"DNI-Related Controlling Behaviors: The use of a DNI to try to enforce control over anyone who so much as ‘likes’ a post of theirs to an unhealthy degree, often backed up with social shaming, harassment, and callouts. The DNI may also be used as a social ‘trap’ to create an acceptable target for abuse. NOTE: While reasonable boundaries are good and DNIs are not by themselves red flags, this goes beyond reasonable boundaries and into unreasonable controlling behaviors. The use of ‘DNI’ in this criterion refers to all ‘boundary rule’-esque pages such as BYFs and other such things, not just DNIs.
"Vagueing, harassing, making callouts, or otherwise attacking people who are using the website as intended (i.e.- interacting with posts on their feed in any fashion without stalking the op) and likely did not see the DNI. Especially if the DNI is hidden or nonspecific and vague (ex- ‘no freaks’ or ‘standard DNI’), making them even easier to violate by accident.
"Frequently interacts aggressively with people who are clearly on their DNIs and then calls them boundary violators for responding to the harassment."
- Excerpt from "Safety in Alterhuman Spaces," a document by the Dragonheart Collective. Emphasis in the original. You can read the whole document here (PDF).
A note on language in the above quote: DNI (Do Not Interact) and BYF (Before You Follow) mean a type of post that many people put on their social media accounts to tell others about their boundaries.
wait so what else is up with awoken amethyst besides the reflection thing
oh boy oh boy oh boy do I have an essay for you! it's mostly irl nerd stuff, but!!
Awoken amethyst is nothing like amethyst from Earth! Actual amethyst is almost always purple [but can have blue as a secondary hue], usually has color zoning and belongs to the hexagonal crystal family. Awoken amethyst is blue, has no color zoning, and has a pentagonal structure [which doesn't occur naturally]. Also, a lot of it hums and glows!
It is so unlike actual amethyst that it has been compared to a variety of other gems/minerals, including azurite, fluorite, tanzanite, sodalite/lapis lazuli and agate. So far, the Oracle Engine seems to be the main exception:
"But some of it looks purple. Why is that?" Good question! From what I've seen, it comes down to lighting and backlighting. In the Confluence and Blind Well, Awoken amethyst looks purple in the shadows but is blue when you step back. In The Corrupted strike and seasonal areas like the Coil, it's the opposite - it's purple from afar yet blue up close. The Last Wish raid shows it in purple backlighting at first, before giving way to its true color (blue).
Something something "nothing is as it seems," I suppose.
There is one more exception besides the Oracle Engine, however. And I think it's an interesting one. At the very back of Harbinger's Seclude, by the statue of the first Awoken queen Alis Li, the arches are clearly purple and resemble polished irl amethyst. What does it mean? I have no idea, I'm not a lore expert. But I wouldn't be surprised if it did mean something.
Other than that, I only know the standard lore stuff about Awoken amethyst. It's a symbol of Awoken royalty, it can be created thru Awoken favor, Techeuns use it to enhance their powers, it was once given as diplomatic gifts to Eliksni, so on and so forth. And yes, Mara did wish for the Dreaming City to be built out of amethyst.
Being a rockhound and aspiring mineralogist [and Awoken lore enthusiast], I'm always on the lookout for amethyst-related lore, but this is all I've got at the moment lol. Also I don't know if I actually answered your question but thank you for the Ask!!
Here is a screenshot of my Hunter as a token of my appreciation:
— what i write for: one piece, jujutsu kaisen, attack on titan, tokyo revengers, haikyuu (← will update if more come to mind…i’ve so many shows atp i’ve forgotten the majority of them)
↝ minors, do not interact with me or the 18+ content on this blog. i tag them as #rated.
↝ blank blogs will be soft-blocked.
↝ hateful/negative messages, or ones that instigate drama/discourse will go straight to the bin. if this is truly urgent, please go off anon to tell me.
PLEASE—
↝ feel free to call me sel (she/her), or any other cute nickname you'd like!
↝ drop by to chat any time! i'd love to hear about your day, fics, our faves, and more! i'd love for this lil space to grow into a safe and warm environment for everyone! 🤍
+ (i am open to talking about 18+ things but not abuse, hard degradation, and pedophilia.)
↝ do not repost or copy my works anywhere, and do not recommend them anywhere outside of tumblr.
