#and he smashes things when he gets mad and he’s disrespectful and narcissistic

[mercurialshigh]

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[sortavibing]

hiii (◕ᴗ◕✿) can i request for a match-up for the haikyuu boys? i'm a 4"10 girl with wavy black-brown hair that reaches my waist! my eyes are black brown too, & my skin tone ranges from tan to fair! i am also asian! ｡◕‿◕｡ i am quite thicc (yes thicc) but i am toned! i'm an enfp but despite my extraversion, i can be quite shy around new people and i can be a bit distant, too! i have a sharp sense of wit & humor, i can be talkative but i'm not boisterous i guess (｡•̀ᴗ-)✧ i do have a talent for reading people & the situation tho! when i do feel comfortable, that's when i can get talkative! i can snap back sarcastically if the situation calls for it or if i feel like it but other times, i'm pretty chill. i do not have a concrete aesthetic (◕દ◕) i'm fine with sporty, athletic aesthetics & street fashion, i'm cool with cottagecore & looking dainty, sometimes i dress in a 90s style, whatever goes according to my mood! i'm not very athletic bc i never took up sports although i've been told to do so before. i've been told i'm very smart & talented, gifted even, but ig i'm burnt out HAHAHA point is, i'm not a very bookish person but i'm definitely not dumb either 😌 my hobbies include watching anime, listening to music, playing games, and napping! in a relationship, i can get confident but tbh i am screaming internally HAHHA usually, in my relationships, i'm the louder one! i am very tolerant and am usually the one to adjust to my S/O! i am very sensitive but i usually won't say anything to my S/O if they did something wrong. i'm a huge sucker for soft, pure relationships but also SPICY ones (人 •͈ᴗ•͈) if it helps, my type of guy is usually the strong silent one, the socially selective one, or the really cocky, sarcastic one! i'm also lowkey a sucker for height differences teehee

(ps i kin oikawa! yes we both have issues about inferiority & superiority & we can become narcissistic to hide our insecurities,, bonus: i'm a burnt out A+ student)

 pt.2 of request: hii (◕ᴗ◕✿) same girl here! the 4"10 asian enfp! i'd like to add i have strong facial features too! i have long eyelashes but they're not noticeable so i look like i don't have them ಠ︵ಠ i have thick eyebrows, thick lips, & deep set hazel eyes! i wear glasses! when i wear them, i look very scholarly & soft but i've been told that without them, i look kinda bitchy & intimidating HAHAHA

hello! thank you for requesting! please the gifted kid burnout is real for me😐ahaha i should be studying for a social studies test and writing a la essay but whatever i’d rather do this. anyways, here’s your matchup!

i match you up with atsumu!

this man is the cocky sarcastic person you are looking for :) he will never give up an opportunity to make a shady comment that is really obviously shady, and he KNOWS he’s really good at volleyball, and he will not hesitate to offhandedly mention it in a conversation. just the vibes atsumu gives off radiate that “i know i’m better than you” energy, but it doesn’t mean he’s disrespectful or anything, he just knows he’s hot shit and he isn’t afraid to say it.

he loves to show you off to his friends, because he wants the whole world to know that he was able to get such a beautiful girlfriend, and he also wants osamu to never forget that he got a s/o before him. atsumu will always compliment you whenever you guys are out in public, because he just wants you to know how amazing you are.

atsumu is really clingy, and he is a big fan of pda, so if you are comfortable, he will always be around you, with his arm wrapped around you shoulder, waist, or holding your hand, because he loves being around you, and if he’s able to do it whenever he wants, that’s an added plus. he will always ask before he does anything more touchy, like kissing, because we stan a man who asks for consent😌

every couple of weeks you guys binge an anime together, and the entire time atsumu will make comments about what he would’ve done, or how much he hates a character. you guys have gotten into many playful arguments over anime plots and fight scenes, and they almost always end in you hitting him with a pillow, and then atsumu playfully tackling you until you have to surrender.

you guys also really like to play video games with each other, and atsumu’s favorite game to play with is super smash bros, because you guys get really competitive, and sometimes even bet things on who you guys think will win. atsumu may or may not lose on purpose just to see you smile when you beat him :)

when you and atsumu nap together, atsumu likes to be the big spoon, and he always likes to play soft music while you guys just talk about whatever until you guys fall asleep. atsumu also likes when he is laying on his back, and you lay on your stomach on top of him, and he runs his fingers through your hair while humming along to the music.

he will make dirty jokes in public to see how you will react, and if you do react, he will keep on doing it until you get mad at him. if you fire back with a dirty joke, he will just stop midsentence in surprise, and then quickly rethink his life and stop talking. for the rest of the convo, he will be in a slight state of shock, because he thought he was the dirtier of you guys, but then you proved him wrong.

