced genital cutting of any kind is a violation of a person's fundamental human rights, and it can have serious physical and psychological consequences. While it is important to respect people's cultural and religious traditions, those traditions should not infringe on an individual's right to bodily integrity. It is possible to advocate for the end of forced genital cutting without being anti-Semitic or anti any other religious or cultural group. The focus should be on promoting a human rights-based approach that recognizes the importance of bodily autonomy and consent.

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Why might some people assume others are circumcised? Why is this a bad thing?

People might assume others are circumcised due to cultural norms, social conditioning, and lack of knowledge about the prevalence of circumcision. However, assuming someone's circumcision status without their explicit consent can be problematic for several reasons.

First, it can be inaccurate, as not all men are circumcised. Assuming someone's circumcision status based on their appearance or cultural background can lead to incorrect assumptions and stereotypes.

Second, it can be invasive and disrespectful of someone's bodily autonomy. Circumcision is a personal and private matter, and assuming someone's circumcision status without their consent can be seen as a violation of their privacy and bodily autonomy.

Lastly, assuming someone's circumcision status can perpetuate harmful and stigmatizing attitudes towards uncircumcised men. It can create a culture of shame and embarrassment for men who are uncircumcised, which can be damaging to their self-esteem and mental health.

Therefore, it's important to avoid making assumptions about someone's circumcision status and to respect their privacy and bodily autonomy.

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“Why should gamers who theorise circumcision in a game not do so? Why should they not perverse a creators work with something like that? Please give me a few reasons.”

There are several reasons why gamers should not theorize circumcision in a game or any other creative work:

It can be insensitive and triggering for some people: Circumcision is a personal and sensitive topic for many people, and theorizing about it in a creative work can be insensitive and triggering for those who have undergone the procedure or have strong feelings about it.

It can perpetuate harmful stereotypes: Theorizing circumcision in a game or other creative work can perpetuate harmful stereotypes about certain groups of people, particularly those who are more likely to undergo the procedure for cultural or religious reasons.

It can distract from the intended message or theme of the work: Incorporating circumcision into a game or other creative work can distract from the intended message or theme of the work, particularly if it is done in a way that is gratuitous or unnecessary.

It can be seen as an invasion of the creator's intent: Theorizing circumcision in a game or other creative work can be seen as an invasion of the creator's intent and can detract from the overall vision of the work.

It can be viewed as disrespectful: Some people may view theorizing circumcision in a creative work as disrespectful or inappropriate, particularly if they have strong feelings about the procedure or the cultural or religious traditions surrounding it.

“Why might it be a better alternative to assume any characters in a fictional work are intact?”

Assuming characters in a fictional work are intact can promote a more accurate representation of reality and can also help to normalize the intact male body. In many countries around the world, circumcision is not as common as it is in some regions, so assuming all male characters are circumcised can be inaccurate and reinforce the idea that circumcision is the norm.

Additionally, assuming all male characters are circumcised can lead to the erasure of intact men's experiences and perspectives. By assuming that all men are circumcised, we ignore the experiences of intact men and perpetuate the idea that circumcision is the default. This can be harmful to intact men who may feel isolated or stigmatized because of their intactness.

Finally, assuming all male characters are intact can be a way to challenge cultural norms around circumcision and promote a more diverse and inclusive representation of the male body. By including intact male characters in fictional works, we can challenge the idea that circumcision is necessary or desirable and promote a more nuanced understanding of male sexuality and anatomy.

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“People like to theorise and/or justify circumcision in others' works of art and creations, including fantasy worlds. They believe they are being pragmatic about the topic. How do I respond?”

If someone is trying to justify circumcision in a work of art or creation, it's important to remember that these are fictional worlds and should not be used to justify real-life actions. It's important to focus on the reality of the situation and the impact that circumcision can have on real people. It's important to approach these discussions with sensitivity and respect, while also advocating for the bodily autonomy and well-being of all individuals.

If someone is trying to justify or add circumcision to a character or group in a work of fiction that is not their own, it can certainly be seen as a disturbing invasion of someone's creative work. In general, it is important to respect the original creator's vision and intent for their work.

If someone is attempting to justify or add circumcision to a fictional character or group, it may be appropriate to point out that the original creator did not include this detail and that it is not necessary to the story or character development. Additionally, it may be helpful to discuss the harmful effects of circumcision and why it is important to promote body positivity and acceptance.

