#please go get help you are not transabled you have a mental illness that is using that term and its normalcy to encourage and excuse sh

[dream-sans-mogai]

It lost popularity because disabled people dont want to bring it up but disability appropriation should be brought back as a term. That's what alot of these muds and pseudo-transabled terms are. You want to have a disorder but dont actually have it so you either pretend you have it or make up a ton of terms that basically are transabled without having to own it with stupid nonsequitors that allow you to claim enterance into our community without ever actually facing our oppression (no, someone calling a slur on the internet and your doctor clocking you for faking is not ablesit oppression.)

No, needing glasses or contacts doesn't make you "basically blind". No, your untreated unmedicated personality disorder is not a mental disability. No, your alter doesn't actually have that mental illness unless you do and you don't, that's just your assumptions about what that illness would look or feel like and has zero bearing on the reality of said illness. At this point y'all are turning the very real term of " atypical dysphoria" into a dog whistle for transid shit. It gets so misused so often and for everything that only really transids and diet rqs use it but expect people to respect you.

The mogai community has been trampling the disabled community forever then wonder why we all leave. We left cause you said you have the right to the word cripple cause the "headmate" you got off a bulid-a-headmate blog "came with a missing leg" and now you "totally understand the experiences of amputees". You have a mental illness, please seek help, it's not normal to want to be a system let alone have a physical or mental disability.

If you want one, either or both of these two things are true: 1. You do not understand the reality of disabled people and thus, believe it's just a cluster of symptoms Instead of the very real class struggles we deal with not just in public but also in private and often results in suicide due to how badly we are treated or 2. You understand the severe and terrible experiences of being disabled and still choose to pretend to have or genuinely want it and do not understand that wanting to be disabled doesn't actually make you disabled and is often a result of a desire to self harm with no outlet. Like... Not hurting yourself in the usual way but wanting to get by a car to be paralyzed is not only not a normal neutral desire but often the symptom of severe mental illness and a desire to self harm.

This is not normal and I don't even mean that in a pro-psych way, you need help. That is just one of many symptoms that can very very easily result in suicide. If you are having those desires consistently, especially if it's something thays consuming you and you think about it every single day and it's one of the few things you can focus on, especially if you want it as a result of an accident to remove personal accountability for causing that injury, that is a sign of something being very very wrong in your mind. This is not normal behavior that harms no one, this very quickly results in people maiming and abusing themselves. The mogai community is so scared of alienating people, they are trying to normalize intrusive thoughts. Yes, they are common in people with Ptsd but are very very often the symptom of a bigger problem and if you have them, get your ass in therapy. Common dosent equal normal and therefore harmless.

Im writing this in big text, Wanting to stab people or yourself or cut off body parts or desire a severe mental illness (often one that isnt invisible and is taken much more seriously than what most people actually have) is a cry for help and signs that you may become a danger to yourself and others. These are not normal and often are a symptom of a much bigger and much more serious problem. They are common and often do not result in anything but they can and are used as hallmarks showing where your head is. Therapists, professionals, use their frequency to measure mental turmoil. People with Ptsd, depression, anxiety, OCD, etc who are in healthy situations and are considered " getting better/ok" do not have these fantasies and intrusive thoughts with any or even semi-consistency.

If you are having these fantasies and desires more than twice a week, please ffs go get help. Especially if they are depressing or scaring you and are either lead or followed by self harm desires and suicidal thoughts. You are not a bad person for having intrusive thoughts and fantasies of disability or severe mental illness, they do not mean your inherently evil, violent or ableist. They do however mean that you may not be realizing how bad your self hate, depression, PTSD, etc are actually getting because these thoughts and desires, especially consistently, are your brain crying for help and considering every option it can to either cope with or escape a situation that's scaring it.

Do not listen to a 16 yr old on here saying it's totally normal to want to kys every 3 days and making flags and identities for wishing they were limbless, these are warning signs to you and others that something must change and you need to get help before the thoughts turn to fantasies and you feel the need to turn them into reality. Most people who actually hurt themselves say it was a passing thought that originally scared them, then became an obsessive fantasy then resulted in them hurting themselves and end up regretting it horribly. Please listen to them. This is not normal and we want you safe, happy and healthy and you are not safe, happy and healthy fantasizing about hurting yourself and trying to make that part of your identity. If you can't stop due to the fact disabled people are telling you they are hurting us and our community, do it for yourself.

[lostcitysystem]

Here’s a collection of rancid posts from the transabled community that actually make me want to puke. Some part of me wishes that just for a day, these people could experience what it’s like to have a disability or even cancer. I think they would beg for someone to take it away and regret everything. Instead, I honestly wish that you would all get some serious mental help because the problem isn’t you not having a disorder/illness, the problem is you wanting one. If you need me to trigger tag any more things in this post please let me know.

I hate transableds.

I need to sit down and think about humanity for a while..

-Blue🌌

(Do not interact with this post or blog if you’re a transmed/terf/truscum or generally go against our DNI)