before he met you, atsumu had bad music taste- like he only listened to trap remixes and the wii menu theme, but once you introduced him to your favorite songs, he quickly became hooked and started sharing the same taste as you. he still likes the wii music though, so if you guys are listening to his playlist, it will randomly pop up, and he will quckly skip it, and pretend that he doesn’t like the song. (ok but it’s a bop tho🤠)

he really likes when you come to his volleyball games, so for a few days leading up to a game, he will offhandedly mention it, until you offer to come, and then he’ll pretend that it was your idea, while poorly masking his excitement. once he sees you at the game, he will immediately point you out to his teammates, and whenever he performs a good serve or set, he will look at you and wink.

overall, you guys are a couple that can really act like themselves around each other, and you guys aren’t afraid of what the other will think of them. people envy you guys for your chaotic energy and care for each other, and atsumu thinks you are so pretty and smart, so he is sure to remind you about this every chance he gets.

i hope you enjoyed!

[raven-dale]

y don't u ship chair

,, really? In 2018? This needs to be asked?

I’m - I hope I don’t seem like I’m trying to be obtuse anon but this ask has me shook lol

But if you want to know, I’ll tell ya

So I genuinely hate ch*ir and ch*ck bass. I 100% hate them to an inch of my life. They’re worse than a NOTP. I’ve never experienced a ship that made my blood boil like this one, I just. Make it stop.

And here goes the reasons :

1) Chuck Bass is a terrible person. He is genuinely a piece of shit. In the first episode alone he sexually assaulted Jenny and Serena and in conjunction with that attempted to rape an underage Jenny. He then later (S3?) admitted to sexually assaulting female workers at his dad’s hotel and all he had to say about it was that he wasn’t that person anymore. Lol. And besides that, he doesn’t even have any other redeeming qualities either. He’s narcissistic, selfish, always blaming other people, never takes responsibility for his actions. Chuck Bass is terrible and I don’t want to hear shit about he changed, fucking BS. the only person he was a stomachable character with was Eva. And that didn’t last long either.

2) He treats Blair terribly and is just bad for her. The most striking of the earlier moments is when he akins her to a prostitute in a derogotary way I think his words were “rode hard and put away wet” like wow. If I didn’t already hate the thought of ch*ir, that sealed the deal. This is not the last time he slutshames, disrespects and insults her. Oh, let’s not forget the time HE SOLD HER FOR A HOTEL. If you haven’t watched GG (DON’T IT’S THE WORST sjskdkdkdld) that actually happened. He sold her, to his perverted uncle for a hotel. Real love story potential ayyyye? And then, and then! After she chases Eva away (which I’ll admit he had a right to be angry about) he actually declares war on her. Like legit, threats and all. And he then goes out of his way to make her life terrible, including screwing with her career. AND THEN, JUST WHEN I THOUGHT THIS FUCKING SHIP COULDN’T GET MORE TOXIC : He smashes a glass window next to her face, glass cutting her in the process, after telling her that she can’t marry Louis because “you’re mine” and I’m sorry but that’s literal assault and I refuse to ship that. Just some additional points : he consistently puts himself before her (disclaimer: there are points when he puts her first but I mean…), e.g he expects her to be fine with him having success whether or not they’re together despite her success being challenged when they’re together. Another thing, is how he encourages her worse qualities but then gets mad at her when he is not in the mood or when it has adverse consequences for him, i.e. he encourages her scheming but then when it’s at his expense he is pissed off and doesn’t even let her explain (which when paralleled to the way Dan reacts to her scheming like here x is very telling).

3) Blair is not good for him. I love Blair, she’s amazing and even with her messy qualities I stan. But that doesn’t change the fact that, maybe not to the same extent but still, like he is a bad influence on her she’s also a bad influence on him. She messes with his life and doesn’t give him what he needs (a therapist and jail time tbh) and she -despite acknowledging his terrible behavior and traits- still idolizes him as her “one great love”. Don’t even get me started on how she schemed to make him chase Eva off, despite Eva being the single best thing to ever happen to Chuck. And her insecurities and his narcissistic and all around fucked up personality was a match made in hell.

4) Their love was toxic. It was all the things love shouldn’t be. But all the things movies paint as a great love. It was toxic, unhealthy, terribly painful to have to watch. A girl genuinely thinking her abuser was the one. A girl choosing a good love, a pure love rooted in respect and trust and equality for someone who wanted her based on his whims. It’s truly sad and heartbreaking to watch.

And that’s just a small composition on why I don’t ship them. 

Another thing : I never shipped them. There was never one point when I was like “wow they’re cute, I ship” because I love Blair. And she deserves better than Chuck Bass. Most people I know shipped them at some point or another but I can’t.

