#definitely someones fault tho 🤷🏻‍♀️

[fratboykate]

1. The charity thing

Woof. Wooof. They’re both such stubborn idiots 🤦🏻‍♀️. But also The Wedding song would slap as a stripped back version and I will now combing the internets for it. I’ll admit it wasn’t one of my favorites off of her album at first but now it’s definitely up there.

But also. Same shade dresses? Is this like an artistic choice or some soulmate thing? Or is it just yelena’s favorite color? Am I reading too much into it?

Poor Monica tho. I would not be fine with my girlfriend talking to her ex-wife and both still clearly have feelings™️. I’m guessing this is the beginning of the end for Monica? She seems chill tho. I hope she finds love eventually. Just not with Yelena.

Their conversation also did make me remember how surprised I was when Kate didn’t fight their divorce? She sort of just accepted it, completely the opposite of what I expected from her. Especially since it was one of those more grey areas. But also I understand when you feel horribly guilty about something you know is your fault, you sort of just wanna back down and take it. Overcorrect. Almost like a martyr complex. It be sad. Someone should have fought for it and someone should have bent a little. Probably would have shortened the timeline. But they wouldn’t be them if they didn’t make mistakes so 🤷🏻‍♀️

2. The second bebé. Or is it bèbe? Moira Rose help me

Oh my god Ellie is so adorable 🥺. You think she’ll inherit the smooth talking skills from Kate? I love kids when I’m not in charge of them. It was so nice to see them happy, especially without the usual last two sentences of a gut punch that you usually throw in at the end. Ngl I always picture you rubbing your hands together and evil cackling after you do that.

They also seemed a loooot more healthy this time around. I’m trying to pinpoint what it is. Maybe before the divorce, the bits of fluff always seemed like it was too sweet and too smooth. Almost like painting or drywalling over something so you don’t see it. Lots of walking on eggshells.

This time it seems like it’s just the right amount of fluff. They can poke at each other without worrying about shit blowing up. A little more acceptance. Not like a sweeping-it-under-the-rug acceptance and more of a that’s-just-how-it-be-sometimes acceptance

Hmmm now I’m starting to feel self conscious about how long this comment is. Maybe I’ll shorten it next time. Oh well YOLO

oh my god no pleaseeeee dont be self conscious this was incredible. i love to hear what people are thinking lol. i maaaaybe get around to responding to only about half of the asks i get but i read them all eventually.

[thaleleah]

for the nsfw asks 🥰

1) Are looks important in a relationship?

3) Are you a virgin?

15) Do you have any piercings?

16) Do you have any tattoos?

44) How many boyfriends/girlfriends have you had?

47) How old are you?

63) What is your definition of “having sex”?

68) What is your sexual orientation?

69) What turns you off?

70) What turns you on?

1) Are looks important in a relationship?

To an extent - but its not the most important part. It's just for the initial attraction for the most part. Looks technically don't have to do with attraction at all in some cases. I've had some crushes where I didn't find their looks particularly attractive at first but their personality caught my attention and they became attractive to me based on their personality.

3) Are you a virgin?

Yes! Which is both fortunate and unfortunate lol

15) Do you have any piercings?

I do! I have 2 holes in each ear (earlobes only right now). I used to have 3 in each ear but I went without earrings for like a year so I'm pretty sure they're closed cause I can't get anything in them. I'll have to re-pierce them eventually.

I'm also considering a conch or helix one day. (I heavily considered doing my nipples at one point but I think I'm probs not, even tho I think nipple piercings are sexy).

16) Do you have any tattoos?

Not yet! But I will hopefully soon. If all goes well, I'll have my first one in the next year.

I want an elephant tattoo on the back of my left shoulder that's inspired by these two pics:

And then if I can tolerate that pain and want to get another tattoo, I want to get something Avatar themed like an ikran or an atokirina:

44) How many boyfriends/girlfriends have you had?

Technicallyyyyyyyy none. I've had some things have have gotten close but I have some trauma/fear when it comes to relationships so its mostly my fault that things haven't progressed into "relationship" status. I'm also demisexual so I need an emotional attachment before I would consider getting into a relationship/have sex with someone and a lot of people I've run into so far aren't willing to wait out the "friends first" period 🤷🏻‍♀️ So both of those combined are basically relationship repellant lol

47) How old are you?

I'm 28!

63) What is your definition of “having sex”?

I usually associate "having sex" with penetration so thats my first thought but that probs wouldn't be the case in a wlw relationship unless you're using a strapon sooooooooo anything past oral i guess? Idk if I would consider oral as "having sex". BUT then if i were to think about this as my significant other cheated on me with someone else but all they did was oral, I would still consider that "having sex".

