#mod crabishira

[dangan-happy]

(tell Kokichi to give me the wi-fi password... now)

to: anyone willing to listen lol

hey can i have a hug? i’ve been feeling quite pathetic recently cause my arms are sore and they hurt a lot if i move them + i have a headache,,,, this morning i almost started crying because i couldn’t open a water bottle :((

Nya, if you want a hug, I'll give you a hug, anon. I'll even fill it with some MP so your arms and head don't hurt anymore!

I'm not very good at medical advice when I can't use my magic, but maybe some water and sleep will help with you headache. You could also take some pain medicine for your arms and head, that will probably help, nya.

Nya, one final thing, anon. I promise you'll feel better before you know it! If you still feel pathetic about things, try taking a little while to relax and raise your MP. That always helps me when I feel pathetic.

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Hello, anon. I know challenges like this are tough, but I hope that you know that things will be okay. Try to rest up as much as possible, but also attempt to rebuild your strength. Water is also good for your system. You're not pathetic, you're no where near pathetic. In the end, we all have times where we can't do certain things, but that doesn't mean you're not strong.

Now, here is the hug that you requested. I hope that it allows you to feel better, since you deserve it. Don't let yourself feel down, you will be fine soon. Remember to drink water and rest up, but also continue to use your arm. You'll be okay in no time, anon.

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Of course your degenerate male father is being ignorant. Grrr, I would punch some manners into him if I could!

I really am sorry to hear how your father's been treating your autism, and I think there's two things you can do. One could be to keep trying to change his view on autism. And the other would be to try to move past him. I know how much this might hurt, but I think that letting your dad keep treating you like this would hurt more.

You're stronger then that degenerate male, and I just know that with the help and support of your other loved ones, you'll be able to get past this!

Now, it's HUG TIME, ANON!

Hello Anon! I’m sorry to hear about your father not accepting this fact. Sometimes older generations are a bit, er, jaded. When you tell them things they usually go into the whole “Oh I know what I’m talking about, blah blah blah, I’m older so I have more knowledge.”

But sometimes it’s better to just move on. If your father isn’t accepting this, then perhaps you just should stop caring about his opinion. Focus on the others that care and are more accepting. Their the ones that’ll help you through life.

I hope this hug helps you in some way. I’ll make it extra tight.

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(A little bit of Monaca in my life) Helloooo i was wondering if i could get tenko, tsumugi & rantaro to give a friend of mine a hug. zie just finished another term of college, zie’s not even 15 yet & doing more than i ever could!! zies been stressed as hell & ive been worried bc i think zies parents put alot of pressure on them. if u could give zie some love (esp tsumugi!!) thatd be cool <3 ur some of zies favs, tysm!!!!

WOAH, Zie's not even 15 and they're in college! That's super amazing!! They must be really smart!

Hmm, you said Zie's kinda stressed, yeah? Well, Zie should know that feeling stressed is totally normal. I know things are difficult now, but think of all the fun on the other side of all this stress! Also, it's really stupid of Zie's parents to put so much pressure on them. Zie's in college! They should be super duper proud of them, not adding more stress and worry to their life.

Maybe one of my awesome, Neo-Aikido trained hugs will make Zie feel a little better! Hug time!!

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Hey anon, sure thing! I'm always down for giving hugs if people need them. Woah, not even fifteen and already in college? As in literally finished a whole dang term of college?! Goddamn, that's amazing! That takes a whole lot of brain power that I don't think I have. Wow, make sure your friend knows how impressive that is.

Aw, I'm sorry to hear zie's been stressed. I mean, it's not surprising given the circumstances, I'd be stressed too. If I were hir parents I'd throw hir a party. Like wow, everything zie's done so far would have blown my expectations out of the water. Regardless of what hir parents think, I hope zie knows how incredible hir accomplishments are. Zie deserves all the respect and admiration in the world for doing all that zie's done at such a young age.

