#however…… genuinely nothing sends me into overstimulation to the point of a meltdown faster than children | Explore Tumblr Posts and Blogs

lesbiansanemi · 4 months

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I wish there was a way to communicate how overstimulated kids make me and how much I really wish I could reliably be in public spaces without hearing large families/children being insanely loud without sounding like one of those freaks that thinks children should be banned from public spaces

#like kids are loud kids are noisy kids need to learn to socialize #this is all fine and logically I understand this #however…… genuinely nothing sends me into overstimulation to the point of a meltdown faster than children #(it sounds so terrible and stupidly edgy but I’m also starting to think kids are some sort of trigger for me due to my upbringing esp kids #crying because… haha reasons we won’t get into)#and like I said I am WELL aware this is all a ME problem and is in no way the fault of the children or their parents #(well sometimes the parents)#(I do think some parents need to be better about comforting screaming/crying kids and teaching kids they can’t run around and scream #whenever and wherever they want)#but like. I wish I could communicate that I genuinely do hate being around children without sounding like I have overlap with the people who #are freaks about it and think kids are uniquely terrible and that it’s all the kids fault for… yk being kids #there’s not a solution here but I wish I could at least complain without having to add fifteen caveats about how I think children are ppl #and deserve respect and caring and it’s ridiculous to act like they shouldn’t be allowed in public spaces #because they are sometimes loud and annoying #but UNFORTINATELY there’s a very large annoying and loud group of adults who have INSANE opinions about children #so ugh #anyways I’m overstimulated so I went to go hide in the bathroom for a bit #but there’s a family in here with four kids and they’re all being SO loud and shrieking and laughing #and it’s making me want to bang my head into a wall #kaz rambles

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