#but mainly just. ♥️♥️♥️💞💕💕💕💞♥️♥️♥️💕💕

[spaghett-onaplate]

Dudeee I was terrified to come out to my extended family as trans but they're all so nice about it? Particularly the grandparents I'm seeing for the first time since I told them in April,, I was worried but they are SO nice 😭♥️ I can talk about my experiences with it, my choice of name, the epic highs and lows of high school football transness. And they're trying with my name and I just ♥️♥️♥️

also my grandpa figured I named myself after Oscar Wilde and included two quotes from him in a letter he wrote me about this whole thing <3 I didn't actually name myself after anyone in particular but hell yeah Oscar Wilde I'm glad my name carries his legacy

[madame-fear]

Hey hey ! Was wondering if you can do, Dark Knight Jonathan Crane, marriage headcanon’s like how it’d be married him and stuff <3 ( fem reader btw 💕 )

Hiii anon! Sure thing! 💕 That's absolutely lovely🥰

Here it goes!! Enjoy your reading, dear! 💞

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DK!Jonathan Crane x Fem!Reader | Marriage Headcanons

Honestly, Jonathan really never thought about dating, or even marrying someone...until he met you. You really did a whole different twist to his life.

When people finds out that Dr Jonathan Crane is happily married, they would all be so surprised. Even he himself is surprised about marrying you.

He would be so, so extremely happy about marrying the love of his life. And also, he's extremely proud about it.

He's always worried about being a 'good husband'. All he needs is just you reassuring him he's the best husband you could ever have.

Literally does whatever is in his power so you can have whatever you want and need, mainly because he loves seeing you happy.

Always makes sure he wakes up first only so he can surprise you with breakfast in bed.

You could have years of being married, but whenever you introduce him as your husband, he's still going to get all flustered and his heart would always beat faster.

^ Same thing happens to you when he introduces you as his beloved Mrs Crane!

He is the most caring, loving, and protecting husband. He'll literally never leave your side no matter the situation.

Also, loyal AS HELL. He can have a hundred girls swooning for him, but he's only got eyes for you. You're his one and only beloved lady.

Even if he might be overwhelmed with work at times, he's still going to make sure to spend as much time as possible with you.

Café and library dates everytime you're from work! Also, picnic dates are your thing, too.

He loves having your head in his lap and reading out-loud to you until you fall asleep.

If anyone even dares to disrespect you, don't worry, he's got you covered. He'll make that person suffer and never get out of the constant nightmares.

Plays with your hair all the time. He finds it so comforting and soothing, so his hands would always be playing with your hair.

When he's extremely overwhelmed with work, he finds comfort in simply being with you. It's like he melts around you ♥️

If you're stressed about something, just tell him, he's great at calming you down. He'd make you your favourite drink (tea, coffee, etc) and would make you sit down in the couch so you can rant to him about whatever you want and need.

Calls you "angel", "my dear/darling", "my beloved (Y/N)", and sometimes "princess".

Supporting his plans regarding Scarecrow and the fear toxin.

He doesn't like involving you with his business, only because he doesn't want to risk your safety. But if you offer to help him with some things about the fear toxin he'd be absolutely delighted and over the moon!

Cheek kisses are his favourite type of kiss 🥰 He also loves holding your hands all the time.

Never takes his wedding ring off. He loves showing off the fact that he's married to an incredible lady.

Probably thinks about having children with you. He'd be a little nervous to bring that topic to you, but maybe he'll make a slight comment about it.

If you make a comment about wanting or loving children, oh god, he'd be so nervous, but he's ready to have a big family with you.

Just, an extremely LOVING husband. He's over the clouds when he's with you. The love he has for you is truly unique and pure, and it's only for you.

[the-judicial-assistants-notebook]

oh the ones I wanted to send are taken already UHM.. Wrightdot and/or Franmaya? (the latter isn't my cup of tea but I'm interested to hear your thoughts on it!)

HELLO, GRACE, MY DARLING FRIEND GRACE 💖💕💕💞♥️💝❤️💗❤️💖💖💕💝💞♥️💗💞 Thank you for the ask; I am honoured you actually wanted to hear me talk about multiple ships whsjdhj 💖💘💗

Wrightdot:

Grace, trying to answer this gave me some sort of quarter-life existential crisis, and I am a bit hysterical rn. Through the laughter and the screaming, I have to admit that... I kind of............ get it??????? I WOULDNT SAY I SHIP IT, BUT, LIKE. THEY'RE SO FUNNY BUT ALSO REALLY SAD AND IM????? IDK WHAT I THINK SJWVSHDHFKDH

