#malas madres

[bwhitex]

Why is my plant called a bad mother?

The hypothesis posits that traits typically associated with the notion of a "bad mother" are selected for when such a mother becomes the solution to her environment. For example becomes the easier one to reproduce with. In the metaphor of the "mala-madre" or "bad mother," the characteristics of the Kalanchoe daigremontiana plant serve as a proxy for maternal behaviors. The plant is notorious for its reproductive strategy—producing plantlets that detach and grow independently, a feature that is mirrored in the metaphorical equation for the "mala-madre." The problem that gets its name is that it’s rather easy, multiples and the the children are hyper independent. Let’s take only the true things that make this plant an awesome plant but also how it got a bad rep, see it physically is great at all this:

Breaking down the equation (Propagation x Soil Preference) Feeding / Light Requirements + Tolerance = mala-madre, we can analyze the components:

Propagation, magically the solution to eliding the plants adaptiveness to proproagation is to limit warmth. By Imposing Limits on Warmth when warmth is likely to be high, is self regulatory thing good mothers do by setting boundaries with their time, and duration together. This is also what makes it a bad mother if there is no limit. This suggests a mother's promotion of premature self-sufficiency in her children, similar to how the plantlets are detached to grow independently. But in the plant, its “plantings”, are extensions of her, herself with no roots but its own space to be. This lack of full autonomy between herself and her kids identities is what makes it get its reputation and renders its name.

Soil Preference is physical metaphysics if the act of (Precision). A bad mother was too careful. She has no really offsprings, as her “planets”, are just branches of her. This interesting result, frames what bad mothers do: to selective that it hurt humanity and ultimately herself. Precision, and this is common knowledge in analogy, but females are know to be the more “selective” sex and knowing the contextual understanding here when applying the analogy that “selection when stringent”, too precise would imply a rigid set of conditions that the mother imposes, possibly not accounting for a child's individuality. The result: children with no roots and no real independence. These are not really “planets”, they are branches.

Feeding, the metaphorical equivalent to feeding is receiving nurishment, in relational space that’s reciprocating a response. As communication is life. If no one communicates, no relationship. So Reciprocating Responsiveness, even non verbally grows the relationship, so when low, it indicates a mother's lack of responsiveness to her children's needs, akin to insufficient feeding. That’s what mothers who raise extensions of herself don’t do: have reciprocal responsiveness, there needs to be limits for that.

Light Requirement, the limited light that this plant needs makes it a really pleasing plant to have around for most people. But the ability for a woman to grow in the cold, excessively that is unnatural. This metaphorical is Unconditional Positive Regard then, and when minimal Unconditional Positive Regard happens, and it’s pointing to a predictable pattern what is known as scarcity of emotional nourishment, like a plant that needs little light to thrive. That deemed it necessary to call her a bad mom. Maybe, but what this means is bad mothers need excessive re-assurance. They certainly feel like bad mothers and that’s it, they only feel themselves.

Lastly, physical Tolerance, and its metaphysical equivalent here Sincerity. Authenticity, the vulnerability of two autonomous beings, mother and child, when it’s balanced with sincerity, suggests an enduring patience and genuine acceptance of various challenges. A bad mother, too tolerant, at the expense of being sincere. It’s the low mantaince that mala-madre that also earns its value, so low mantaince its neglectful in comparison to the needs of the average plant. It’s honestly, easy to take care of. This means all good mothers are rather challenging to love but not overly challenging, thus one can never be too tolerant, that’s just not sincere

The equation, thus, characterizes a "mala-madre" as one who hastens independence, imposes inflexible expectations, is unresponsive to needs, lacks in providing emotional support, and yet, paradoxically, exhibits a form of sincere tolerance. To transform the "mala-madre" into a figure more aligned with the nurturing "archaic mother," we must recalibrate the equation:

Propagation becomes Encouraging Supported Autonomy, fostering a balance between independence and support. But not hyper independence, as humans need each other and no offspring is considered human without its vulnerabilities, a child that is unafraid to make mistakes is adaptable. Thus, Soil Preference transforms into Adaptability, highlighting the need to tailor expectations to the child's individual needs. Feeding is reinterpreted as Attuned Nurturing, emphasizing the importance of meeting both the emotional and physical needs of children with sensitivity. Light Requirements are underscored as Emphasized Unconditional Positive Regard, affirming the necessity for consistent emotional support. Tolerance evolves into Sincere Engagement, emphasizing the importance of being present and authentically involved in the child's life.