Thankfully since zie's done with a term, hopefully that means zie can relax and unwind. Zie's sure as hell earned it. Just make sure zie knows how amazing their accomplishments are, even if hir parents won't acknowledge it. Aw, it means a lot that I'm a favorite to hir, hopefully this ask can make hir day a little better. Again, I'm totally down for the hug, it's the least I can do!

I plainly think Chabashira-San and Amami-Kun said everything there was to say! I think plainly I know who you're talking about... And zie are amazing. Finishing a term of college at 15... Wow! When I was 15, I was struggling to find a matching pair of socks each day...

Like Amami-Kun said, zie deserves a party! Or at least deserves to treat hirself to something special. Zie plainly deserves it! Tell hir that zie have a lot to be proud of, and that Tsumugi is super proud of hir! I am sending your dear friend all of the love and hugs I plainly can.

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Miley Cyrus has been quiet since Genocider Syo showed up... // hello! this is to makoto, hiyoko and tenko. in a few days, i'm gonna meet an actor from one of my favorite shows (the walking dead), and i'm super excited about it! however, a mix of extreme social anxiety and intrusive thoughts has me really anxious and a bit reluctant to meet him. may i have a hug and some reassurance?

WOAH, you're going to meet one of the actors! That's so awesome!

I can understand how nervous you are, seeing as this is such a big occasion, but you've totally got this! I know you'll be able to meet this actor, and have a TON of fun! And yeah, you can totally have a hug anon!

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Not too shabby Anon, guess dreams really do come true. Not like I was doubting that saying before but, hey, that’s pretty neat that you’re going to meet an actor from a show you enjoy.

It’s pretty nerve-racking, meeting an idol is always cool and all but hey, take a few deep breaths. Do your best to calm your breathing, think of the positives that will come out of this day. Sure you’re nervous, who wouldn’t be when meeting someone from a show you’re heavily invested in, but think of the best outcome!

I’m definitely up for giving you a hug, you’ll be having fun and enjoying yourself! I know you got this!

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I would absolutely recommend taking deep breaths & practice anything you would like to ask the actor. I’m sure meeting someone that is on your favourite show will be something you won’t ever forget..

I’m really happy for you anonymous! It’s going to be super fun, that much I’m sure of. Although, being nervous is valid, I’d be nervous upon meeting someone that I look up to. I mean, c’mon, I never expect them to be impressed by some average looking guy…anyway!

I have hope that you’ll be just fine! Oh right, before I forget, you can definitely have a hug from me too..

[dangan-happy]

A shark in the pool?! Wha- oh wait, nevermind, that’s just Asahina hunting for a donut.

To Rantaro, Kaede, and Tenko

MAN am i tired of ppl lying to me. I’m already on the road to getting a lot more better and I cant allow anymore casualties. I have learned so much and I even have some ppl I can rely on. I also have lots of friends who really do care ab me.

But Ik im gonna have to leave a friend because of how much she hurts me, and it sucks. I want to be w her but the feeling does NOT feel mutual. She says she loves me but she never shows it. Ever.

I want to talk to her properly ab it but she’s ignoring me. Is it so bad to just block her and be done w it? I don’t think she’s gonna notice either way. But at the same time, what if she’s hurt by it. I don’t know anymore. But I don’t want to get hurt either.

Is it so bad to put myself first? After all this time. It’s always been one sided. I’m the one who’s always been thinking, and just pondering ab our relationship. I’m the one who actually wants to go through w it..

We had a fight and took a break for sometime. And than we started talking eachother again. We have only known eachother for 9 months but she already means so much to me..

I actually want to get to know her, and understand eachother. To restart and have a better relationship than we had in the past. But she doesn’t want that. She doesn’t even want to talk to me or anything and.. I’m sick of it.

I’m trying my best to make her understand what I’m feeling, but she’s having none of it…

It’s something that causes me lots of pain.. and. I just want to be done w it. W her understanding how I feel or not and just be completely in the dark. I’m tired…

Liars suck, case and point. I’ve had my fair share of people lying to me as well, although it can’t be helped. Some people will do anything to keep their secrets from you.

