#anchorstatements

[drmarr]

“I suck at dating,” is what I thought when I first started dating… I am a serial monogamist - went from a 5 year relationship to another 5 year, to 6, etc… no dating in between. So by the time I started dating, I didn’t really know what to do 😆 At 32, I had literally never been on ONE casual date. (Talk about overthinking!) UNfortunately, this lead me to think I had to be flexible in my approach to getting to know people as I “wasn’t sure what I was doing…”. This lead me to give people more chances, when in reality, they were signs to close the door (immediately 😆). And at my core I knew that, but I still questioned myself. This was new territory. “Maybe this is what dating is like?”, I thought. FORTUNATELY, I learned quite quickly, that if you don’t like how the situation is making you FEEL, THAT is all that matters. THAT is what you listen to, and THAT takes top priority. This is the power of an anchor statement. The moment I started owning this, making it my philosophy, making it the only thing that mattered (above and beyond all excuses or justifications for behavior and feelings), is the exact moment I started to trust in love, feel whole, and feel hopeful. You don’t need to make excuses for behavior that doesn’t align with your needs. What you want exists (and you deserve it). #KnowThis #dating101 #datingadvice #newtodating #thedatingworld #findinglove #findingloveagain #anchorstatements #isuckatdating #firstdate #firstdates #dating #truetoyourself #selflove #selftrust #serialmonogamist #breakup #breakuprecovery #trustyourself #respectyourboundaries #healthydating #learninghowtodateagain #relationshipcoach #relationshipadvice #meaningfullove #meaningfulrelationships #loveyourlove #lovelove #youdeservelove #startingagain https://www.instagram.com/p/CcnW2qnOKYZ/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[drmarr]

If you trusted, that “ You are exactly where you are meant to be right now, for a reason.” Genuinely… for a really important reason, how would that calm your anxiety for the future and regret from the past? And if you don’t LIKE the place you are right now, that’s even more telling… ask yourself, then what is that feeling telling me about what I DO want? What lesson is the universe trying to teach me right now? Because rather than “hate” where you are, the faster you embrace the lesson, is going to be the faster way out… There IS value in every situation if we choose to find it. Trusting that you are exactly where you are meant to be, (if you were meant to be somewhere else, ya would be!) is an incredible, life changing skill to DEVELOP. Accept this as truth (easiest done with the 10 principles of the 6/12 week intensive!!), and you will feel your life shift. #6weekintensive for those who are beyond READY #12week version for those who need to commit to change and growth #lifecoachingskills #mindsetiseverything #theuniverseisworkinginmyfavor #mindsethack #mindsettips #howtorelax #learnhowtorelax #relaxintolife #lifechanging #lifechangingskills #lacanauocean #stthomasontario #boymom #howtolovelife #embracelife #secrettoliving #secretstohappiness #secrettohappiness #principlestoliveby #anchorstatements #dailyaffirmations #dailyaffirmation #quotestoliveby #personalphilosophy #philosophyoflife #10disciplines #ipeccoach #internationalmindsetcoach https://www.instagram.com/p/Cehi9pkj1du/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=