Idk honestly. I don't think I clarified anything here for either you or myself loll

68) What is your sexual orientation?

Bisexual and Demisexual

69) What turns you off?

Rudeness - just be nice, its free!

Excessive negativity - I've got enough negativity and stress in my life already, I don't need more in a relationship with someone that's supposed to lift me up and make me happy

Poor communication - Communication is THE #1 most important thing to me in any relationship (friendship or romantic) so if my partner can't communicate with me properly, even if if its a hard subject, it's not gonna work for me

Quick sex talk - like trying to sext/phone sex or actually trying to have sex when I'm still trying to get to know them and be comfortable with them. This is the thing that most often gets me to drop a potential relationship. And it's not because I don't approve of hook ups or sex quick after meeting (do what you do) but its not for me and if they push too hard or try too often, I'm probs gonna drop them very quickly

70) What turns you on?

Playful bullying/teasing/banter: To me, this is probs the hottest thing ever lol. Being a little mean and teasing but I know they mean it out of kindness is probs the quickest way to make me comfortable around them cause it means I can joke back and it starts a fun back and forth to start building romantic/sexual tension while also building a solid friendship too.

Eye contact - There's really nothing more to this other than I'm a sucker for some good eye contact. I can't keep up on my end, but I love it from someone else lol

Slow to anger, quick to listen - Okay so, in fics I can get behind some hotheaded cruel meanies, but irl i gotta stay away from them lol. It's very attractive to me when someone is able to regulate their emotions and not lash out when things make them upset. Especially because I'm someone who matches energy so the easier things can get talked out, the better.

Competence - we 👏 do 👏 not 👏 date 👏 people 👏 who 👏 act 👏 like 👏 children. Super turn on when people are able to survive on their own and not need you but still want you around anyway. I grew up (and am still around) a lot of codependent people and its so draining to feel like your responsible for grown ass adults when you have your own life to live. Someone who knows what needs to be done and does it without being told, someone who anticipates your needs without you having to ask, someone knows how to deal with problems and put out fires on their own and is confident while doing it - omgggg yes.

Bonus: A nice voice, especially when they speak softly

Thank you for the questions, love! This was fun! 🧡

[deathberi]

誰のせいでもない…たぶん。

[kaiser-s-bitch]

the last episode was way too emotional uGH i need more gyuutarou content pls😭

could you do some headcanons for an artist!reader that really sees beauty in gyutaro and spends SO MUCH TIME drawing him? or even paints a picture of him? and how would all that situation go????

AAAAA ANON ILY!!!! this is exactly the kinda shit we need😩🙌🏼

as an artist myself I FUCKIN LOVE THIS IDEA, SO HERE WE GO—

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Gyuutarou (+ Daki) with an artist!reader (sfw)

• first of all, Gyuutarou would seriously question your taste AND your sanity

• he would get extremely suspicious of you too.. is that just a backhanded way of mocking him? why else would you want to waste your time drawing someone as ugly as him??

• you’re trying to explain to him that there’s more than one kind of beauty, and that in your eyes he holds a certain kind of beauty too, but everything you say sounds wayyy too absurd for him, so he’s far from convinced

• it’s not just him either, Daki would probably feel a shift of the force and immediately demand for you to draw her instead

• as compromise, you‘d ask both of them to be your models, most likely with Daki being planted on Gyuutarou‘s shoulders

• not wanting to disappoint either you or his sister, Gyuutarou eventually complies

• holding still is not exactly Daki’s strong suit, so it would inevitably end up in a sibling quarrel

• "Hold still dammit!! You’re heavy enough as is"

• "Haaah?? It’s not my fault that you have no meat on your bones, toothpick!!"

• luckily you had the sketch down already, so you could do without them posing for the rest of the process

• though you‘d probably still want them around for reference

• Daki is hella impatient, so she would constantly keep nagging you about just how long it‘ll still take you to finish

• meanwhile Gyuutarou just quietly and patiently watches you paint (if you let him), fascinated by the way every colorful stroke would breathe life into the previously plain sketch

• in fact, he’s so quiet and is sitting so still that you keep forgetting he’s even there, so whenever he would shift his "weight" (what weight tho-😭), you‘d most likely get startled and flinch

• you’d try to not let it show, but he definitely picks up on it every time and apologizes ceaselessly, probably mumbling about how useless and unnecessary he is

• which could go two ways.. either you stop him by talking back at and comforting him orrrr by splashing paint on him.