“These individuals as well as others may also personally assume men they meet are circumcised until proven otherwise. How can I respond?”

You can respond by sharing information and educating them on the prevalence of circumcision and the benefits of keeping the body intact. You can explain that circumcision is not a universal practice and that many cultures and societies do not circumcise. Additionally, you can discuss the harm that can result from circumcision and the importance of bodily autonomy and the right to make decisions about one's own body. Ultimately, it is important to approach the conversation with empathy and a willingness to listen and understand different perspectives.

“Is it better to meet someone with the assumption they have been circumcised?  What about assuming a man is intact? Would that be a better alternative than assuming they have done an irreversible surgery?”

Circumcision is a personal and private matter, and it is not appropriate to make assumptions based on cultural, religious, or societal norms. It is best to approach each person as an individual and not make any assumptions about their body or personal choices.

Assuming a man is intact can be a better alternative than assuming they have undergone circumcision, as intact is the natural state of the male body. It is important to remember that each person's body is unique, and assumptions about their body should not be made without their consent. It is always best to approach conversations about the body with respect and an open mind. If in doubt, it is always appropriate to ask someone about their body and respect their answer.

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“What can we hope for in the future?”

In the future, we can hope for greater awareness and education about the importance of bodily autonomy and the harms of non-consensual genital cutting. We can hope for a world where individuals are respected and celebrated for who they are, rather than judged or stigmatized for their bodies. We can hope for a future where cultural traditions and religious beliefs are not used to justify the violation of an individual's bodily integrity. We can work towards creating a society where every individual has the right to make informed decisions about their own bodies, free from coercion or pressure from others. Through education, advocacy, and open dialogue, we can create a brighter future where genital autonomy is respected and upheld as a fundamental human right.

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“Foreskin was idolized in ancient Greece. What can you tell me about it?”

In ancient Greece, the foreskin was indeed viewed as a symbol of beauty, fertility, and masculinity. The Greeks believed that the foreskin had important functions, such as protecting the glans from friction and injury, enhancing sexual pleasure, and aiding in reproduction. In fact, some Greek sculptors even depicted the god Hermes with a small foreskin, which was considered a sign of youth and vitality.

“What about Rome?”

In ancient Rome, circumcision was not widely practiced, but there is evidence that some small religious groups in the Roman Empire, such as the Jewish community, practiced circumcision. However, the majority of the Roman society did not practice circumcision and actually viewed it as a strange and barbaric practice. Roman philosophers and intellectuals such as Celsus and Cato criticized circumcision as a mutilation of the male body. In fact, in the Roman Empire, there were even laws prohibiting non-medical circumcision of slaves, as it was seen as a form of bodily harm. Overall, circumcision was not a common practice in ancient Rome and was not widely accepted by the general population.

“What about Europe?”

In Europe, circumcision was historically rare and generally limited to Jewish communities. However, during the 19th and 20th centuries, some medical professionals in Europe began promoting circumcision as a means of promoting hygiene and preventing various health problems. This led to an increase in the practice among non-Jewish communities in some parts of Europe, particularly in the early to mid-20th century. However, in recent decades, circumcision rates in Europe have declined, and the practice remains relatively uncommon outside of Jewish and Muslim communities.

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“What can you tell them to make sure they are safe, and that they don't need to mutilate their body and can have a great quality of life as they are?”

Firstly, it's important to understand that having an intact penis is completely normal and natural. It is a common and healthy variation of male anatomy, and there is no need to feel ashamed or insecure about it.

It's also important to recognize that circumcision is a permanent and irreversible procedure that carries significant risks, including pain, bleeding, infection, and long-term complications such as loss of sensitivity and sexual function. In many cases, these risks can outweigh any trivial benefits.

If you are experiencing discomfort or tightness due to a tight foreskin, there are non-invasive methods such as stretching and the use of creams that can be effective in addressing the issue. It's important to consult with a healthcare provider to determine the best course of action for your individual situation.

Ultimately, it's your body and your choice. You have the right to make decisions about your own body and should not feel pressured to conform to societal norms or cultural expectations. Embrace your natural body, and know that you are worthy of respect and love.