Hey, don’t worry about it, you’re always getting hurt and if she continuously does it, it’s far better to get away from them, you don’t need that kind of toxicity in your life. And now that she’s avoiding you, who knows what could be going on in her mind, perhaps she’s already dropped you and just moves on like you never existed. That feeling really ticks me off, I hope that’s not the case but even so, I would suggest sending her a message about how you’re feeling one last time, then hit the block button.

It’s going to hurt, I’ll warn you right now but I’m sure you figured that out already. If someone is willing to ignore you when you’re doing all you can to reach out, it’s best to just separate yourself from said person. Some people are just cold like that. And it really sucks. But you know what, it’s their loss. You’re a great person and you don’t need to explain yourself to anyone, if it’s for your mental health, it’s best to get them out of your life. 

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Rantaro pretty much took the cake on this ask and I have to say that I agree with him one hundred percent. It really is a shame you’re going to lose a friend, but you know what? Toxic friends are not worth it. They will only drain you and make you feel awful, that’s not what we want, right?

Blocking her seems like the right choice, because she’s already ignoring you and acting like you don’t exist. And if she’s not willing to fix things or willing to change, there’s no point in being close to her. Ultimately, it’s your choice Anon, we can only provide you with the best advice we think is good to follow.

I just want you to know that it’s okay to cut someone off, especially if they hurt you more than a few times. You have my support and I know that you have Rantaro’s and Tenko’s too! Just take a deep breath, calm yourself as much as you can, and mentally prepare yourself.

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Rantaro and Kaede totally got this one, and they're absolutely right! I know how much it can suck to have to cut a person off like that, but if they're treating you like that, it can't be helped.

Toxic 'friends' and liars aren't worth giving your time and support to, and it really makes me so mad at how someone could treat you like that! But know that you have our support, and whether you choose to block her or try again is totally up to you.

Ang hey, if anyone hurts you like that again, I'll teach you my Neo-Aikido skills to use against them! (A-Anon, this is a joke, please don't flip anyone. It would be better to work it out. But I will teach you Neo-Aikido if it'll make you feel better!)

[dangan-happy]

( password: I love Sakura... oh, and I also love Sakura.)

i failed my math quiz and now have a 47% in math. no matter how hard I try, I still suck at math. My parents keep threatening to send me to boarding school if I can’t raise my grade. I’m also very stressed for other reasons. can I just get a hug from anybody? I’d prefer akane, Makoto, or Tenko, but I don’t mind Anyone except hifumi, teruteru or sayaka.

Oh man, I'm sorry to hear that anonymous...I can't imagine what it's like to not only fail a quiz but have your parents threaten you with something like boarding school.. That's not cool at all.

Yea, I don't mind giving you a hug at all. I hope things get better for you as soon as possible, especially with the whole boarding school thing.

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Awh man! That sucks, dude! 

I’d recommend trying to ask ya’ teachers for some help if you’re havin’ trouble, they should be willin’ to explain and help you with things ya’ might find hard. There’s always the internet too, there should be some videos explaining stuff that could help ya’ out! 

Of course ya’ can get a hug! Bring it in! I wish ya’ lots’a luck!

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Ouch, a low grade? That's not good at all!

That's not very cool of your parents to threaten to send you off to boarding school like that. Grr, if I were there, I just might punch them!

A-Anyway, Akane had some really good advice about talking to your teachers and looking online. Or maybe you could go to a friend of yours and ask for some help from them! Alrighty anon, it's hug time! And I wish you luck on getting an awesome grade on your next quiz!

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[No offense, but you're looking really good today] hopefully I’m doing this right since it’s my first time sending one but I would like hiyoko,rantaro and tenko for this(I’m a boy and I know she dislikes them even tho she’s a comfort but if I can’t use tenko for this I’ll like Junko) anyways I need advice I’m starting to have a crush again on a great friend of mine but it’s kinda more deeply in love this time if that makes sense. And I have the urge to talk to him but I’m scared and nervous I might bore him or that he wouldn’t wanna talk even tho we have some or a lot of stuff in common I’m also nervous considering his best friend and I don’t really get along and he knows this and I’m nervous he might dislike me a little for it. And what makes it worse is that we only talk in the group chat not privately so it might seem weird.. there’s more to say but it’s kinda embarrassing hhhh

You’re taking the time to include me in this, even though I have no idea what to do when it comes to love? Wow, you really must be desperate then Anon, at least you didn’t ask for that clumsy Mikan. So you have a brain after all. 

