#ex-terf

[dogboy-awsten-knight]

some of yall really arent even trying to hide your utter disdain for transmascs huh

[aropride]

how it feels to not tell people to kill themselves online even though im having a bad day

[wolfydyke]

Making this post to just acknowledge right now that I will no longer be engaging w the terf community. I have been wrong, we have been wrong. I know a lot of terfs follow me and will see this post. Just know I'm not coming back into all that, I'm out, I'm done, please just unfollow and move on like I've done with this whole community. Trans people are people and are trying to live their lives without the validity of that being up for debate every second. Hell, I might even be trans myself, it's looking likely. Trans women are women, trans men are men.

[wolfydyke]

Just went and blocked every remaining terf following me, decent way to start the day

[lettucedloophole]

very difficult to Learn and Grow and not fall into reactionary sentiment. it's hard to piece apart what is rational to be upset about and what is reactionary. some things have definitely been imparted upon me by others but not all of those things are wrong. i'm still anti-porn and pretty staunchly against some kink but i know not all of my thoughts about this are purely logical-- i'd like to think it's all based in genuine concern for others. but it's also deeply wrapped up in my own personal experience of my self hatred being wrapped up in sexual degradation fueled by porn and some forms of kink. easier to be against porn as an industry (not as a concept) than kink as a broad community. i do still fall into a lot of typical radfem thought patterns about this stuff though and i have mixed thoughts and feelings about this