↝ do not spam like my posts. it makes it difficult for me to see my other notifications.
↝ do not ask me to become moots. we can still talk and be friends regardless!
↝ do not send me a request to write something unless it is part of an event/game i am participating in.
↝ do not ask me to give feedback on your work unless we talk consistently (i.e. you have my discord). i like to be genuine with the opinions i share, and asking me directly when we are not close makes it awkward for me to do that. i'd hate to potentially offend you, and it's difficult for me to critique something honestly unless we're at a certain level of closeness. hope you can respect this!
↝ refrain from asking me 'what happened to [tumblr user]'. chances are, i'm not sure either, and wouldn't want to speak for them in case they want their reasons to be kept private.
↝ feel free to bring things to my attention (whatever it may be), but i ask that you do it kindly and respectfully.
ABOUT ME?
↝ i write f!reader unless stated, for bnha, jjk, hq (though i rarely use pronouns, so they can be read as gn too!)
↝ i rarely write explicit 18+, though i do interact and reblog 18+ content.
↝ i am on a perpetual queue—not ignoring you, just probably busy!
↝ i keep my reading list as well as tagged posts that i intend to do later on in my drafts!
↝ i sometimes queue answered asks so as to not clog the dash!
ꕤ crack (honestly my fave cuz i think i'm so funny (i'm not)
ꕤ angst (i can't stand it if our wb babies are sad so usually happy ending lol)
ꕤ suggestive content
⟡ what i don't write ⟡
ꕤ i like to experiment so i'm ok with anything (mostly soft stuff) as long as it inspires my creativity!
⟡ characters i write for ⟡
ꕤ everyone in wind breaker!
ꕤ but my favorites are: ren kaji (ofc), suo and sakura - because i find their personalities so interesting!
⟡ (please read byf!) ⟡
ꕤ i will interact with and share content from 18+ blogs, but for now i am planning to keep my own writings sfw but some of them will be a little spicy and suggestive (if yk what i mean) i will announce if there will be any changes so read/follow at your own risk!
ꕤ my writings are usually written from a female perspective!
ꕤ even if my requests are closed, i'm always open to suggestions, asks and imagines for wind breaker characters
ꕤ you are always welcome to send me inbox messages / dms! please do take note that i may not be able to reply to all of them cuz sometimes i forget or it takes me a long time to think about my response but i do appreciate your patience so much ♡
ꕤ i am pro-self shipping! in both writing and art~ i like shipping my mooties with characters too if i think they look cute together
ꕤ please be warned - i am prone to rambling a lot in the tags of my reblogs, since it's my way of showing my appreciation to the creators ^^
ꕤ please always be respectful - kindness is a virtue!
˖° 𐙚 about mii (⁎⁍̴̛ᴗ⁍̴̛⁎)⋆˚✿₊⊹♡
ꕤ intp-a, leo
ꕤ likes: clovers, cherries, bunnies, miffy, matcha, mochi, BL manga
ꕤ dislikes: pessimists, small spaces, crowds, close mindedness
ꕤ fun fact: i am extremely curious about anything and everything!
ꕤ in my 20s but ppl still think i'm 16 smh asian genes
❥ my loves: kaji (wb), tsukki (hq!!), megumi (jjk), rin (bllk)
I love that poll going around because I've seen three of my trusted friends and mutuals include Fau.st in some way. We don't appreciate racist behavior here, no matter how "pretty" she is.
I am an aspiring author and currently in university.
I have Audhd and dyscalculia, so writing and drawing is my safe space :)
I like meeting new people and interacting with other self shippers - especially if we're in the same fandoms! My DM's are open - feel free to tell me about your self ships etc! :3 (just be nice please LOL)
I also do art commissions at Ko-Fi!
I romantically self ship with Ignacio Varga from Better call Saul, and Ágata Jiménez from La casa de papel.
I'm not comfortable sharing them.
My secondary romantic f/o is Elaine Benes from Seinfeld!
hi yes hello I didn’t know what destiny even was before finding your blog - other than one of the games my brother is always yelling at - but now I’m 8 hours deep into the my name is byf story overview video with no end in sight lol
So yeah! Thanks for the new hyperfixation! (I mean that genuinely btw I’m having the time of my life)
I think Destiny is the type of game you accidentally get into.