Well, I think you should be able to talk to him whether his stupid friend likes you or not, you aren’t talking to his friend, you’re talking to this guy you like. Right? I guess I can understand why you’re nervous, I’ve never had a crush on anyone, so I’m a little rusty on this kinda subject. 

Since you have some common interests, don’t be worried too much about talking to him when it comes to those topics! Anyone with a brain cell can see that having mutual interests isn’t a bad thing, plus it can really help you have a conversation with them! And maybe you can learn more about him! It doesn’t matter what his friend thinks of you, you’re not trying to impress him. You’re impressing your crush, well, you don't have to try hard. He probably appreciates your presence! And if he doesn’t, I’ll bop him on the head!

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Hey there anon, don't worry, you aren't saying anything worth embarrassment, I promise. Crushes are always an awkward experience, so don't worry, everything you're feeling is perfectly natural. Feeling nervous is definitely normal. Honestly, I think the first step is to sit down and think things through, as hard as it is. Maybe I'm just a total buzzkill, but I think it's almost always best to try and think about things so I don't end up rushing into anything. You've already done an awesome job of picking up on the pros and cons, and I'm proud of you for that. Honestly, I think you gotta try talking on him one on one before you can really do anything else. Just send him a dm involving an interest you have in common, and just see how it goes. The great thing about dm conversations is that you can think about what you say before you send it. I know, it's beyond scary, but I think that's the best next step.

Honestly, I think whatever happened between you and your friend should only impact you two, but I can't guarantee that this will be the case obviously. I don't know why you don't get along so there's not much I can say on this part. If he brings it up, talk it out, explain your side, answer questions, anything like that. It might not hurt to at least be nice to his friend too, just saying. Stuff like this is never easy, and honestly my advice might not work at all.

Just be sure to think with your head and not your heart. I know, I just went against every disney movie ever, but logic is the way to go, at least when things are starting out. Try to get to know each other more, and see how it goes from there. Good luck ok! Fingers crossed it all works out for you.

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Even though you are a degenerate male, I guess I could still help you with this. Even males have feelings, after all.

Like Rantaro and Hiyoko said, it’s super great that you two have things in common! That way, you don’t have to worry about your crush being uninterested or bored! Talking to your crush is totally a way to get closer to him, and to see whether or not it would be a good idea to confess or not. 

Although it might seem a little awkward at first, I think texting him in private is a good idea. Maybe you could send him a meme he might find funny to start the conversation. Like I said, it might be a little awkward at first, but it’ll be a really good way to get closer to him. And who cares if his friend doesn't like you? You and your crush’s friend don’t have to talk. After all, it your crush you want to talk to, and not the friend, right?

You can totally do this, anon!! I believe in you!!

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Give me back my glitter, Monomi! Tenko, Kokichi and Hiyoko! I need your help! A boy I know says minecraft bedwars are better than blanket forts >:( Can you give me your opinions on this nonsense??? P.s love ya guys <3

My only opinion that I have on this is that whoever this boy is, he’s stupid, dumb, and ugly! And that’s just me being nice. He’s lucky I don’t understand really Minecraft.

This is something that should be directed towards the slowpoke gamer girl who always hangs out with that idiot Ollie. 

Aw, you love me? Haha, I love you too! But you know what? I’d love you a lot more if you gave me some gummies!

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MINECRAFT! OOH! Ok, I read this ask at like, 3 am yesterday and I lowkey thought I dreamed about it because my last few asks have been really heavy, and I was like, there's no way that there's an ask just sitting there that's basically, "lol minecraft", but there IS. I'm starting to think that I need to put a disclaimer above all my asks that says something about the fact that if you ask for me you're gonna get a side of random chaos with your asks, because this is becoming a reoccurring thing. 

