#dealingwithabreakup

[inhearthell]

Dealing With a Breakup, You Can Heal and Start to Move On

Dealing with a breakup is something everyone would rather not have to do in their lifetime. It is a painful process, and you feel as if someone you thought loved you has now ripped your heart right out of your chest. Even if you knew it was coming, you still need time to deal with it. Learning to be without that one person who has been around for so long takes time. There are things you can do to make dealing with a breakup better for yourself. Read the full article

[animematchcom]

How Long Does It Take To Get Over A Breakup

Going through a breakup is never easy, especially if you've been with that special someone for a long time. This is a pretty tough break both for men and women and comes with a huge list of side effects. You’ll find yourself sad, frustrated, angry, miserable, and everything else in between. Read the full article

[itwashisgrace-blog]

Dealing with a breakup

Sick to my stomach, heart racing and shortness of breath. The moment I saw a picture of my ex with another woman. I thought I was over him, I thought I moved on. Seeing the picture opened my wounds back up and I'm so mad at myself for keeping my heart open.  

Let me start from the beginning. I met a man whom I thought I would spend the rest of my life with. We were dating for almost 6 years and I was so sure he was the one. Four years into our relationship I began questioning our purpose as a couple. Are we going to get married? Ha because kids? All these questions were running through my mind. So I presented them to him and he kept telling me I needed to change and then maybe we can discuss next steps. Now I know I'm not perfect and couples have their ups and downs so I let it pass. Well year 5 our relationship I asked again and received the semi same response. At this time I was desperate for answers. So I began attending a local church, and immediately my perspective changed. He wasn't a godly man, he spoke down on me and we got into physical fights. Why would I want to marry someone like that. So I began seeking God more till I got answer from God which I wasn't prepared for. God told me to approach my ex and ask him to come to church with me or I would leave. Now apart of me liked option b, him coming to church with me. Slowly but surely he started attending church but during these times our fights got worse! I mean from pushing each other into walls to leaving me in a parking lot at night. I told myself wow I thought coming to God would help? We remained in the relationship and endured the struggles. Year 6 of our relationship, We found a church we both liked and became regular members. I thought okay yes this is it God, we both serve you and our reksyuimship is good. Well now there was more of a spiritual battle for us. I began to see things differently from a godly perspective, I wanted to move to my next level of spiritual growth. So one day, mr brother’s pastor told me that my ex wasn't the one. I was shocked and didn't know how to feel. He told me I need to cute all ties with him. My God, I was not ready! Well I prayed about it and asked God for strength and had the guts to break up with him. I was okay at the time but still felt sad, lonely, unsure and angry. All this time I spent in this relationship to have it end!!! I asked my brother and his church pray for me. They did znd I felt some peace. I left my old church and began going to my brother’s church. I was like ok I got this, I am healed from my past, or so I thought. It had been about 5 months since our breakup but for some reason I kept communicating with him. One day I was scrolling through social media and BAM! There he is with another woman. I was crushed, heartbroken, angry, & disappointed. I wanted to jump off a cliff, crash into a buildIng, just to not feel this pain. I cried sand cried, till I spoke to my brother and he let me know that my walk in the Lord will be rough at times but I have to remain focused. So here I am trying hard to not feel unsure, discouraged or bitter. This is only day one of this feeling and I know this is my test. I dill keep documenting my feelings. But know that if it wasn't for God I wouldn't be writing this post.

-Forever grateful 

[justeatemps]

Was everything you said a lie?

You said you wanted to stay friends. But you blocked me from seeing some of your posts online for my benefit. You said you still cared about me. But you're slowly pulling further away from me. If this is what you wanted from the start why didn't you just say so. Instead you dragged me mentally through the mud gave me rays of hope we could still be friends but they quickly turned those rays into darkness. Why couldn't you just be upfront with me from the start? Where things will go from here I do not know, but I'm afraid that despite what you said originally, I will never see you again...

[annelisesaidso]

I HATE LOVE SONGS OMG NO ONE IS REALLT THAT IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE JUST SHUTUP NO ONE CARES

[viberevstudios]

Imagine if you will: It's after midnight on a random Saturday night and you've received several calls and messages from your #ex. Due to poor choices they have found themselves stranded in your area and need a ride home. #Whatwouldyoudo? Listen to #CASEOFTHEEX: Portrait OF A Clown a #LastoftheNiceGuys #podcast NOW PLAYING on your favorite #podcasting app or listen here - https://episodes.castos.com/viberevstudios/Last-of-the-Nice-Guy-56.mp3 #exgirlfriend #latenightcall #dealingwithanex #dealingwithabreakup #exgirlfriendwantsmeback #exgirlfriendcallsme #whyanexcalls #exgirlfriendcallslateatnight #exgirlfriendcallsmeduringnocontact #whenyourexgirlfriendcallsyou #exgirlfriendcallsmedrunk #funny #exgirlfriendstory #relationshipadvice #womenadvice #whenanexreachesout (at Vibe_Revelation Studio(s)) https://www.instagram.com/p/CTTIanTDMha/?utm_medium=tumblr