• both has proven to be quite effective, but the surprise effect of the paint attack surely proved to be superior

• pillow fights? lame. PAINT FIGHTS IS WHERE IT‘S AT

• Daki would most likely stay out of it and use her belt as shield, refusing to get stained by some dirty old paint

• meanwhile Gyuutarou LIVES for the mess

• he’s used to being dirty and filthy, but this is on an entirely different level

• no one else has ever wanted to get near him because of it, but here you were, actually laughing with him instead of at him

• bonus points if you actually sit back down and finish the painting before even bothering to get cleaned up

• once you’re actually done, Gyuutarou is still not sold on the idea of him being part of the painting‘s motive, but he wouldn’t dare complain again since you put so much work into it

• he most definitely won’t be able to let go of his self-hatred anytime soon, but your drawings and paintings of him sure make him feel appreciated to no end

• Daki on the other hand would complain about every little detail that you got "wrong" in your painting of her ("My nose doesn’t look like that!"), but you genuinely don’t really mind

• all that is to be expected when you decide to paint the siblings🤷🏻‍♀️

[bisluthq]

My take on this is that people don’t get the difference between being an asshole and not. The person who said they like Jack a bit more than Joe wasn’t being an anti, the person who came to say Jack was overrated was. Not because they think Jack is overrated but because they were just trying to be an asshole. This has happened before too, people saying “hey now that you shared that you have to share my take about how much I dislike Jack”. It never feels like this people actually hate Jack for anything he has done, they hate him because he doesn’t get enough hate on the blog. I get it because it happens to me when I don’t get why something is so popular. For example, I hate a lot of foods but I don’t complain about them like I complain about peanut butter. For whatever reason everyone thinks peanut butter is great but I don’t get it and I hate that people love it so much so I hate on it. Jack hasn’t done anything hugely problematic and that Nat isn’t having it when you come at him for random things isn’t really anyone’s fault. I also don’t know why you find someone writing a long message about Jack so annoying. We all write long messages about anything all the time here, they’re not even that deep. I don’t know why it bothers you that Nat isn’t getting annoyed? The problem here is that you guys are Joe and Taylor cupcakes and they get antis here all the time so it bothers you that Jack and Saoirse don’t get antis. But there’s a difference between the person who told someone to leave on the street because Taylor can have as many mansions as she pleases and people saying they’re a Jack cupcake and they don’t like when Nat says this or that about him

Ya again the key here is just not being an asshole lol. And like also there’s a difference between being an asshole in your own lane - if you do hate Jack and bring it up a lot idc even if you’re like a Saoirse account - and harassing other people.

As I’ve said before, I cannot harass anons. It’s impossible. You are anons. By definition idk where to even go to do that and dragging you when you’re an asshole to me isn’t fucking harassment it’s just defending myself from like online abuse. If weird people read my blog and then harass other bloggers with my take that really sucks but there isn’t much I can do about it either because that’s SO not the spirit of anything I ever do or say like AT ALL but fwiw I’ve heard this discussed but never seen real life evidence of it lol.

You can however harass me and some of you do.

I’ve never felt harassed by a Jack stan tho so 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️ it’s usually Taylor cupcakes and Joe antis or huge Taylor antis or Gaylors.

So basically be chill, block tags you don’t enjoy, and just vibe and have fun lmao.

[bunnyjiu]

in the spirit of being controversial I also don't think blackpink deserves all the hype 🤷🏻‍♀️

they're talented and cool, but I really think if they didn't have so much money behind them they wouldn't have nearly the fanbase they do, and like that's not their fault, but the fact that a song of theirs gets 20 million views in an hour or whatever doesn't necessarily mean the song is good...

like I obviously say this from a somewhat bitter place bc I stan dreamcatcher, but it does kind of suck to see girls who I think are substantially more talented get less attention than other (talented but not as much imo) girls only because of the money their company has

and it's all subjective, someone out there thinks every blackpink song is revolutionary and the future of kpop, but I...don't. like really don't, they do somewhat of an SM thing too where it's 'experimental', except it's kind of just two songs mashed together without any connective tissue. also, I just don't get the appeal of Jisoo or Rose, they don't really add anything to the group for me personally and sometimes blatantly don't fit the concept? I think Lisa is probably the standout for me, even tho I don't think she could make it as a soloist because I don't think she has the variety, but she's definitely the one with the most stage presence. Jisoo always kinda looks dead behind the eyes to me, and I really didn't like Rose's solo debut... Jennie I think is a good all-rounder but I still think Lisa raps circles around her (except when she says shit like 'gon finna')

I'm just a random person tho and they're rich so obviously the market doesn't agree with me lol