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“What kind of creams, stretching or other methods not invasive to the penis can be done?”

There are some non-invasive methods that can be used to address issues related to the prepuce, such as phimosis or tightness of the foreskin. One such method is the application of a topical steroid cream to the area to help reduce inflammation and loosen the skin. This should only be done under the guidance of a medical professional, however.

There are a variety of creams and ointments that can be used to help with foreskin issues. One commonly used cream is a steroid cream, which can help to reduce inflammation and make it easier to stretch the foreskin. The most commonly used steroid cream is betamethasone. It's important to note that steroid creams should only be used under the guidance of a healthcare professional.

Other types of creams that can be helpful include moisturizing creams, which can help to keep the skin on the penis soft and supple, and antibacterial creams, which can help to prevent infections. Some people find that using a combination of these creams is helpful.

It's important to note that not all creams are suitable for everyone, and some people may have allergies or other sensitivities to certain ingredients. It's always a good idea to talk to a healthcare professional before using any new creams or ointments.

Another non-invasive method is foreskin stretching exercises, which involve gently pulling back the foreskin and holding it in that position for a few minutes at a time. This can be done several times a day, gradually increasing the duration of the stretch over time.

Stretching exercises for the foreskin can be done using gentle, gradual tension on the foreskin in order to increase its elasticity and looseness. One method involves pulling the foreskin forward as far as it will comfortably go, then holding it in that position for a few seconds before releasing. Repeat this process several times per day, gradually increasing the length of time that the foreskin is held in the stretched position.

It's important to note that stretching exercises should only be done under the guidance of a medical professional, as there is a risk of injury or worsening the condition if done incorrectly.

*For individuals with scarring or other issues related to retracting the foreskin, it's important to see a doctor or urologist for proper diagnosis and treatment. In some cases, steroid creams or other topical treatments may be recommended to help reduce scarring and promote healing. Surgery may also be necessary in severe cases. It's important to seek medical advice and not try to self-diagnose or self-treat.

“What surgical alternatives are there to circumcision?”

Frenuloplasty: This is a surgical procedure that involves lengthening or removing the frenulum, the small band of tissue that connects the foreskin to the underside of the penis.

Preputioplasty: A surgical procedure that involves making incisions in the foreskin and then stitching them back together in a way that allows the foreskin to retract more easily. This procedure is less invasive than circumcision.

Dorsal slit: A small incision is made on the top of the foreskin to allow it to retract more easily. This procedure is less invasive than circumcision.

Z-plasty: This is a surgical technique that involves making a series of angled incisions in the foreskin to create flaps of tissue that can be repositioned and stitched together to widen the opening of the foreskin.

Partial circumcision: This is a procedure that involves removing only a portion of the foreskin, rather than the entire foreskin.

It's worth noting that the invasiveness of these procedures can vary depending on the specific case and the skill of the surgeon performing the procedure. It's always best to consult with a medical professional to determine the best course of action for an individual case.

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A friend, boyfriend, son, brother, cousin, or other male individual in my life is experiencing shame about his body, and his penis. How can I be there for them? How do I give them space and tell them they are going to be OK?”

If someone you care about is experiencing shame about their body, particularly their penis, it's important to approach the situation with sensitivity and compassion. Here are some ways you can support them:

Validate their feelings: Let them know that you understand that they are feeling ashamed, and that it's okay to feel that way.

Listen actively: Give them space to talk about their feelings and experiences, and listen without judgement or interruption.

Provide information: If they are open to it, you can offer information about the natural functions and benefits of the foreskin, and help to dispel myths and misconceptions about circumcision.

Offer resources: You can direct them to resources such as support groups or online communities for men who have experienced shame or trauma related to their bodies.

Encourage professional help: If the shame or trauma seems to be impacting their daily life and functioning, encourage them to seek help from a mental health professional or other healthcare provider.

Most importantly, respect their boundaries. It's important to respect their boundaries and not push them to talk about anything they're not ready to discuss. 

Let them know that you're there for them and willing to listen whenever they're ready.

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"Of course we all bathe ourselves, so what is the issue? Do people really believe it is much more difficult to wash away bacteria with some water? What could possibly be any other reason? What could be the justification of doing this to a helpless infant?”

