#hong dabin tarot reading

[theninthdoor]

dpr live || ideal type; tarot reading

disclaimer: in my Ideal Type readings, I look into what the person in question is currently (consciously and unconsciously) attracted to! it's not necessarily their perfect match or the one they will end up with.

✦ Impression (What is seen externally; Might not accuratelly represent the person): cards: three of pentacles (death, page of cups), justice, king of swords (ten of cups)

Right away, it feels like he's attracted to someone who looks like they put a lot of thought and effort into their style. What I mean by that is: imagine someone who's into a retro aesthetic - they will pick specific accessories and clothing items to make their outfits, and then style their hair and do their makeup accordingly. All of that requires attention to detail and commitment, and that's the sort of thing that fascinates him. Next, and putting the remaining two/three cards together, he seems to like people who look logical and composed. His ideal type would be that person that others would judge to be a great intellectual, even, and to whom they would rely on to make important decisions. As a seemingly fair-minded and balanced individual, they would always look to be trying their best to maintain order in their environment, either making sure everybody is being treated rightfully or by forcing wrongdoers to be accountable for their actions.

✦ Personality: cards: four of wands, three of wands, empress

I don't think it would be far-fetched to say he's into people who cherish their community and family life. But, generally speaking, his ideal type is really just someone who enjoys bringing people together and creating loving and joyful memories, specially with their loves ones. This might be that type of friend who's always texting others to go out for dinner or drinks, or plan a trip together, or even be the one to plan everybody's birthday parties. Overall, they are the happiest around other people. All in all, it seems like his ideal type is someone who is the "mom-friend" of the group. They care for others, nurture their feelings and dreams, and push them to believe in themselves. Also, because they are such confident visionaries, with lots of creativity and charisma, they would never reject a challenge or an opportunity to try something new - specially creative and artistic activities.

✦ What his ideal type should provide in a relationship: cards: four of cups (queen of swords), ten of swords (three of wands, six of swords), devil

It's interesting because I see him liking two complete opposite things: on one hand, he would like his ideal type to be independent and even a little distant; but, on the other hand, he would like them to be very attached to him. So, essentially, a hot & cold relationship might be what he wants (regardless of whether or not it's the best for him). Adding on to that, intensity is a big theme here. There should be no fear to be dramatic and passionate; the relationship should be intoxicating, almost. Besides that, this person ought to be strong willed and do whatever it takes to get what they want. It could also mean, though, that he would like his ideal type to take initiative and go far to pursue him - even by using certain tactics such as power play or attempts to make him jealous.

(Disclaimer: all readings are alleged and for entertainment purposes only.)