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dracolizardlars · 8 months

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The more I think about it the less I have even the slightest desire or need to get married or think that there's any chance that I ever will. I just don't get it at all. Completely not for me. If I ever end up technically getting legally married for financial reasons there'll be no ceremony.

#for context been with my s/o for 10 very happy years and have every intention of staying together for the rest of my life #I think not only is it just........ pointless but also it's that marriage would make me... a 'wife'?#it's so... gender binary #you know?#I know it doesn't have to be and absolutely more power to nonbinary folks who are married or want to get married!#but I just associate marriage so strongly with both gender roles and Christianity both of which seriously wig me out #also as for a wedding ceremony I legitimately cannot think of a single worse thing #draco speaks #but yeah mostly I just don't get the point? like okay I guess it signals your commitment to each other but my s/o and I don't need to?#we already know that #also we're both completely open to polyamory at the same time so like that aspect of marriage is stupid and not relevant to us

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