Thus, the equation is re-envisioned to foster the positive growth of both mother and offspring:

(Encouraging Supported Autonomy x Adaptability) Attuned Nurturing / Emphasized Unconditional Positive Regard + Sincere Engagement = Supportive Archaic Mother

This reconceptualized equation encapsulates a holistic view of positive mothering traits that, when embraced, support the development of a nurturing, supportive, and emotionally intelligent environment, embodying th so e essence of the "archaic mother." She was chaotic but positive. An adventure, but never chaotic to uproot the identities of those around her. So, the archaic mother, is the reason humans survived. Without female

Participation, basically those children weren’t any of our parents. Human Survival and Female Participation is essential for survival and has historically been, and continues to be, deeply reliant on female participation. Women play a critical role in the perpetuation of our species, community organization, and the nurturing that is essential for the survival and development of the next generation. This participation is multifaceted and encompasses biological, cultural, social, and economic dimensions.

Biological Contribution

At the most fundamental level, the biological role of women in childbirth and breastfeeding is crucial for the continuation of the human race. The ability to conceive, bear, and nurse offspring is a uniquely female contribution to the survival of humans.

Cultural and Social Roles

Culturally and socially, women have traditionally been the primary caregivers, responsible for the emotional and physical well-being of children. This nurturing role is essential not only for the immediate survival of infants but also for the long-term development of healthy, functioning adults.

Economic Impact

Economically, women contribute significantly to the workforce, both in formal and informal sectors. Their participation in labor markets, agriculture, education, health, and other industries is vital for the growth and stability of societies.

Education and Knowledge Transfer

Women are often the primary educators in the early life of a child. The transfer of knowledge, cultural norms, and skills from mothers to children has been a key factor in the development of human societies.

Leadership and Governance

In governance and leadership, women's participation leads to more inclusive and representative decision-making processes. This can result in policies that promote the welfare and survival of broader segments of the population.

Community Building

Community building and social cohesion are also areas where women play a significant role. The maintenance of social networks and support systems often relies on the work of women within communities.

In summary, female participation is not just beneficial but essential to human survival. It spans from the very intimate act of childbearing to complex social structures and governance. The health, education, and economic well-being of societies are demonstrably improved when women are empowered and actively involved in all aspects of life.

But what have we here with this amazing plant that I feel proud of because it ain’t dead, yet?

Well, it’s just bad because it needs nobody that’s all. Thus it’s trauma, hyper independence in a woman makes her over controlling on her environment but a bad mother is easier to love: hints why it’s so evolutionary spread out, historically theres Evolutionary Success of "Mala-madre, meaning the archaic mother is success full at mating because of all her toxic qualities.

Here’s How:

The term "mala-madre" is a colloquial name for the plant *Kalanchoe daigremontiana*, which is known for its highly efficient reproductive strategy. The name, which translates to "bad mother," may seem counterintuitive when considering the plant's successful propagation. However, from an evolutionary standpoint, the plant is an exemplar of productivity and survival.

Reproductive Strategy

Mala-madre plants produce small plantlets along the edges of their leaves, which fall off and can grow independently without any further assistance from the parent plant. This mode of asexual reproduction, also known as vegetative propagation, means the plant can rapidly colonize an area. It’s a special type of selfish that ensures her living on genetically.

Self-Sufficiency of Offspring

The "bad mother" moniker comes from the fact that once the plantlets are produced, they are left to fend for themselves. However, this is not a disadvantage but rather a testament to the plant's evolutionary adaptability. She generated enough life, meaning she was at one time all our mothers,

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High Survival Rate

In many environments, the chances of seedling survival are low due to predation, disease, or competition for resources. The mala-madre's strategy bypasses many of these obstacles by producing offspring that are already partially developed and thus more likely to survive than a seedling. While this is not a disadvantage but rather a testament to the plant's evolutionary adaptability. The plantlets are equipped with all they need to start growing on their own as soon as they land in a suitable environment. While quantity over quality sure sounds like a disaster not in certain situations where survival is sole importance. In these environments, the chances of seedling survival are low due to predation, disease, or competition for resources. So, all our mothers at one time, had to be like this. The mala-madre's strategy bypasses many of these obstacles by producing offspring that are already partially developed and thus more likely to survive than a seedling.

