#first: need to make a separate tag for headcanons and shitposts later on

[stupid-idiot-gamer]

🧠: Heyyy [Stupid]... I have an idea...

Me: Is it something interesting? Stimulating? ...Or is it a dumb shitpost?

🧠: ...'Scryption magical girl AU...

[bitimdrake]

There's also definitely an inherent difference between adding fun headcanons to characters and diving so deep into the fanon hellhole that the character you're writing meta about is basically just your OC now.

It's the difference between adding a harmless headcanon to a character, vs the fanon nightmare of manwhore Dick Grayson who's a giant himbo and can't get around fast enough.

Like...those are two entirely separate things and trying to escape the hoards of shitposts that are just bad takes on a character that the fan clearly doesn't understand is frustrating because that stuff spreads more quickly than actual good meta.

I started in this fandom on fanon while I slowly tried to read to catch up, and the more I read, the more people/tags I blocked. Honestly it just got exhausting to read very complex characters being reduced to single-trait memes all the time.

it's...a lot. Everyone has fun their own way, but as someone who needs to know absolutely everything before I try speaking on it, it's wild to me how many people are happy to more or less make up an oc and then say "and yeah this is totally the comics character". Or see someone else talking about it and just follow their second hand word without question. i can only imagine wfa being popular and progressively more wildly fanon is going to make this worse

I technically started comics before touching the fandom, but I peeked into fic and fandom along the way, so there are characters and events that I first heard of through fanon--and almost always was later baffled when I actually got there in comics.

[misspattylowell]

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