Ok, just gonna listen to mine diamonds while I answer this....aaaand we're good! Ok, so, we all know minecraft is like, a god tier game so the bed wars has a solid lead, buuuut I think it's really just a matter of perspective. I think it would depend what mood I'm in to really decide a winner, but hey I got some good news! I just googled it, and there are some awesome minecraft blankets you can buy to make a pillow fort to sit in while you play minecraft. Tada! Best of both worlds!

You're suuuuper lucky I was able to answer this ultra serious ask for you anon. I'm the best person out there for life saving questions like these. Love you too anon! Look out for creepers ok!

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I just can’t agree with that degenerate male Kokichi! Who could like Minecraft more then blanket forts?!

The soft warmth of a blanket fort....soooo nice. How Tenko would love to be in one right now!

Clearly, blanket forts are better then Minecraft. Your degenerate male friend doesn’t know what he’s talking about.

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To anyone, it probably isn’t that big of a deal, but last week I got braces and I’m still feeling really uncomfortable with how they look and the fact that I’ll be stuck with them for so long...I’d just like a little positivity if that’s alright. (Let Shrek back into DICE)

Please do not think it is not a big deal Anon! Braces are from what I understand are very painful objects in ones mouth, correct? I have never had such items placed on my teeth for a long period of time, it must be excruciating not being able to remove them.

Fret not Anon! I shall do my best to give you hope!

Although you are uncomfortable with them currently, you will get used to them as time goes on. Of course it will take awhile but perhaps you can grow to loving how you look with them. And you may look at the outlook when the time comes to remove them! 

You shall get through this Anon, I know you will. You can always come back if you feel insecure with these braces, I will do my utmost best to help you. That is something I will stand by.

Tenko had braces for a little while, too.

Tenko was kind of nervous about how they look, but she got used to them (and even thought they were kind of cute!). They may hurt for a day or two after getting them put on or tightened, or feel weird for a little while, but Tenko promises the feeling will go away!

Don’t tell your dentist Tenko said this, but all that stuff they tell you not to eat with braces? So long as you’re careful with hard foods and clean your braces after gummy foods, you can go ahead and eat them!

Well, it's not like I can necessarily have braces in the first place, so don't exactly know where you're coming from. Although they do sound rather painful to have..

But I can promise you something Anon, and that is the fact that the braces won't be something that you'll be stuck with forever. eventually they will have to come off some day, and even if they don't for quite a while, it will get to the point that you forget about their existence in the first place. At least, that is what my Inner Voice is saying.

Just remember to still take care of your teeth of course.The usual daily brushing and flossing abiet in different than usual methods should suffice on their own. Either way I hope that your experience braces isn't too bad and I wish you the best of luck with managing them.

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ENOSHIMA I'M BALD.| to miss chabashira, hi! sorry to pop up out of nowhere but..i guess i kinda need someone to talk about this with? i don't exactly feel comfortable talking to my friends about it so, here i go. i've felt really bad about my appearance lately. my moms always pointing out bad stuff about my style, and myself in general. always talkin 'bout how i could be "skinnier" and more "girly". could i have a hug and some comfort?

HIYAA! It make me so mad that your mother would even think of pointing those things out! 

Who cares what anyone thinks about your appearance! So long as you’re confident with yourself, who’s going to stop you from being who you are!

Now it’s hug time, anon!!

[dangan-happy]

[Password: Give me back my glitter, Monomi!]

To Chiaki, Nagito, and Tenko: this might sound silly, but I’m having a bit of boy trouble. For context, I’m autistic and struggle with my words and emotions sometimes. Anyhow, not too long ago, my boyfriend and I started dating, and sometimes, I feel bad since I’m not as “romantic” as I should be. I guess it’s hard for me, since I can’t pick up on certain cues and I’d rather not make him uncomfortable. On the other hand, I don’t want him to feel unloved either. I’ve talked to him about this, and he completely understands and said it’s 100% fine (bless his soul), and I’m a great girlfriend, but I can’t shake off the feeling of guilt, ya know? Can I have a hug?

