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lycan-subscribe · 5 months

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let me preface this by saying that i love shrek (at least 1 and 2 lmao) and i love what it has to say about beauty standards and going deeper than appearances but also. it’s really wild to see characters look at fiona say “ugh!! she’s so disgustingly ugly!!” and she has like. the same body/facial features you do lmao

#like i know they wanted to keep her ‘appealing’ to a degree #but her ~ogre form~ is literally just a fat woman with round features and green skin #like this very well could have been intentional but either way it’s an interesting commentary on how society views fat people #fat women specifically

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abnormalicacid · 7 months

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Let fat men dress how they want without treating them like shit actually. Let fat men express themselves in an authetic way without having to worry about being called a "discord mod" or some shit. Let fat men be goth. Let fat men be disheveled and scraggly. Let fat men wear nice things. Let fat men wear weird things. Let fat men where ugly things. Let fat men exist.

#this applies to women too of course i just made this about a fat trans guy friends complaints about the world specifically #fatphobia is dumb stupid and shallow #rambles

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musical-chick-13 · 11 months

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Regarding the whole "Fandom Is An Escape, so why should I have to care this much about misogyny/racism/ableism/transphobia/etc." thing. Idk about the rest of you, but it gets kind of hard for me to "escape" when I keep seeing people say the same vile things about characters who share aspects of my identity that I hear all the time in real life.

#gotta say: it doesn't make me feel any better getting ignored/disparaged on account of my gender irl and then seeing every fictional woman #also get ignored/disparaged when there is no material difference between her and popular male characters other than her gender #how do I escape from irl misogyny if y'all keep willfully ignoring and flinging gendered insults at 99% (<-lowball estimate) of #female characters? how do I put aside the ableism I face in real life when y'all discuss disabled/mentally ill characters in the most #absolutely out-of-pocket way? how do I forget about biphobia when the 'arguments' you make 'for fun' about bisexual characters #in fiction sound EXACTLY the same as the things people say about my bisexuality outside of the internet/fan culture?#and then obviously this gets compounded if you are trying to even simply EXIST in fandom as a poc or a trans person or an intersection of #any or all these varying identities/life experiences #like yes caring about fictional characters is not the same as caring about real people OBVIOUSLY I can't BELIEVE I have to keep clarifying #that. and at the same time!! because multiple things can be true at the same time!!!! engaging in behavior that enforces pre-ingrained #societal biases and prejudices!!!!!!!! does not help dismantle those biases and prejudices!!!!!!!!!!!!!! in a real-world way that DOES #involve caring about actual people!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!#it's also. interesting. when people go on & on about how some newest show about thin cis white (male) gays is So Important & Revolutionary #So We Must Do Everything To Keep It Relevant And Visible and then act this way about women/poc/trans people/disabled people/fat people #in media. so like. you DO agree that seeing a variety of life experiences represented in fiction is beneficial. you DO believe in the #value of depicting marginalized people. interesting that that only seems to apply to a VERY narrow and specific category of marginalization #(ugh remember when I talked about this and someone called me a straight person good times)

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kendallroysmethpipe · 3 months

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Thin people really do just piss me off more than anyone on the planet

#specifically the skiny women i see on tiktok makinf jokes about how fat they are or how they need to go on ozempic shut up SHUT UP

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judesstfrancis · 3 months

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the thing is that nicola coughlan isn't hot in bridgerton simply bc period typical clothing like that was made to "flatter" fat people and "it accentuates her boobs" she's just hot bc she's hot. I'm so serious u guys need to get cool about fat people being hot immediately bc I can't take another post that's like "I can't believe people are saying she isn't hot as penelope bc HISTORICALLY" shut the fuck up. she's hot bc she's hot idgaf about what the clothing was made for

#just like. when u say it like that u realize that makes it a qualifier right. like you're implying #no matter if u intend to or not #that she's ONLY hot bc the clothing from that time period was made for her body type specifically #I need u to understand that that's what comes out when u say that regardless of intention #anyway fat women make the world a better place to live in amen 🩷#text post

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always-andromeda · 10 months

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Sorry but I am so tired of seeing tiktok videos of plus size women doing fit checks and their comments are flooded with the most disgusting words you could say to a person. 😀

#˚ʚ meda rants ɞ˚#‘sorry but i have to make the joke’#no you literally fucking don’t #it would cost you zero dollars not to #like you are in the comments of a woman who looks like the sweetest person alive #a person who has impeccable style #a person who radiates sunshine #and you’re gonna say ‘i have that same pool cover!!’#some of y’all blatantly hate fat women specifically and i mean this sincerely #do some soul searching #discover why it is that fat women simply existing makes you compulsively think and say such vile things #for fucks sake #it is so easy to be good to people regardless of their size

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macabrity · 7 months

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bear shaped women

#fat strong and hairy #mac rambles #sorry I’m rereading my story and I forgot I was the target audience and I was like. why are there so many specifically sexy women in this….

