#like aghhh everything else is fine but problem solving is just so horn clashing for us
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aghhh i try my best to put emotions aside and talk through problems without impulsively saying things in the heat of a moment and STILL he sees this as a personal attack
#it should be us vs problem not me vs you get that through your head#yes i might end up sounding cold because i try very hard to keep emotions at bay esp through text#i refuse to have wars#like today i sortof invited him to grab a coffee with me after my practice ended bc i figured it would be a nice way to see eachother#he ended up sleeping in bc his phone ran out of battery and he got home at around 5#i figured that was the case bc last night he told me he was w/friends#i expressed my disappointment bc we dont rly hang out during the day. i brought up how always something geta in the way and we move the-#-hangout at a later time. i tried my best to be non threatening and accusatory. and somehow it snowballed to where he told me-#-he doesn't feel like explaining himself out of the situation (in estonian the slang is mähkima and idk how to even explain it well rn)#nad i just said that yeah.. okay.. instead of solving the problem you just have to mess with me#and now its just radio silence#and okay i admit i ended up being blamey and around the end a bit emotional#bc im lowkey hurt that he sees this as a me vs him type of a thing..#like aghhh everything else is fine but problem solving is just so horn clashing for us#🪐
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