#idk I wish I told her about the posts I've read by lesbians

[is-this-really--life]

It can be so frustrating talking to other bisexuals that think their experiences are universal. It's like, I get it's tempting to want to think the rest of the world is like you but that they draw their lines arbitrarily and closet themselves as one thing. But that isn't true. There are actually a lot of people who are not capable of being attracted to one sex or the other.

The attraction you've experienced to women is the same as a lesbian's and yet you are still capable of being attracted to the male sex because that's who you are. That's your sexuality. Exclusively homosexual people do exist and you can't keep treating them like their sexuality isn't real and their boundaries don't matter. Not everyone is like you. If you "only see gender," not biological sex, when it comes to your attraction, so be it. But there are other types of people in the world. People who should have the right to not be attracted to the male form and to avoid penis in their sex lives, and be open about that, without being put under a microscope or put on trial because of it.