#oatmilkbuck

[gaybuckley]

just watched the new 9-1-1 ep and just. buck studies. also oh my god the amount of times i was thinking about dean winchester ALSO OATMILKBUCK rises!! also he is so soft and happy and pink and loved at the end i want to die he's gonna heal he's gonna LOVE HIMSELF

[extasiswings]

scream you dont need to reply to this but i cant message bc we aren't mutuals but i just wanted to say thank you for your hot takes abt the *** article-- i didnt read it bc i know it would just piss me off more BUT seeing the ripples through the fandom (right before a new episode we are excited for nonetheless) had me back in to see what people were saying and yeah, it's just nice to come here and see you calling it like it is :)

You’re welcome! I’m just—*sigh*

The thing is, I knew this was going to be a shitshow. That’s why I preemptively started making posts about it days ago as soon as we heard an article would be forthcoming. And I was prepared to roll my eyes and be frustrated and annoyed at the inevitable pessimistic doomsday despairing. What I wasn’t anticipating was the level of upset from my fellow queer folks, not about the implication (because we’re all still Buddie canon truthers) but because of the rhetoric. And I get it, I do, because it’s incredibly hurtful to have your lived experiences dismissed out of hand, to have someone reiterate the same sort of thing that many of us have had people say or assume about our own identities and relationships and feelings—that our experiences are invalid, that we’re confused, that we don’t actually know what we want or what we’re seeing—the sort of will-they-won’t-they “it’s all just platonic and you’re reading into it” lines that get bandied about so readily for non-canon het couples come with a certain amount of baggage when placed in the context of non-canon queer couples. Because it inadvertently steps into a very particular strain of queer pain. And straight people just…do not get that. The fact that it isn’t intentional doesn’t make it hurt less, but they don’t, and I do think it’s worth acknowledging that. And I also think it’s worth acknowledging that as much as we as fans don’t have a blueprint for this situation (a slow burn non-canon queer ship going canon), neither do the showrunners.

That said, I also do think it is incredibly important for everyone to be aware of the myriad issues involved in this piece. It was written by someone who has a very well-known agenda of trying to claim the show is terrible about queer rep (blatantly false) and queerbaiting (also not true) and is extremely aggressive, combative, and unprofessional in interviews while trying to make that point. We don’t know the questions he asked, or how many questions he asked, or how he went about asking them. We don’t know if the quotes that were published were part of a longer response, and we don’t even know if they were the first response—it is entirely possible that initial answers were more polite/vague/cagey and he pushed and pushed and pushed until he got a soundbite that he could use to paint them in the worst light possible (and when someone is baiting you by asking the same thing over and over and you can’t get specific, yeah, you’re going to get frustrated and say things you don’t mean—and maybe we don’t know for a fact that’s what happened here, but based on prior experience, particularly re the tone and questions of the post-finale interview where he explicitly accused Tim of queerbaiting, it seems likely). So basically…all that to say, I think everyone’s feelings are valid, but I also think it’s worth directing the anger and hurt to the right places—to the person who manipulated the situation specifically for this result for clout and to serve a personal agenda. That’s my two cents.

(Also, as a reminder, this wasn’t the piece they signed up for either—it was just supposed to be a standard PR piece for 5x11 and he asked extra questions because there was time. It wasn’t the focus of the interview and wasn’t necessarily something they were prepared to discuss)

[tsoanatural]

♡ this year has been absolutely insane but i’m so so so glad i got to meet all y’all and make our ways through the insanity together. y’all are incredible and i adore absolutely each and every one of you and i hope your 2022 is a billion times better than your 2021 was my loves. ♡

@achillestiel @alivedean @bvckleysibs @bibuckleydiaz @capseycartwright @chaoticdiaz @chiquititadiaz @chimneymisteraprilhan @djdangerlove @diazactually @doodlemeimpressed @eddiesbuckaroo @evcndiaz @ellelans @eddiediaz @enbyeddiediaz @firemedicdiaz @fireladybuckley @honestlydarkprincess @himbodiaz @kitkatpancakestack @loveyourownsmiilee @lesbianbuck @moonlightbuckleys @morganofthefairies @madsbuckley @missmybuddie @outrunningthedark @oatmilkbuck @prettyboyandthekid @paranoidbean @prettyboybuckley @princessfbi @reallysmartladymariecurie @swiftiediaz @santabuckley @treacherousdiaz @theedorksinlove @wrenchdiaz @xxfiction-is-my-realityxx

[bucktommysupremacy]

NEW URL FLSDJHGKFG

oatmilkbuck -> touchstarvedbuck

[gayofthefae]

Tag 9 people you want to get to know better!

Tagged by @trashendence ! Aww, tysm

Favourite colour: Purple. (Bonus fact: my middle name is Violet)

Currently reading: The Rule of Mirrors by Caragh M. O’Brien

Last song: Angeleyes by ABBA

Last series: Killing Eve

Sweet, savory or spicy: Spicy Indian is my comfort food.

Currently working on: I don’t write fics (I want to though). But just in general? Workshopping a musical I cowrote rn.

Tagging: @justsmilestuffhappens @yramesoruniverse @outrunningthedark @piningeddie @everything-i-am @texasdiaz @oatmilkbuck @pinkypromisebuckleys @stagefoureddiediaz 

(If you want to!💕)

[bucktommysupremacy]

hurrydownthechimneytonight -> oatmilkbuck

[bucktommysupremacy]

ok oatmilkbuck is back after a brief leave of absence

[bucktommysupremacy]

I love gay dad Eddie and oat milk Buck

aww okay let me think abt it, oatmilkbuck has the most votes so far sooo