I’m not too experienced when it comes to boy trouble, but I can try my best since I am with one and he’s fantastic. Even if he doesn’t believe it. In a way, I can relate to you struggling with being affectionate, my player 2 is the same way, pup thinks that he can’t be affectionate when that’s not true at all...

Anyway.

Being romantic isn’t really a requirement, at least I don’t think so. It’s not easy for everyone to show emotions, I struggle with showing them myself. It’s really good to hear that he understands your situation and is willing to work with you through this. I know that it’s easy to believe that it’s really not okay but trust your boyfriend, he chose you, right? And if he understands, then I’m sure he really cares about you. 

That feeling of guilt is horrible, so I know what you mean. Yeah, you can have a hug, I really hope things get better soon, be sure you continue to communicate with your boyfriend about anything that is bothering you. That way, you two can co-op and work through any problem together. 

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I think you made a good choice asking for me, anon. I’m neurodivergent, too, and I think I can give some good advice. 

Hey, this isn’t silly at all! I’m really proud of you for reaching out with your issue. I can understand how difficult it can be to put your feelings into words, and then to share them with others. 

In any case, you started dating your boyfriend because you love each other, right? That means, your boyfriend loves you no matter how you express your love. He loves you for you, and he said that he’s A-okay with you express your affection.

 Now I’m totally gonna hug all that guilt out of you! C’mere anon!

Well Anon. If I must say, I think you did everything that you needed to do! Explaining to your boyfriend that you don’t usually pick up on cues and have trouble expressing things is a great way to tell him.

Why I’m sure he understands that. And that he doesn’t feel unloved. If you still feel bad about it I recommend talking to him again! It never hurts to talk to him and help get things off your chest! Communication is key after all! Now how about that hug! I hope it gives you courage to get over this guilty feeling!

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(HARK! That sounds like an ask that has just come in!) to tenko: Lately, I’ve been feeling really down and empty, and I’m not really sure how to fix it, as well as the fact life has been pretty sucky in general. May I get a hug?

Life’s got you down, huh? I know the feeling.

Hmmm...maybe you could schedule something with a friend or two? You could go to lunch, watch a movie, or just go for a walk. Or maybe you do something you really enjoy by yourself?

 Either way, I know you’ll be back on your feet in no time! Now time for my super-hug!!

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[TW, mentions of s*xual assault]Tenko. can i have some advice/ words of encouragement? I've been taking this self defence class and my instructor keeps telling us if it comes to it we should try and run away. but i dont want to run away. i wanna make those scumbags pay. i wanna teach em a lesson. I don't want to live in fear of being hurt by men, i dont want to feel like prey. I don't want to run tenko. i want to fight back.

You go anon! If any degenerate male tries to take advantage of you, you should fight back! You shouldn’t live in fear because of something like that, just because some yucky men think it’s ok to do that.

O-on the other hand though, you don’t want to hurt them too much. Tenko knows it’s in self defense, but you could get in trouble, too. Tenko thinks it would be best if you did fight back, then run and tell someone what happened. OH! It would also be a good idea if you tried to take a picture of them. That way you could report them to the police.

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Uh, Hi, It's Boat Anon's friend... I don't know if this would need a trigger warning.

She's been feeling really bad and had some Headaches. She really Likes Kirumi and Maki but Himiko or Korekiyo is good too. Recently another friend of Hers left her and has refused to talk to her over it. And She's doing really badly cause she gets so very obsessed with others friendship due to her parents. So I don't really want you to strain yourself with this ask but, please.

It's Boat Anon's friend again, And I forgot the Password. Kamakura Kamakura Yas Queen! -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

Hello anon, while I don't believe I've ever taken on of Boat Anon's asks, I have heard of them, and I believe I do recall a little of what I've heard they go through. I am always amazed when someone sends in an ask for a friend. In this time of darkness, it is wonderful to see such kindness and love for those around us. So thank you for your beautiful act of kindness anon, I will do my best to be of service. 