[viberevstudios]

Imagine if you will: It's after midnight on a random Saturday night and you've received several calls and messages from your #ex. Due to poor choices they have found themselves stranded in your area and need a ride home. #Whatwouldyoudo? Listen to #CASEOFTHEEX: Portrait OF A Clown a #LastoftheNiceGuys #podcast NOW PLAYING on your favorite #podcasting app or listen here - https://episodes.castos.com/viberevstudios/Last-of-the-Nice-Guy-56.mp3 #exgirlfriend #latenightcall #dealingwithanex #dealingwithabreakup #exgirlfriendwantsmeback #exgirlfriendcallsme #whyanexcalls #exgirlfriendcallslateatnight #exgirlfriendcallsmeduringnocontact #whenyourexgirlfriendcallsyou #exgirlfriendcallsmedrunk #funny #exgirlfriendstory #relationshipadvice #womenadvice #whenanexreachesout (at Vibe_Revelation Studio(s)) https://www.instagram.com/p/CTTIYWwj7Yc/?utm_medium=tumblr

[viberevstudios]

Should your #ex continue to #payyourbills after a #breakup? Is Your Ex Responsible For Upkeeping The Lifestyle They Introduced You To? The Answer is NO! Inspired by the #TSRGreatDebatez @8AtTheTable clip and #KevinSamuels' follow up "#MyExStillPaysMyBills" interview with @Blujasmine! The #LastoftheNiceGuys #podcast NOW PLAYING on your favorite #podcasting app or listen here - https://episodes.castos.com/viberevstudios/Last-of-the-Nice-Guys-48.mp3 #PressPlay #exgirlfriend #relationshipissues #dealingwithabreakup #toxicwomen #entitledwomen #selfishbehavior #blackwomen (at Vibe_Revelation Studio(s)) https://www.instagram.com/p/CQupmsBjbgz/?utm_medium=tumblr

[viberevstudios]

Should your #ex continue to #payyourbills after a #breakup? Is Your Ex Responsible For Upkeeping The Lifestyle They Introduced You To? The Answer is NO! Inspired by the #TSRGreatDebatez @8AtTheTable clip and #KevinSamuels' follow up "#MyExStillPaysMyBills" interview with @Blujasmine! The #LastoftheNiceGuys #podcast NOW PLAYING on your favorite #podcasting app or listen here - https://episodes.castos.com/viberevstudios/Last-of-the-Nice-Guys-48.mp3 #PressPlay #exgirlfriend #relationshipissues #dealingwithabreakup #toxicwomen #entitledwomen #selfishbehavior #blackwomen (at Vibe_Revelation Studio(s)) https://www.instagram.com/p/CQupi1SjUib/?utm_medium=tumblr

[viberevstudios]

Experience a #relationship implode in REAL TIME as one of the #NiceGuys gets #dumped and you only need one guess to figure out who! The #LastoftheNiceGuys #podcast presents: "Portrait Of A Relationship #BreakUp From A Man’s Point Of View"! The “alleged” stunning conclusion of this incidental 3 part #heartbreaking saga featuring the song "Wake Up Dead" by #TPain NOW PLAYING on your favorite #podcasting app or listen here - https://episodes.castos.com/viberevstudios/break-up-mixdown.mp3 #datingfails #girlfriendsbelike #respectyourself #breakupadvice #inyourfeelings #getdumped #disrespect #reciprocation #wasteoftime #failedrelationships #feelings #anotheronebitesthedust #dealingwithabreakup #lifemustgoon (at Vibe_Revelation Studio(s)) https://www.instagram.com/p/CQfCR0BDyGa/?utm_medium=tumblr

[viberevstudios]

Experience a #relationship implode in REAL TIME as one of the #NiceGuys gets #dumped and you only need one guess to figure out who! The #LastoftheNiceGuys #podcast presents: "Portrait Of A Relationship #BreakUp From A Man’s Point Of View"! The “alleged” stunning conclusion of this incidental 3 part #heartbreaking saga featuring the song "Wake Up Dead" by #TPain NOW PLAYING on your favorite #podcasting app or listen here - https://episodes.castos.com/viberevstudios/break-up-mixdown.mp3 #datingfails #girlfriendsbelike #respectyourself #breakupadvice #inyourfeelings #getdumped #disrespect #reciprocation #wasteoftime #failedrelationships #feelings #anotheronebitesthedust #dealingwithabreakup #lifemustgoon (at Vibe_Revelation Studio(s)) https://www.instagram.com/p/CQfB8SbjZLl/?utm_medium=tumblr