#having A Shitty Day goes from a 8reakdown to a 'man i am NOT having it today i n33d to get some food and- | Explore Tumblr Posts and Blogs

cornflowercanine · 4 years

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man it doesnt matter if ive 833n thinking a8t it for 2 seconds or 7 hours the first step and/or the most crucial part to 8eing happier is 8e. kind. to. yourself. if youre like in ur early t33ns or just went through/are going through Some Shit it f33ls very satisfying and valid8ing and Like Something to 8eat yourself up over everything and it can 8ecome a ha8it so so so fucking fast if everything else already sucks 8ut ohhhhhhhhh my god. even if the only thing you do is mentally say to yourself ‘i look good in this shirt’ or ‘that was a nice thing to say to them’ or ‘im glad i got myself food’ Once A Day it will make so so so much difference you cannot IMAGINE

#clove rambles #edgelords dni i h8 you on a personal level #dont use me and other people and other things even Suggesting you should at least Try to make life a little easier #as a ohhh look how much i h8 myself look how much shit sucks haha i totally got you didnt i #look. i know it might 8e out of like; everything is so monstrously shitty you cant even entertain the idea of shit 8eing good #8ecause it will come 8ack to 8ite you in the ass 8ut stop for a second take a d33p 8reath and GET A FUCKING HOLD OF YOURSELF #if its not safe or practical or lasting to help yourself and try to f33l 8etter in the ways you can imagine you do not have to #stop s33ing '8e nice to urself' and going HAHA LMAO NO IM SO COOL You Can S33 Shit Like That. And Go #oh yeah thatll 8e really good and helpful for me 8ut right now i cant really do that without a 8unch of 8ad shit following it #so for now i n33d to just hang on and k33p going until it IS safe for me to make life 8etter for myself in those ways #ITS JUST SO LIKE.... U HAVE NO IDEA JUST HOW MANY PRO8LEMS EITHER 8ECOME WAY EASIER TO DEAL WITH #OR SOLVE THEMSELVES COMPLETELY WHEN YOU JUST. GIVE YOURSELF A FUCKING 8REAK.#having A Shitty Day goes from a 8reakdown to a 'man i am NOT having it today i n33d to get some food and-#-make my 8ed so i can go to 8ed quick and easy tonight and i should shower so i dont f33l PHYSICALLY 8ad too'#person 8eing shitty to you goes from 'this sucks so much i cannot live with myself' to 'wow what a fucking jerk i dont do that or that-#-at all theyre just making it up at this point and i F33l Shitty Regardless so will listen to some sad music for a while 8ut wow'#the list goes on and on and there is a tag limit lol.#8ut like. im not saying 8eing nice to yourself will solve all your pro8lems 8ut it is a HUGELY IMPORTANT /FOUND8ION/ for everything else #i cant have a 8etter nd happier rel8ionship with my friends if i genuinely 8elieve/force myself to 8elieve every natural fuckup-#-in my friendships and the interactions we have is wholly my fault and im 8ad and should 8e punished for it #there ARE some issues that have Nothing to do w/ how you treat/f33l a8t urself 8ut way way more than u would think rel8 to it #or revolve around it entirely. its just... u finally have the groundwork laid out and simply 8e Happier things f33l achieva8le now #anyway hi if you got to this point in the tags please mentally say something nice to urself right now lol #personal #I HAVE SO SO SO MUCH TO SAY A8T THIS ITS UNREAL

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