Let's start with the headaches. A way I've seen used to get rid of them is placing a cold washcloth over your eyes, or a bag of ice or an ice pack over your eyes. (Use a towel to wrap the ice in if you try that.) If they're more severe, I would look into over the counter medication. They seem to be stress generated, so those are the two ideas I have for that. I am sorry she is having so many problems with friends. That is always a difficult struggle. The fact that the friend is unwilling to talk things out irritates me. Your friend should not feel bad, they did not do anything wrong. That is an act made by the other party, and an unfortunate one at that. 

Honestly, in this situation, it's probably best to let this person go. I know it is painful, but they do not seem to be a person worth keeping around if they do not treat your friend with the care and respect they deserve. They clearly have a much better friend in you, and I believe letting that friend go is for the best. They can always make new, better friends. I'm sorry they feel as if they have to obsess over it. If it is too much to handle, I recommend potentially talking to a psychologist or other professional about ways to ease it. This ask wasn't straining on me at all, I hope I was able to help. Continue to support your friend, I'm sure it means the world to them. 

Greetings Anonymous. You are here as a favor for a friend, are you not? I don’t recall taking any of her asks myself in the past, but I am aware that she is a frequent asker on our blog. Nevertheless, I am still glad that you were able to reach out for your friend. Such an uncommon gesture is always welcome here, and I am sure that your friend will be grateful for your own.

While Kiyo’s suggestions can turn out to be quite useful for headaches, in fact, they are quite common remedies that I use for myself and my clients often, but some other ways that I would recommend to treat her headaches with is to drink water and perhaps take some time to relax, preferably away from electronics.  Stress can lead to one forgetting to do certain tasks, such as staying hydrated, which can cause headaches in its own. The same can be said for stress itself causing the headaches, or a combination of both. Light that emits from electronics can also cause this notion however, with the addition of stress that social media may cause, and perhaps a break is what your friend needs now.

Although, I am rather saddened to hear about the situation with her and her friend. I am truly, truly sorry for such a thing to have happened to her. Being left behind can be a terrible experience, particularly when one is closely attached to the person ‘ghosting’ them. I will agree with Kiyo however, that it is best that your friend decide to leave them alone. It would be in her best interest, and for their mental health. I would not want her to feel more hurt by pursuing something that would likely end up in a detrimental way. Though, the mun hirself can understand having such a close connection with her friends, as her parents are not necessarily the most qualified either, and zie seems to be more comfortable opening up to friends and co-workers rather to family members. While that may not always be the more healthy option in nature, it can be rather comforting to have a family who seems to understand your best interests more. What I would suggest myself, to understand and get through this loss of a friendship, is for your friend to simply discuss it with other members of her chosen family, or even perhaps a psychologist if this ends up being worse, similar to what Kiyo said earlier. Either option may be able to give additional comfort, and support while she handles this situation.

And please Anonymous, this ask was of no issue at all. It is my duty as a maid to serve others under their time of need, and making a request in place of a friend is more than noble of yourself to do. Continue to do what you are doing currently for her. She is more than lucky to have a friend similar to yourself by her side.

Nya...that’s really nice of you to send in an ask for a friend. I think she’ll really appreciate it. I know Tenko took one of Boat Anon’s asks, so I’ve heard of her before...

Nyeh...headaches can be a real pain, especially when you’re stressed, or low on MP. Kiyo and Kirumi gave some really good advice, and I’d like to add on. Maybe she could take a nap when she gets a headache. Napping always helps me. Or she could just rest in a cold, dark room. She should definitely drink water, and maybe some hot tea might help, too.

About Boat Anon’s friend, as painful as it might be, I would tell her to let them go. My guess is they want to be left alone, and nagging them might make the situation worse. Like Kirumi and Kiyo said, Boat Anon might want to talk to someone about this. I know her parents might not be the best choice, but she could talk to someone else. Someone like a friend or, if things become too much to handle, a psychologist would be best.

The ask really wasn’t a problem, anon. Nya...I enjoyed being able to help Boat Anon.