There is ongoing debate about the actual medical justifications for routine infant circumcision. Some arguments have been made in the past that circumcision reduces the risk of urinary tract infections (UTIs) in infants and young boys, although the actual risk reduction is relatively small. Other arguments include reducing the risk of sexually transmitted infections (STIs), although this can be mitigated with safe sex practices such as condom use.

It is important to note that these potential benefits need to be weighed against the potential risks and harms of circumcision, including pain, bleeding, infection, and psychological trauma. It is ultimately up to each individual or family to weigh the risks and benefits and make an informed decision that they believe is best for them and their child. However, it is important that this decision is made with accurate and unbiased information, and not based on myths or cultural or social pressures.

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“How can we identify a parent gaslighting or manipulating the child to consider or consent to circumcision?”

It can be difficult to identify if a parent is gaslighting or manipulating a child to consider or consent to circumcision, as it may not always be obvious or overt. However, some signs to look out for may include:

The parent putting pressure on the child to undergo circumcision without providing adequate information or allowing them to make an informed decision.

The parent using fear or guilt to persuade the child, such as telling them that they will be an outcast or be at risk of health problems if they do not undergo the procedure.

The parent disregarding the child's objections or concerns about the procedure.

The parent using language that minimizes the child's bodily autonomy or portrays circumcision as a routine or trivial procedure.

The parent dismissing the child's questions or concerns about circumcision as irrational or unfounded.

If you suspect that a parent is gaslighting or manipulating a child in relation to circumcision, it may be appropriate to seek the advice of a medical or legal professional, or to contact a child protection agency if you believe the child is in danger.

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“Those who think it is a medical necessity may need to reconsider their priorities,  and have an unrealistic idea of humanity.”

It is important to acknowledge that there are varying perspectives and beliefs surrounding circumcision, and some may see it as a necessary medical procedure for certain conditions or as a cultural or religious practice. It is important to approach these discussions with respect and an open mind, while also recognizing the potential harm that can come from unnecessary or non-consensual procedures.

“What conditions?”

There are some medical conditions that may require circumcision as a treatment option. These conditions include severe phimosis, paraphimosis, recurrent balanitis, and penile cancer. However, it is important to note that circumcision should only be considered as a last resort after other less invasive treatment options have been explored and that the decision should be made on a case-by-case basis with input from both the patient and their healthcare provider.

“How can penile cancer be a reason? Circumcision only removes the foreskin, not the penis.”

Penile cancer is a rare but serious condition that can develop in the penis. Although circumcision is not a cure for penile cancer, some studies suggest that it may reduce the risk of developing the disease. This is because the foreskin can trap bacteria and other substances that can increase the risk of infection and inflammation, which can increase the risk of penile cancer. However, it's important to note that there are other factors that can contribute to the development of penile cancer, such as smoking, human papillomavirus (HPV) infection, and poor hygiene, and circumcision is not a guarantee against the disease. Regular checkups and good hygiene practices are still important for preventing penile cancer.

“Are you implying intact penises are naturally carcinogenic?”

No, that is not what I am saying. Penile cancer is a rare disease that can occur in both circumcised and uncircumcised males. However, studies have shown that circumcision can reduce the risk of developing penile cancer, especially in men who are at higher risk due to certain medical conditions or lifestyle factors. Nonetheless, circumcision is not considered a necessary or routine measure to prevent penile cancer and regular medical checkups and hygiene practices can help to detect and prevent the disease.

“What studies? What small percentage can get rid of penile cancer? It is obvious because if you're removing less penis, you have less potential cancer. The same can be said for my feet. I'd have less chance of getting foot cancer if were to remove my toes.”

I apologize for any confusion. I did not mean to suggest that intact penises are carcinogenic in nature. While some studies have suggested a link between foreskin and an increased risk of penile cancer, the overall risk of penile cancer is very low in both circumcised and uncircumcised men. In fact, the American Cancer Society does not recommend routine circumcision as a way to prevent penile cancer. Instead, they recommend practicing good hygiene and safer sex practices to reduce the risk of developing penile cancer. It is important to consult with a medical professional to discuss any concerns or questions regarding penile cancer and circumcision.

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“What about trauma? How can someone take legal action against someone?”

