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#and to cultivate self-worth and solace in something other than receiving that one specific thing
13eyond13
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#as somebody who is unfortunately probably older than a lot of other people here by now
#lemme just do my thing and dispense wisdom nobody asked for once more
#guess what adults also still crave that parenting they never got when they were younger too
#or perhaps that overindulgent parenting that they got spoiled by and addicted to
#emotionally my 88 year old grandma is still a child on the inside looking for her dad to tell her she did a good job
#and if you don't take steps to be aware of it
#and to cultivate self-worth and solace in something other than receiving that one specific thing
#and learn to be present with the people around you and how to focus on what you can give to others as much as what you can receive
#that craving never really goes away
#you can spend your entire life with tunnel vision chasing it
#the older people in your life probably still feel that craving just as strongly as you do
#they just had to eventually come to terms with it somehow carry on and start trying to take care of the younger people as best they can
#definitely hilarious when you realize you're like the parent figure to people when you're like omg no i still didn't get to be the baby yet
#and often times you also will become the parent figure to people much older than yourself as well
#including (perhaps) eventually your own parents
#anyways i would say that explains a lot about the dumbness of adults of all ages
#it definitely sucks but
#i think the nice thing to do is to try to give the younger people more of the understanding and support that will hopefully help them
#be well-adjusted and prepare
#for their own fun times in their 20s and beyond
#if you can
#seeing it more as building community rather than engaging in competition is the goal for me these days
#p
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