#bc the implicit message of replying to something like what they described
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some of y’all think suffering is a competition and it shows
#this is literally just me thinking abt the post I just reblogged#bc the implicit message of replying to something like what they described#which if u missed the post was like#‘today me and my mom-‘ ‘wow what’s it like to have good parents my mom could never’#that kind of stuff?#the implicit message is wow I am suffering and you have it SO good#it’s an ‘I have it worse than you woe is me’#how silly! how stupid! to rank yourself and others off of a singular experience! a singular factor!#how fucking BANAL to even treat suffering like that#or to treat JOY like that#you dont reward people for suffering and you don’t punish people for joy#and that’s an imperative I’m telling y’all not to do that and not to think like that#I LOVE hearing abt my friends good family stuff#even though mine is complicated as fuck#it’s cute! it’s nice! it makes me happy that they have that!#I’m living vicariously tbh!!#learn to live vicariously through your friends happiness#instead of punishing them for not suffering in the exact ways you have suffered
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