Ultimately, though, ULTIMATELY. I can't quite get past the whole 'that is Mia's ex who is still very much in love with her, and her protege' thing. She's played too much of a role in both their lives for them to see very far past her influence on one another, and I don't think it'd be very healthy for them to try pursuing a romantic relationship; because I feel like they'd inevitably end up trying to fill the space Mia left in their lives through the other person which just wouldn't work. I definitely think they should have some sort of a relationship, though! I think Diego cryptically mentoring Phoenix and being very unhelpful most days, but always really solid help deep down, is very fun and kind of important for them post-BttT. I think they should get to truly know one another, beyond the masks and the projection, and Diego has a lot more experience being a lawyer than Phoenix, so he'd definitely be able to help with all the moral quandaries that are bound to come up later on. Plus he'd Get the whole 7-yg Phoenix attitude thing because... he's been there. I think he could've been helpful, and it's a shame we don't get to see them be, if not friends, respected acquaintances.

Alternatively, though, the idea of Phoenix having a casual conversation with Diego only for the fleeting thought of "Wow, he's really attractive" to stop him dead in his tracks and make him question his whole life and go to therapy and Leave the Country™ is so funny to me. Alternatively-alternatively, I get the romance of it. It's the whole pulling back the mask, having someone who really understands you, being accepted in spite of your worst flaws, moving on from grief and loss with another hand in yours and NOPE. I CANT TALK ABOUT THIS. I DONT SHIP IT BUT IDK! IDK!!!! IM THROWING THEM BOTH OFF A CLIFF, AND THEN IM THROWING MYSELF OFF A CLIFF. I AM DONE. GOODBYE.

Franmaya:

Okay, after standing in the shower and staring at a wall for 3 hours, I can talk normally again, which is good because I have to explain this.

I know the people who ship them don't do it in this way, but? Honestly? Franmaya is one of those wlw ships that strike me as two female characters being shoved together because they're left hanging once the main male couple whom everyone actually cares about (nrmts in this case) gets together, and because no one can find anything interesting to say about them as individuals, so now they're lesbians. Yay! (And also because people maybe don't want to be seen as only shipping mlm ships for fear of being told they're fetishising them.) And I know that that's not true and that most Franmaya shippers love both of them individually (as we all should), but something about them always makes me hear the feminine AI TikTok voice going, "Diversity Win 😊👍🎉!" in my head and conjures up images of Western corporate advertisements during the month of June (hence the love is love coca-cola).

And I know this isn't the case, but ???? I think it's mainly because I genuinely do not understand this ship. I don't usually need ships to be supported by canon for me to ship them, but what we've been given by canon doesn't help me see these two as ever being friends, let alone girlfriends. I understand the reasoning of "they both have self-worth issues so they'd understand each other", and that's a perfectly good reason to ship people, but like. I kind of want more? I kind of want them to be able to connect on a level that goes beyond them having similar issues? And probably the folks who do ship Franmaya do have reasons that go beyond that, like maybe Maya teaches Franziska how to lighten up and not take herself so seriously, and Franziska shows Maya that she doesn't always have to be the easiest version of herself to be loved. And that's all lovely! But I... don't want them to fix each other--

See, the versions of Franmaya I've seen floating around either boil them down to a wlw version of nrmts OR they make them out to be this saccharine, perfect, happy lesbian couple who are so, so wonderful and sweet to each other. Which is. Great! I love seeing women happy! But -- I'm sorry -- it's so BORING to me. It always seems to fix them a little (even if it's just around each other), and I like their flaws. I like that Franziska's a bit of an uppity, violent snob, and I like that Maya is a bit of a naive, insecure girl. I don't want them to fix each other, but I've tried twisting them the other way round, too! I've tried giving them the Krisnix treatment where they just amplify each other's worst traits, because they share similar insecurities and would know where to prod to make it hurt, but! I find that even less appealing and workable, tbh. Maya at her worst might let someone walk all over her for momentary wisps of affection disguised as acceptance of her flaws? But she has good and smart friends! Nick would never let her be in a toxic relationship like that, and he'd stay with her until she realises it's bad for her! And Franziska, regardless of how she may feel about being in Edgeworth's shadow, would never let anyone else even suggest that to her. The moment she gets a hint of that kind of disrespect, she is gone. She doesn't need you, make no mistake of that.

And it all really comes back to the fact that I can't see them connecting as friends. With Emaziska, I could see how they could be genuinely good friends and then more, but with Franmaya it's just... Not there for me. I can't see them progressing beyond the "oh, that's my little-older brother's friend's sister" stage the way you might be "friends" with your parents' friend's kids, you know? Like, yeah, you guess you're friends with them, but it's nothing serious or real. That's how I view their relationship. I'm not averse to being persuaded to ship them (in fact, I'd like to have them explained to me; they have cute art!) but I have tried and ehhh?? Doesnt do much for me, sorry, Franmaya 😔