#because her partner didn’t accept her asexuality right out the gate and ya know I don’t wanna deal with that
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Girl I’ve kinda been seeing decided to be weird about me being ace time to nix that ig
#I am definitely not really broken up about it at all#I mean she was nice (before this anyways lol) but like… we didn’t really have much in common and I had p much come to conclusion I didn’t#wanna date her anyways but fjfjkdkskskd#it started because she was like ‘oh we’ve only been hanging out we haven’t done anything else :( are you not into me?’#and I’m sitting here like ‘oh well I thought we were just getting to know each other’#but I told her look I’m not opposed to physical intamcy (sexual or otherwise) but I’m ace so my relationship to that is a bit different#and it’ll pretty much be up to you to instigate when you want to do that and not expect me to because of how I operate#and she was like ‘oh…. right….. okay then maybe we can talk about that later’#which I guess isn’t a HUGE red flag but ive seen another of my ace friends put up with the worst shit in relationships#because her partner didn’t accept her asexuality right out the gate and ya know I don’t wanna deal with that#plus just all the other things I mentioned above#anyways had my experimental dating phase decided I didn’t like it#going straight back to my platonic and queerplatonic relationships and not looking for anything else I much prefer these#I mean if something happens it happens ig but I’m not gonna go looking for it again lmao#this was mostly a vaguely…. awkward and uncomfortable experience#kaz rambles
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