Rapid Spread

This reproductive mechanism allows for a rapid spread of the species, it’s how the human species evolved too, which can be advantageous in survival important environments where competition for space and resources is intense. Quality matters less, so the plant's ability to produce numerous offspring ensures that some will find suitable conditions to thrive, hence securing the species' survival. All the traumatized offsprings, well one or two survived and evolved, better. That’s the point. It’s why looking for love in all the wrong places, draws out the archaic father. Only the overly optimistic, but optimistic no less, seeds any chance for evolving past survival.

Low Parental Investment

From an evolutionary perspective, low parental investment with high offspring output can be a very successful strategy, especially in stable or resource-rich environments where the likelihood of offspring survival is high without parental intervention. When the survival of her children is low, she carries about the sustainment of her off spring’s life. A bad mother is also, an ensuring one who at the expense of her children’s autonomy ensures their continuity. This continuation is actually possible. Codependent parenting is better than no parenting said evolution. This bad parenting happened versus no parenting.

In conclusion, the "mala-madre" plant's reputation as a "bad mother" is misleading if interpreted through the lens of human parenting. In evolutionary terms, its reproductive strategy is highly successful and has allowed the plant to thrive in various environments. Its "hands-off" approach to offspring is not a sign of neglect but an effective adaptation that ensures the survival and proliferation of the species.

[brainfondue]

Fascinada que tengo un tag para roly a pesar de que roly ni siquiera es mi gata pero para mi es como si la viera todos los dias

[elbiotipo]

creo que youtube debería dejar de cambiarme la calidad del video mientras lo estoy mirando, y también creo que todos deberíamos explotar y morir

[freemanblue]

Hay algunas mujeres que nunca debieron ser madres, son malas madres que golpean , gritan, jalonean , insultan a sus hijos en la calle. Qué no le harán en sus casas cuando están solos.

[groriatrevi10xx]

G: A meaningless drawing?... Maybe.../¿Un dibujo sin sentido?... Tal vez...

Context of this: In 2015, some colleagues sent me a link to a YouTube video... Something about Snow White being bad and the Queen her adoptive mother, being the good one in the story... It was a horror video, with scenarios dark and disturbing... History was shocking twisted at the same time... But they made me see and imagine what it would be like if "the good guys in history" were actually the bad guys.../Contexto de esto: En 2015, unos compañeros me enviaron un enlace a un video de YouTube... Algo sobre Blancanieves siendo mala y la Reina su madre adoptiva, siendo la buena en la historia... Era un video de terror, con escenarios oscuros e inquietantes... La historia fue impactantemente retorcida al mismo tiempo... Pero me hicieron ver e imaginar cómo sería si "los buenos de la historia" fueran en realidad los malos...

Actually, though, I didn't remember this video... I think they deleted it for being strong, but... Well, a coworker reminded me of this video, so he gave me an idea... "What if Brittany was Snow White but being bad"... And well, that's where the drawing came from, also my coworker loves the character of Brittany who is a character of Kassa.../Aunque en realidad no recordaba este video... Creo que lo borraron por ser fuerte, pero... Bueno, un compañero de trabajo me recordó este video, así que me dio una idea... "¿Y si Brittany es Blancanieves pero siendo mala"... Y bueno, de ahí salió el dibujo, además a mi compañera le encanta el personaje de Brittany que es un personaje de Kassa...

Lol, here's the Story of the Drawing... I had no ideas so I based a bit on the outfits from the Vocaloid Song as well, the Story in the old video and Blah, blah.../Lol, aquí está la historia del dibujo... No tenía ideas, así que también me basé un poco en los atuendos de la canción de Vocaloid, la historia en el video anterior y bla, bla...

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Umbra: Es mía... {It's mine...}

Brittany es de {Brittany is from}: @askkassandragf-v-2

[mikrokosmcs]

no sé quién es minho pero io le mando besitos 🥺💜

- —No me merezco tanto amor tan de repente — -honestamente, no recordaba cuando fue la ultima vez que se sintió verdaderamente querido por otra persona. Pero no se sentía correcto rechazarlos. - —Gracias.

[atlvas]

(🔓) INFORMACIÓN DESBLOQUEADA CON ÉXITO:

recopilación de datos sobre el jugador atlas

personas relevantes.