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honeybyte · 8 months

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not to be all "be the change you wanna see in the world" abt it but if there's art that you dont see a lot of that you would like to see more of. sometimes you gotta be that person who creates for it

#women get skipped over all the time so: lesbians in my art #trans folk in my art #trans men w chests #trans women without them #fat people skinny people weird people #women w chin scruff and scars w a gentle disposition #all of it #the one i GOTTA get better at tho is disabled folk #gotta learn how to draw wheelchairs specifically

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depresseddepot · 1 year

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trying to determine which parts of my relationship with sex are asexuality, which are trauma, and which are autism is like trying to have a conversation with three people talking loudly and all at once

#just to be clear: asexuality as a result of trauma or neurodivergency is still asexuality. full stop no debate.#anyway because i love oversharing on tumblr dot com: feeling very sex repulsed on this day #i was joking with some guy about fighting each other (specifically said ''you ever fight a girl over 200 lbs? id break your ribs'')#and like three different people said something like ''well that would probably turn him on''#and. listen. i get it. that was a joke response to my joke threat #but what i felt in that moment and still feel now requires nothing short of academic study to understand #first of all: how dare they make me feel embarrassed in a social setting when i was doing so well.#secondly: why the fuck would me making a threat make them instantly think of sex #thirdly: how fucked up is my body image that i hear that and immediately think they're all out of their minds #i like fat women. i am personally attracted to fat women. not (usually) sexually but i do think they are very nice to look at #so why is it so hard for me to accept that someone else could find me attractive as well !#i think about being in a situation where a relationship and/or sex is a real possibility and i flinch like its going to hurt me #but why???? where is this aversion coming from !!!!! i am a hopeless romantic i daydream about romance all the time #so whats the deal here. is it subconscious bc of my asexuality and i associate romance with sex?#is it because of my autism where i associate romance with touch and am afraid i am too unempathetic to have a chance?#or (most likely) is it just because im so fucking scared of trusting someone that even the thought makes me nauseous #did this all crop up from a throwaway sex joke? yes #but people don't make sex jokes to me. people don't even pretend to allude to me being cute #this same group of people said a few weeks ago ''at least you're pretty''#which. is not the case!!!!!!! people do not say those things to me because they don't want to even slightly entertain that idea !!!!!!!#and i am extremely tired of having my life upended because of this #i have always been treated like i was ugly and teased about it and i FINALLY have managed to be okay with not being attractive #and now that im okay with it: NOW is when the pretty jokes start. im fucking angry about it actually #i can't be both. i cannot think of myself in terms that abstract. i am one or the other #and this leads me to believe that people think i COULD be pretty. but the catalyst is that i am fat and therefore cannot be attractive #which just makes me more angry!!!!!!!!!!!#how can i be completely indifferent to sex and attraction without seeming juvenile. i don't care so so much #but every time that sort of thing happens i feel like im 13 again and the hot jock is talking to me #i need to be put down. something's wrong with this one (me)#i realize i can't stop people from making sex or appearance jokes but god i wish i fucking could

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nyaskitten · 1 year

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so sick of genderbends where everyone's a sexy pretty woman and way slimmer than their male counterparts for no reasonnnnnn

#what am I saying? Imn saying give me fat women genderbends or give me death #if I see one more cole genderbend where shes an ugly twink im gonna die #spinchip is exempt from this post I like their genderbends #this isnt SPECIFICALLY ninjago posting btw #this is in general

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frobby · 2 months

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Romance manga with a fat mc/love interest: :D

They were only fat because of trauma and now that theyre in a relationship theyre skinny: :(

#STOP DOING THIS LET THEM BE FAT FOR FATS SAKE FAKE PEOPLE DESERVE LOVE ITS NOT A BARRIER TO OVERCOME #KILLING KILLING KILLING #Genetically fat people deserve love fat people who got fat from trauma and STAY fat deserve love #Of course this narrative wouldnt be a problem if it wasnt literally every single one #Even if its not this specific narrative its usually still about fatness and how that hinders a relationship #Why cant someone be fat and it be uninportant to the story #For some positivity im gonna highlight some of my fave fat romance mangas #Minegishi loves otsu #Its always minegishi loves otsu go read it now it does pretty much everything right fat boy wise and otsu is insecure about his weight #But its not like bad insecure its regular insecure like its not a conflict #Confessions of a shy baker #The only influence one of the characters weight has on the story is his boyfriend is baking him healthy treats cuz hes trying to lose weigh #Which on its face i dont think is a bad thing and its not what the story is about its just a facet of their relationship #Its pretty funny and chill also like...if u wanna make healthy treats theres a bunch of actual recipes in it #Mori no takuma #Okay this one is weird and technically does everything wrong to a comical degree and thats why i like it #Also takuma stays fat even after the ending plus for him #It does have the weird 'he gets skinny when its nervous' and it is literally about the girl not wanting to date a fat guy but whatever #You may notice that......all of these are where a man is fat and yeah #I would list one if i had one #For context im a fat lesbian #Attracted to fat women #Anyway if yall have fat romance manga suggestions lemme know id love to read them #animanga #anime #manga #anime and manga