If someone has experienced trauma related to circumcision or other genital mutilation, they may consider seeking legal action against the perpetrator. In some cases, this could be a medical professional who performed the procedure without proper consent or justification, or it could be a parent or other individual who coerced or forced the individual to undergo the procedure.

The specific legal options available may vary depending on the location and circumstances of the incident, but potential options may include filing a civil lawsuit for damages, reporting the incident to law enforcement or medical authorities, or seeking support from advocacy organizations.

It is important for individuals who have experienced trauma to seek appropriate medical and psychological support as well, in order to address the physical and emotional effects of the trauma and to begin the healing process.

“Should intact men feel ashamed for being born normal? How should they respond to circumcised men who bully them?”

No, intact men should not feel ashamed for being born with a natural body. It is their right to keep their body intact, and they should feel proud of it. As for circumcised men who bully them, it is important to educate them about the benefits of being intact and the risks and harms associated with circumcision. It is also important to set boundaries and not tolerate any form of bullying or shaming. Everyone should respect each other's choices and bodies.

“It is difficult to respect an individuals choice on circumcision. How can I move forward?”

It is important to remember that individuals have the right to make their own choices regarding their own bodies. While one person may consider circumcision as mutilation, another person may see it as a cultural or religious practice or a medical necessity. It is important to approach these discussions with respect and understanding, and to recognize that there are differing perspectives and beliefs on the matter. Ultimately, it is up to each individual to decide what they believe is best for their own body.

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“What is intact care?”

Intact care refers to the proper care and hygiene practices that are necessary to maintain a healthy and clean foreskin in males who are uncircumcised. It involves cleaning the penis and the foreskin regularly with warm water, avoiding harsh soaps or cleaning agents, and gently retracting the foreskin only as far as it can comfortably go without causing pain or discomfort. Proper intact care can help prevent infections and other issues related to the foreskin.

“Is it intact, or is it uncircumcised?”

Both "intact" and "uncircumcised" refer to a penis that has not undergone circumcision. However, "intact" is a term that emphasizes the natural state of the penis, while "uncircumcised" is a term that defines the penis by what it is not. Some people prefer the term "intact" as it puts a positive emphasis on the natural state of the penis, while others prefer "uncircumcised" as it is more straightforward and commonly used in medical contexts. Ultimately, the choice of terminology is a matter of personal preference.

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“Some women and men try to coerce their partners and other people who are bullied into being circumcised. How can this be defended in a legal setting?”

In a legal setting, coercing someone into undergoing circumcision or any other medical procedure is not only unethical but also illegal. Consent is a fundamental principle in medical ethics and law, and it is important to respect an individual's right to bodily autonomy and self-determination.

If someone is coerced or bullied into undergoing circumcision, it can be considered a form of physical or emotional abuse, and legal action can be taken to protect the individual's rights. It is important to have open and honest communication with partners and to never pressure or coerce them into any medical decision.

“What about parents guilting, shaming, or otherwise threatening to circumcise or enforce other invasive treatments? How can this be defended in a legal setting?”

In general, parental pressure or coercion to force a child to undergo any form of medical treatment, including circumcision, is not acceptable. The child's bodily integrity and autonomy should be respected, and the decision to undergo any medical procedure should be made by the individual themselves when they are able to give informed consent.

If a parent or guardian is found to be using threats, guilt, or other forms of coercion to force a child to undergo circumcision, it could be considered a violation of the child's rights and could be addressed through legal action. In such cases, child protection agencies or legal authorities may become involved to ensure that the child's rights and wellbeing are protected.

“What can the child do if their body is violated during a doctor's visit? What can the child do if Forced retraction, that has caused a lasting effect of damage to the prepuce, gives the child trauma? What can be done for the child?”

If a child experiences any form of violation or harm during a doctor's visit, it is important to report the incident to the appropriate authorities. In cases of forced retraction, which can cause trauma and damage to the prepuce, it is important for the child to receive proper medical attention to address the issue and prevent further harm. This may include seeking care from a healthcare provider who is knowledgeable about intact care and can provide appropriate treatment and advice.

It is also important for parents and caregivers to educate themselves about proper intact care and to advocate for their child's bodily autonomy and rights. This may involve discussing their preferences with healthcare providers, seeking out knowledgeable providers, and advocating for their child's right to make their own decisions about their body when they are able to do so.