#neveryourfault

[queenofdaarkness]

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[essencerevealed]

Dear victim blamers & rape apologists... * ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ * ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ * ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ * ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ * ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ #essencesas #tellthetruthtuesday #endrapeculture #survivor #isupportsurvivors #stripawayfear #rapesurvivor #sciencefacts #factsarefacts #opinionsdontmatter #themoreyoureadthemoreyouknow #readmorelearnmore #teachertalktuesday #tuesdaytruths #neurological #humanphysiology #psychologicalhorror #traumabonding #traumahealing #neveryourfault https://www.instagram.com/p/BuorvqmlWA3/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=21t9ji3hi1y0

[daphnaea]

zodiac moodboard: virgo sun | virgo moon | pisces rising | virgo venus for @neveryourfault

[janicklemieux]

List of 18 affirmations ⤵️ How many times have you hidden behind excuses in order to avoid changing yourself, changing your life? Throughout our lives we make so many excuses why we haven’t done or can’t do something. Excuses enable us to create a life that LiMiTS us from living an empowered life. List of 18 affirmations (Excuse listed first – then the positive affirmation) from Dr. Wayne Dyer’s book: Excuses Begone -> It will be difficult – I have the ability to accomplish any task I set my mind to with ease and comfort. -> It’s going to be risky – Being myself involves no risks. It is my ultimate truth, and I live it fearlessly. -> It will take a long time – I have infinite patience when it comes to fulfilling my destiny. -> There will be family drama – I would rather be loathed for who I am than loved for who I am not. -> I don’t deserve it – I am a Divine creation, a piece of God. Therefore, I cannot be undeserving. -> It’s not my nature – My essential nature is perfect and faultless. It is to this nature that I return. -> I can’t afford it – I am connected to an unlimited source of abundance. -> No one will help me – The right circumstances and the right people are already here and will show up on time. -> It has never happened before – I am willing to attract all that I desire, beginning here and now. -> I’m not strong enough – I have access to unlimited assistance. My strength comes from my connection to my Source of being. -> I’m not smart enough – I am a creation of the Divine mind; all is perfect, and I am a genius in my own right. -> I’m too old (or not old enough) – I am an infinite being. The age of my body has no bearing on what I do or who I am. -> The rules won’t let me – I live my life according to Divine rules. -> It’s too big – I think only about what I can do now. By thinking small, I accomplish great things. -> I don’t have the energy – I feel passionately about my life, and this passion fills me with excitement and energy. -> It’s not my personal family history – I live in the present moment. . #drwaynedyer #waynedyer #excusesbegone #excuses #excusesexcuses #neveryourfault #takeresponsibility #empoweredlife #janicklemieux #angusyoga (at Janick Lemieux - Open Heღrt Soulutions)

[kittyhotpants]

Your yearly reminder. #neveryourfault

[ardently-affectionate]

Rape culture

I wonder why it’s easy for some men and women to try and justify rape. Do you ever wonder that? Do you ever try to think about why it’s easy for some of these people to justify why people are raped? I remember having this conversation with an older woman…somewhere in her 50s, and she was trying to explain how men have “urges”. She was telling me that when men “get past a certain point” they “cannot control themselves”. I pondered and I asked her, “so, if your daughter(who was 18) was getting intimate with a man, right? And let’s say, they’re in a room kissing and touching each other sexually. Their clothes are coming off, both are aroused and ready to act on their desires. But then, your daughter changes her mind and says "I don’t want to do this anymore.” And instead of the man respecting her wishes, he proceeded to have sex with her anyway, even after she says stop. His ‘urges’ 'get the better of him’ and he rapes her. Is it your daughter’s fault because the man 'can’t control himself’ or is it his fault because he decided he was going to forcefully have sex with your daughter after she said no? Do the 'urges’ of men make sense in that context? Is he blameless just because your daughter allowed him to get past a certain step, and as a mother would you reason with him?“ She looked at me and with sternness said "see no, I would call the police because…” I stopped her right there, and said “you just proved to me that RAPE is RAPE and the victim is not at fault.” For those of you who may agree with that older woman, think about it on a personal level. If it were you, your daughter, your mother, your best friend etc. think about it if it were them/you that said no but someone decided they were gonna force themselves on you/them anyway. If you can live with that, that’s your own twisted reality, but if that thought bothers you in which it should then it means this.. Rape. Is. Never. The. Victim’s. Fault. And THE RAPIST IS THE REASON FOR THE RAPE BECAUSE THEY DID IT AND DIDN’T GIVE A DAMN BECAUSE THEY WANTED IT. THEY DIDN’T RESPECT THE OTHER PERSON. THEY SAW THEM AS AN OBJECT THAT THEY WERE ENTITLED TO DO WHATEVER WITH NO MATTER WHAT. End of story. RAPE IS RAPE.

[rychiey]

The words on her clothes are not the thoughts in her head.

Rychiey