If this post offended you, I’m sorry but I genuinely can’t find it in me to even respect the ship or the character.

[sweet-xoxo-thatcares]

Why does growing up have to include me having kids and getting married?

I don't even know if I just wanna get married because somebody I used to be in love with was evil enough to kick me to the curb for getting engaged to their weird ass, controlling gf...

Or....yea maybe I just want a man to protect me and care for me at least just as much and even better than my dad could when he wasn't with me at school or at the time I kept my gay-fwb-bdsm-abuse scenario a secret from him....but he knows now.

I'd hate to see what happens if my dad was to see them in person, he's very protective of me.

I think maybe I just a want a better, much more rich, stable, healthier marriage than them, so I don't feel like the only representations of marriage I've seen personally was my parents and this abusive couple....who obviously have issues and still continue to sleep with other people even before they said I do yet...its like why even get married if your needs aren't even being met emotionally, mentally, spiritually, and physically with this person you've been with for over 6 years and they're still making attempts to break the rules you made for them so THEY WOULDN'T CHEAT ON YOU and yet they still continue to do so....

Yea I'd rather wait for the right on to prove to me otherwise. Cause what's the point of getting married to somebody who makes you feel like you're not good enough, doesn't wanna change, and never sees anything wrong with their bad, rude, mad, disrespectful behavior towards you? And then on top of that, continues to flirt with other women just because they have an appetite that never gets fulfilled because they have a sex addiction that ultimately surrounds your relationship that both of you are completely in denial of?

Like why are they pretending like their love is the strongest, healthiest, best thing in the world on social media, practically bragging about her when every time I see her she's looking for attention from other people and you're looking for women who look better than her to fuck. Like why not spend that time you guys spend on swiping on tinder and actually communicate how you two truly feel about being married, cause raising a kid in that toxic, sex crazed environment, where validation comes from you two hurting each other, breaking boundaries....like why even raise a child in that?

Ayunna said she wants to raise a baby because she's depressed. Thats not a good idea. Because babies don't always bring happiness. Just temporary until the real responsibility kicks in.

Look at my mom and my aunties for example, you lose sleep, back pains, fights, and arguments come from stressing out about a baby. And Ayunna is so damn cold, damaged, and emotionally closed off...I don't even wanna know what kind of fuck-up those two are gonna raise together. Because if you encourage and tolerate narcissistic, sociopathic, sadistic, and emotional abuse in your home...imagine what that child is gonna learn from these twisted idiots who have no idea how to even heal from their pasts and stop taking advantage of other people.

They're not good people, and bad people make bad parents. Just saying. Especially if you don't even care about taking care of each other's emotional insecurities, being completely honest with one another, or establishing morals....like these mfs don't even have morals. All they do is lie and have their way.

Real talk they don't even deserve to be parents until learn how to parent themselves the way their families never loved them. Cause we already got so many crazy, lost kids starting up so much chaos in the world and fucking up people's lives, it's a disaster.

Justice needs to happen before any of these two become real parents, capable of being there for a child and not abandoning them just because they get on their nerves or for being too sensitive. That's the main reason they really don't have friends, cause they keep people out even when somebody is nice to them, they don't know how to talk and communicate with people in general, and they don't know how to compromise or delegate or just be a team member. Y'all suck and it shows on how ya'll negotiate. Not everybody is gonna kiss your ass Ayunna and nobody is gonna bow down and do as you say, Jay. So stop. Y'all are not king and queen, and Jay as a king would be a tyrant, keeping all the resources for themselves and Ayunna, the only people that matter to them.

And you wonder why you would call me when you were upset that Ayunna didn't wanna hold you at night? Hmmm Mr. I'm-So-Lonely and you engaged to be to this person. Ya'll both make me sick, so y'all figure that shit out by yourselves.

Imma find me a more sensible, reasonable, hard-working, cooperative, adaptable, envisioned, who actually know what they want, and it won't be just for having all the sex they want with me or looking at other girls to smash....no.

No more fuckbois. No more fake love. No more bullshit. I'm tired of letting idiots like them win and get away with it, when they don't deserve anything for hurting people like that and thinks its ok and that its all the victim's fault for not catching onto to their stupid, childish "poke me, don't poke me" game.

This is not Simon Says, or Jaiden says, or whoever your multiple personalities keep twisting and changing into. I don't care that you think you can change your name, change your gender, and grow a beard and that's supposed to make me respect you as a whole new person when you never owned up to what you did as the you without it. Your spirit still hasn't changed, and that's much more needed for a washing, cleansing, and therapy than anything else. You sick Spencer, from the hills, Bastard Bitch.