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saintlesbian · 1 year

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hm. having a mini gender crisis in the middle of my shift again

#pentababbles #good LORD is this getting annoying #got hit by a sudden dysphoria attack while talking to a girl and had to ask myself:#am I a trans guy or just really really butch??#like I feel. othered. from cishet women with my alternate lifestyle in spite of both sharing space with them AND being attracted to them #even though I know they see me as one of them so immediately I am Not a Threat despite not performing femininity very well #and I feel no communion or comraderie with cishet men. despite longing to emulate aspects of their performances #I don’t really wanna be seen as a ‘man’ but I don’t wanna be seen as a woman either #to women I want to be seen as an object of attraction. to my friends I want to be seen as masc. to men I want to be seen as a threat #and these things don’t all automatically line up with being a man…#I think I would be more comfortable with femininity if I was at least allowed to be masculine first.#like. I NEED to go shopping in the men’s section so so bad #I’d really like to start taking t. on a low dose #just for a little while then stop once I achieve certain permanent changes I want (low voice + bottom growth)#I wanna get back into exercising to trim some fat #specifically the fat in more feminine areas. I really want that Britney Griner type chest #I’ve also contemplated the name ‘Abraham’ for my irls to call me when I feel less femme #kinda like my butch bartender oc Quincy except I’m. not that muscular and not a she/her #although I’d probably be more comfortable with she/her if I wasn’t forced into femininity so often #I think at the end of the day though. I’m not a trans guy just a weird dyke #bc I like feminine labels specifically in a lesbian manner: I’m okay with being called girlfriend or wife but not with daughter or sister #I’m dykegender. does all that make sense

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slingbats · 3 months

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Okay and? The canon s5 outfits sucked, we did Not get good post canon nygmobs idk 🤷‍♀️

at least I feel robbed of decent menswear anyway

#We could've had Oswald in fur. Again #We could have at least had a fat suit that fit him properly and looked like a human body #dont get me wrong im glad he's canonically fat but we also could have had no fat suit at all bc the effect was ugly and those are demeaning #I keep wondering if the budget got slashed for Pennyworth to be made off the back end of it #Because otherwise I don't understand like. Costume departments have clothes that are both higher and lower quality and #Could be spun either way #need people to get out of my ear telling me the show sucks tbh #I think I would not like Gotham if it were Actually good #Except for the misogyny I very specifically wish Gotham didn't hate women so much #My series rewrite is exactly the same except women are treated better #Note: I do not have a series rewrite because I don't care abt anything going on in the show except whatever penguin is doing #And a rewrite would require me to care about something else

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abimee · 4 months

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ruyan wont admit she has a type but she does which is either short fat guys with facial hair (short is relative to her, any guy whos head sits below her nose is short) and high sex drive women with soft hair. this is why haurchefant is the best of both worlds

#she expects a lot more out of men than women like as long as your hair is soft and you wanna fuuuck at least thrice a week thats good #but she specifically and i mean specifically is only into guys if theuyre short and hairy. fat can be optional but its a bonus #considering shes like a 250+ lb auri woman she likes when she doesnt get made to feel weird about it #its this whole thing about how a lot of other women she meets are all super skjinny and light because theyre just shorter than her #and dont eat like her makes her feel weird. about being so tall that she basically outclasses other women by 150+ lb #which comes back to how I outclassed other gitls when i was younger by 50+ lb just by being taller and got mad fun of for it #but when a guy comes along who doesnt make her feel bad for being so heavy and lets her sit in his lap? keeper #she likes being able to be picked up by the men she dates. and not made to feel like shes too heavy to be treated like a woman #(this is a real thing i experienced as a kid. people were so evil to me about not being 90 lb that they brought gender into it its CRAZY)

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fagpulp · 8 months

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Come here i am inside of your ear. If you genderswap and make the character prettier/skinnier a trap door activates and sends you right to hell immediately

#knife in hand. they are UGLY. they are FAT. i am KILLING YOU #this is very specifically abt. junkrat and roadhog i had to see them made into pretty skinny women.#like putting coals on my balls and smashing them with a hammer also #actually a reminder to make my characters uglier.

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muffuletadiver · 6 months

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I’ll be #real even if I was a fat guy, posts like this would not make me feel better about myself. like why are you talking about me like I’m a three legged dog or a bridge troll.

#this post also sucks bc why is this specific to men. women also get their fair share of cruel assumptions about themselves if they’re fat #I’d say even more so

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