[dangan-happy]

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To... anyone from V3

Hello! My name is Celcius. Like the temperature unit. And I'm a lesbian, which is also what I wanted to talk about, kind of. I say I'm a lesbian, but there's this one kid I'll call Feather for privacy reasons I think. Not that I say his name a lot here, but I just wanted to give him a name I guess. I have not talked to Feather once in my entire life. Ever. He's asked me for answers on classwork here and there and that's about it. However, I think I got feelings for this boy??? Keyword: "think".

I literally cannot tell for my life if it's romantic or platonic because I have never talked to him and I want to be his friend but I also can't tell if it's romantic attraction but I'm also lesbian so that would make me bisexual?? But I also can't tell so maybe I'm not bisexual?? idk?? Maybe it's comphet or however you spell it, but maybe it's not? Can I get advice if you have any, because I'm kind of very confused--💀

Hey there Celcius! To be honest, I've had some trouble figuring out romantic and platonic feelings, too. They can be really difficult to distinguish, and sometimes it take some work to figure them out.

I think one thing that could help you could be to try talking to Feather again, and see if you can figure out if it's romantic or platonic. But hey, if you need anymore help figuring things out, you know where to find us!

[dangan-happy]

[HARK! That sounds like an ask that has just come in!] to mikan, tenko, and kaede if thats okay. hi i've recently come to the conclusion that i may be a lesbian and i'm in a relationship with a lovely nonbinary person. i know lesbians can like nonbinary people but i'm scared they'll get mad at me for being one and being with them,, i don't want them upset at me but i really want to tell them that i may have found out a big part of myself. i'd love some comfort or advice from you three

Hey there Anon, before I get to giving you the advice and comfort you seek, I’d like to say I’m proud of you for discovering this big part of you. I really hope you’re proud of yourself, you deserve to be happy with this. I’m happy that you could take this step. 

Now onto what you are seeking. I can understand why you’re afraid of them being upset over you identifying as a lesbian, but I think that if they really care about you, they will accept this wholeheartedly. I’m not saying that you need to accept every single one of their flaws, because sometimes said flaws can be really...well...problematic. But your sexuality shouldn’t be the reason that they don’t want to be with you anymore. It’s almost...petty if that’s a reason for them to leave. 

My advice would be to talk this out with them, hiding it only could make the situation more tense on your end, plus they have a right to know. If they show any negative sign of not approving of your decision to identify as lesbian, then the person isn’t right for you. You deserve someone who respects how you label yourself, whether that be names, pronouns, sexualities or anything along those lines. Everything will work out, the world has a weird way of making sure of that, but nonetheless, you deserve happiness!

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What Kaede said is totally right! Every bit of it! Figuring out your sexuality is a big deal, and you should feel super happy of finally discovering that part of you. I know first hand the journey that self-discovery like that is, and I’m proud of you for figuring that out!

Now, you know your significant other better then I do, and if you really think that they might leave you because you’re a lesbian, I would say to let them go. I know it might sound like bad advice, but if they can’t accept you for who you are, then they don’t deserve you. You should have someone who respects you for who you are.

On the other hand, if you think they’ll support your decision, then talk with them! Keeping this a secret might make things worse, and you’ll definitely feel better after talking it all out with them. 

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H-Hello, Anonymous!A-As Akamatsu and Chabashira said, I-It's lovely to know you d-discovered a big part of your self!' I hope that you are proud o-of who you are!

'I-I can understand why you are af-afraid.. I-I was scared about my beloved leaving me for being b-bisexual for a very long time... but this isn't about me- but about you. Y-You know them better than us, as Ch-Chabashira said.. if they would leave y-you for being a lesbian... I-I suggest L-LettingI-I them go, if they cannot accept you f-for who you are, i-it's better that way than having to be with s-someone who won't be able to accept you for who you truly are...

Y-You should talk to them about it, because you never know how things m-may actually end up like.. they can e-end well if you think a-about it more! They could ac-accept you fully for who you are and stay together with you even if things change about how you see yourself as more in the future, be-better saying things than keeping them hidded, r-right?

I hope things go well for you and your partner, A-Anonymous!