01. cleo [ ____ ], tres años. hermana menor con la que actualmente convive. único miembro de su familia residente en chicago, se volvió su tutor legal después del fallecimiento de sus padres. 02. guadalupe santos, veinticuatro años. mejor amiga desde la infancia. en el presente trabaja en un centro de estética, suele hacerse cargo de cleo cuando es preciso. 03. antoine davis, veintidós años. mejor amigo desde la infancia, que además fue su compañero de clase en cada curso académico. ahora, se dedica a vender droga en el sector de la vecindad, pero su pasión es la música. 04. [ _____ ____ ], alias mars, veintidós años. pareja sentimental, con quien actualmente convive. su relación comenzó dentro de alew, pudiéndose trackear hasta el principio de la competencia.

lugares que frecuenta.

01. chicagoland speedway. siendo conocido que el jugador participa en carreras profesionales de motociclismo, es común verlo en la zona durante los domingos de competición o para entrenar. 02. montrose beach. el lugar predilecto desde la infancia, solía acudir junto a sus padres durante los fines de semana. actualmente, suele ir allí cuando precisa calma, o para pasar el rato con su pareja. 03. zhang cuisine. restaurante propiedad del padre de emily zhang, otra de sus amigas de la infancia, allí trabaja de vez en cuando como fregaplatos o ayudando a la reposición de alimentos. odia atender al público, pero lo hace cuando no tiene más remedio.

[briefdreamerbasketballmuffin]

Mi hermano abrió la puerta del baño (el cuál cuya puerta no tiene ningún tipo de cerradura) y no me di cuenta que él había llegado por qué estaba ocupada levantandome la pantaloneta y cuando el abrió la puerta muy probablemente me vio la ropa interior(si no es que más), obviamente me enoje y le grité pero el solo golpeó la puerta enojado y se fue, mi madre oyó todo pero ni hizo por preguntarme qué pasó

[maleliddell]

Today is the twins birthday and I'm so busy studying that I don't have time to draw them something

Callie, Darcy im so sorry, mama is so fucking busy 😭😭

[ms-darcy96]

Alguien se ah preguntado por qué idealizan mucho el amor de madre? Por qué no todas las madres darían todo por sus hijos no todas quieren su bienestar no todas son como el amor de madre algunas son un mierda y el amor de madre les queda muy pero muy grande.

[kiliantharker]

pensando sobre esto brujo axolotl de mexicano thatsalso from minecraft.help

[sonickparkita]

"tu culpa"

"¿me estas culpando de que mi papá te pegara? ¿vos te escuchas?"

"si, te conozco, nuestras peleas siempre eran por tu culpa"

mamá... espero que un dia te des cuenta del daño que me causas cada dia de mi vida.

[bakingmoomins]

not to be salty but i hate all the people that come to my university just to run or bike

[my-little-lonely-space]

[guerrillagay]

Camila Moreno - Mala Madre

[alejaaaaaaaaaa77]

La buena mala madre (Reseña)

Más allá de una típica historia de amor, el K-drama ‘La buena mala madre’, es una oda a la maternidad que nadie se puede perder.

El éxito de las series coreanas en Netflix, continua con su expansión en la plataforma de streaming, esta vez con una trama marcada por la originalidad y la comedia que explora las dificultades que la crianza de los hijos.

La historia se centra en Young-soon (Ra Mi-ran), una mamá que enviudó muy joven, que se encuentra encargada de una granja de cerdos y a la vez, de la crianza de su hijo Kang-ho.

A pesar de verse obligada a educar y cuidar a Kang-ho completamente sola, ella está segura que prefiere ser una ‘mala madre’ muy exigente y dura para que su hijo crezca con ambiciones, y más tarde, se convierta en un importante fiscal. Sin embargo, un terrible accidente hace que todo tome un nuevo rumbo y el joven vuelva a tener siete años.

La serie manda un poderoso mensaje reflexivo, sobre los retos que se enfrentan tanto las madres solteras, como aquellas que pueden llegar a ser sobreprotectoras con sus hijos.

Con una mezcla de comedia, drama y algunos toques de tragedia, ‘La buena mala madre’ se posiciona como una de las favoritas por los fanáticos de los doramas, e incluso para mí.

Justamente esta serie pude disfrutarla con mí mamá, compartimos los mismos sentimientos, nos enganchó desde el primer capítulo que observamos, realmente fue una experiencia maravillosa culminar esta serie llena de situaciones similares a las que muchas familias lamentablemente tienen que padecer y superar con amor y dedicación.