#girl/babe/ma'am/queen etc etc
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What are your pronouns?
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#no uhhh#so i'd say “any pronouns” because that's kind of the vibe#like i'm afab and a lesbian and mostly relatively fem presenting and i don't rlly identify as non-binary or trans#so mostly people use she/her and that's completely fine by me lol i am ambivalent#but also! i am just as ambivalent to being called he or they#like! you can use he/him or they/them! that's also totally fine with me!#BUT it's also not actually an “any pronouns” vibe because i know i don't want people to use anything other than she/he/they#i don't personally vibe with ze/zir etc for myself#BUT if i say my pronouns are she/he/they that makes it seem like i particularly want people to rotate them!#when i don't! i just really don't mind as long as it's one of those three lmao#.................yeah ok tl;dr my pronouns are she/he/they but i genuinely don't care which of those you use u don't have to rotate them#you can always use she that's fine by me idc#oh BUT i do prefer to be referred to with a mix of masculine and feminine terms just because it's fun#like. it doesn't make me dysphoric or anything to only get referred to with words like idk#girl/babe/ma'am/queen etc etc#like again. do not mind at all! but it's just more fun to also sometimes get man/bro/sir/king etc u know?#ask#darcey.txt
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people on facebook are doing a Pronouns/Gendered Words Meme so I decided to do it over here
It/Its: sure
She/Her: fine, but depending on context/your other behavior it might make me cross that you’re misgendering me
He/Him: sure
They/Them: sure
Neopronouns: sure! call me whatever bizarre neopronoun your little heart desires
Dr.: nope, don’t have a PhD
Mr.: sure but I might look around in confusion
Mx.: yes please! this is my preferred if you’re capable of using it. I think “Mx.” is really twee but feel it is prosocial to use the terms people have settled on
Miss/Mrs./Ms.: I typically put down “Ms.” on forms. Strongly disprefer Miss and Mrs., for feminist reasons
Sir: sure, especially if I’m topping you
Ma'am: no
Tiz: apparently this is gender-neutral sir/ma’am???? I have never heard this before. I want to be prosocial and adopt the terms everyone else is using
Pal/Buddy: I cannot imagine a person calling me this but sure?
Bud: I DOUBLE cannot imagine a person calling me this but sure
Friend: great
Comrade: .........I guess????? I’m not a communist
Dude: sure!
Man: sure!
Bro/Bruh: sure!
Sis: is this a word people use to refer to people
Girl: NO
Gurl: ????? I guess????? for novelty’s sake if nothing else
Guy: sure
Sib: yes please!
Boy: yes
Boi: .....I guess? I feel like this refers to a specific group of people I am not part of
Lord/Lady/King/Queen/Prince/Princess: uh I am not really royalty but I guess the male versions are fine? or you can do “princex” I guess???
Captain: I am not... a person who is in charge of a boat? If I were in charge of a boat probably you should call me a captain
“Feminine” compliments (pretty etc): yes PLEASE I am a pretty boy
“Masculine” comments (handsome, etc): not as good as feminine ones
Honey, Sweetie, Babe, etc: fine but I might feel like this is uncomfortably close if you don’t do it to everyone and we aren’t close friends
Languages with more grammatical gender than English: depending on what is easier for you, you can use a neutral version (even if it is new or archaic), phrase your sentences to avoid gender, switch between the masculine and the feminine, or simply use the masculine
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