#not safe or sane but its consensual 👍

[miguxadraws]

Cw: gore below!

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[tieupmyarms]

nsfw sideblog ✨

(minors dni. please. thanks)

hello hello, hiiii~~~ im a 24 yo nb bi whore (they/them, it/its) who has a high libido and equally high levels of shyness🤙✌️🤟👍 but just wants to be used and abused like the set of holes it really is <3

im a sub (as you may have slightly guessed lol) with sporadic domming moments, bi and into hard kinks! (cnc (emphasis on first c!! sane safe and consensual always!!), free use, breeding, degradation, sm and the likes. also spanking. :>)

i also don't usually tag anything. be warned. enjoy ;)

[rwuffles]

hey, i've been kind of following all this anticontact paraphile stuff and i had something to say about the comment you made about pyrophilia. specifically the comment where you said "let's put your dick in a firepit and see how well that turns out for you." pyrophilia can be safe. most kink can be practiced safely. the main things that make kink explorable (between consenting adults) is that it is safe, sane, and consensual. It takes one google search to figure out that pyrophilia does not involve literally thrusting into fire. it also only takes that google search to learn that there are ways to engage in that certain philia that are not harmful.

its totally valid for people to have a kink and not want to physically engage in it. or to recognize that they have it and not engage in it. misinformation about kink is so wide spread that the misinformation about it is often the first thing that people learn about it. - 🪱

that response was specifically because i'm tired of people questioning "why anti-contact [x]?" "that's an inanimate object, does it really matter?" and similar stuff like that. questioning like the other anon did tends to also come from a place of forgetting the paraphile themself is a person who can get hurt.

i'm very supportive of kink & safely acting on paraphilias — it's why i tack on in my definition "non-consensual" because that plays such a heavy part in it. i'm also heavily uncomfortable with talking about kink because i'm a minor; i make paraphile flags 'cus i want to, i didn't expect so much discussion or questioning to come about because of it.

so i understand what you're saying anon and am also still posting this for anyone else to see 👍 i'm tired and the comment about "raping the fire" pissed me off

[beautifulpossumdyke]

to actually answer you: roleplaying that stuff between the two of you isnt causing material harm, but talking about it anywhere that other people can see or hear it is definitely causing material harm.

you might be aware that the porn window of “vanilla” has shifted more and more kinky over the years. partially thanks to porn websites pushing it, and partially thanks to people talking about it in the open. this is called normalization by most.

when someone’s only exposure to kink is through gonzo-style porn and social media snippets, they tend not to learn how to engage in kink safely. safe, sane, consensual, right? i think its bad that teenagers are growing up in a world where “step-sibling” porn is one of the most popular categories. i think it’s our responsibility as kinksters to keep more extreme stuff from being normalized, because younger folks who dont know any better will get themselves physically, mentally, or emotionally hurt.

happy to report there are no children at my place of work 👍