Like I always thought it was just a game that Bungie put out after halo. Didn’t understand why it lasted so long.
And then I got into mass effect and really started getting into science fiction.
Then I picked it up during the pandemic because my partner was playing the Beyond Light expansion (probably the worst time to because they vaulted a lot of previous content with that expansion) a lot and I’ve been hooked since. (Coming up to 3000 hours played in 4 years)
Lore and story are like top notch. It’s rich at the world building feels realistic too.
they called you a freak while shipping JINBROOK??!!
¯\_(ツ)_/¯
we are not measuring problematic peepees, i dont think that im called a freak purely for what lwbp are. if i was just drawing them as a cute loving couple that they are (which is the majority of my stuff) and nothing else, i'd probably be more accepted by antis - but do i want to be accepted by antis? hell naw
Annoying that one of the few D2 content creators on YouTube I know of that is actually funny and entertaining regularly shits on the characters and story I enjoy.
✤ if you are under 18
✤ if you fit basic dni criteria, ie: racist, homophobic, sexist, etc.
𝐁𝐄𝐅𝐎𝐑𝐄 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐅𝐎𝐋𝐋𝐎𝐖
✤ minors do not interact. if you are under 18 please don't come onto my blog
✤ ageless + blank blogs will be blocked
✤ sfw + nsfw context, things will be tagged accordingly. if they are not, please feel free to send in an ask and inform me!
✤ i do not take requests, please don't send any in
✤ please do not ask me for part two's on my works
✤ i do post about spoilers/leaks, things will be tagged as "jjk leaks" or "jjk[chapter number]"
𝐑𝐔𝐋𝐄𝐒
✤ please do not spam like my works, i have heard that can get me shadowbanned
✤ feel free to come into my inbox at any time, it should always be open
✤ please do not ask to be mutuals, i feel like i get put into an awkward position
✤ in addition, please do not dm me if we are not mutuals (my ask box is always open for any questions or comments!)
✤ my sfw works are usually gender neutral unless otherwise stated
✤ my nsfw works will always be fem reader, as it is what i am most comfortable writing
i also have a sideblog @/kaeyeahs where i just reblog works i've been meaning to read. it's used to keep track of fics on my tbr list so that they don't get buried on my main blog. temporary spot before they are eventually rbed onto my main blog.
mutuals, feel free to strike up a convo or ask for my discord (or genshin uid hehe) anytime or tag me in your works! ily all ♡
STOP FUCKING REPOSTING MY SHIT TO PINTEREST WITHOUT LINKING MY PAGE OR GIVING CREDIT ARRRRRGHHHHH
Heya! I am 18, but my blog is minor friendly. I will NEVER post NSFW content, but there may be some artful nudity.
I am neurodiverse so sometimes I struggle to communicate and understand social norms so please don't shy away from being strict with me if I cross a line. I do not use or require tone tags but should you need one please do not feel afraid to ask.
I am acespec. Please do not be a weirdo.
Request info under cut!
Requests will be of lower quality than my normal art. I am a full time student with two jobs! Normal asks are also invited and welcome <3
Please only send requests involving the following fandoms:
MLP (any gen)
The Simpsons
American Dad
Family Guy
Bojack Horseman
OC requests will only be taken if it involves an interaction with my OCs or sonas (Silly String, etc.)!
🌷 Allora, 26, she/her or fae/faer (they/them is also acceptable, though not preferred)
🌷 Jewish femme lesbian, real life fairytale princess, focused on healing and appreciating the world around me
🌷 Fairycore, cottagecore, princesscore, fairytale aesthetics, pink and green aesthetics, hopeful/recovery text posts, occasional personal posts
🌷 I'm an alter in a DID system. Our host Lior's blog, which has some darker aesthetics and more miscellaneous posts than this one, is @briar--rising. It's a sideblog, it follows from here. Don't know what DID is? That's fine, this blog is mainly for aesthetics, more intense personal posts are probably mainly going to be on @briar--rising
🌷 I love my trans sisters; TERFS/gender critical blogs etc will be blocked. I'm Jewish and queer; tradwives and trad christians (especially those who believe all women should be feminine/wives etc) will also be blocked. I also block anyone else whose vibes I don't like <3