#realization firstblog

[leight0nmr]

what is love? really?

I remember watching a video in which the context is about love and how love changes how you foresee a person. I believe it said “once the love is gone, you’ll realize how normal they are and you’re love is the one that made them seem so amazing.” then it hit me. One of those people I admire the most, with everything that they’re doing, it’s only bare minimum. And despite the love and support I show them, they treat me otherwise. As if I do not belong there. And from that day on, I realized that no matter how much I idolize them, I should never seek validation from those people. To think that I wasn’t even comfortable in my own skin when I’m around them is just the beginning of it. I am thankful that I realized that before I was too deep in their world. 

[emotionscanvas]

"Words Untold"

"So, this is my first-ever blog, so I hope you won't expect perfection from me. However, I do hope to improve because writing feels like therapy to me.

I want to share something that life has been teaching me, especially over the last 9-10 months. It's about the people we care about, our friends, and loved ones. What I have learned and observed is that if you truly care for someone, if you truly love them, and if they hold great importance in your life — someone for whom you would even take a bullet — you might expect them to reciprocate that same level of care and value.

But sometimes, their actions can make you doubt your significance in their lives. They might say to your face, "Oh! You're one of my closest friends," but their behavior or actions often indicate otherwise. They may not give you the same importance you give them. For instance, they might treat you differently when you're alone with them compared to when you're in a group setting, where they might not even acknowledge your presence.

What I have realized is that you can still continue to do things for them without expecting anything in return. It might sound strange to some, but my understanding is that you shouldn't compromise your quality of always being there for others just because of how they treat you. It's not necessary to make them realize their wrongdoings directly because doing so could make you lose your self-respect. Instead, you can drop subtle hints indirectly. You can also create some distance from those individuals without even letting them know, gradually stop sharing your emotions or details of your life with them. While they might listen and react in the moment, the harsh reality is that they hardly care about it.

My realization is that you should continue to do good and collect positive experiences. Give them the freedom to choose how they want to be in your life, and if there's any sort of pressure from any side, focus on yourself. Eventually, you will meet the right people who genuinely deserve your energy and presence in their lives. It might be just one person, but that person will go above and beyond to make you feel special. They will care deeply about your feelings regarding their actions and efforts.

So, this concludes my first blog. I hope you enjoyed it, and I'm really interested to hear your thoughts on these people and different phases of life."

[caloy-anthonio-blog]

The Life of a College Student

College life means business to me. At first, you need to invest both money and time to balance your personal interest and plans for the future. And having a strict but considerate teachers triggers your innerself to always try your best.

For almost seven months of spending my days in school, even though it is my seventh year in the same school. I realize how important it is to be in college. Knowing that all of my hardworks and sleepless nights are worth it, what else can I ask for? Since I was a child, I knew to myself that I will go in college someday. Because I believe college life is my ticket for the future. Committing mistakes, taking the risks and facing the consequence boosts my confidence and eagerness to learn and explore more.

As a student we always wanted to be perfect. There are times we're pushing ourselves to our limits causing us to be hurt. Perhaps, it is because of the thoughts like "I want to be different. I want to be the better version of myself. Perhaps, it is because of the expectations of our family and even ourselves. Imagine, I am taking the path out of my comfort zone. Even though socialization is not my expertise. Still, I need to do it to gain friends for many reasons and to gain experiences out of it. Indeed, the life of a college student is a roller coaster ride. Despites of many ups and down. At the end of the day, you'll realize it is all worth it.

Yes, lessons goes along with my failure and mistakes. Until one day, I never knew I will go this far. Sometimes going beyond your limits is not that bad. But because of my experiences this helped me to shaped, mold and define me for who I am today. Through thick and thin, priorities were always be my priority. Don't let what other people define who you are. Prove them wrong. Show to them who you really are and what you can do.

This is just my beginning I am too far away from the end. This is Carlos Anthony D. Sabater your soon to be RMT.

#College #Priorities #ReachForYourDreams

#Firstblog

[erikakilee-blog]

Sunday morning, coffee in hand! I believe I ask myself this question at least 10 times a day, if not more.

I can say this… Looking in the mirror was the hardest thing I had to do and continue to do. Having to identify the traits I would like to change is far from glamorous but extremely necessary. After all, change starts from within, they say.

I became an ugly person. One who lost sight of all things small and beautiful which defined me in life. I stopped smelling the flowers, laughing, being silly and so much more. It wasn’t until I had an awakening and still am transitioning through it that I realized I have always changed according to my surroundings or who I was with. Not fair, I know. I cheated myself and them out of my own beauty. I let people fall in love with who I thought they wanted me to be. A complete injustice.

I have never been comfortable in my own skin. Constantly afraid that no one will love me for my true self. Now, I am learning to be who I am with no apologies and of course, with complete trust that the Universe will bring those who are meant to stay in my alignment.

Learning to love me has been hard and gratifying. I can’t wait for the day I am evolved into a confident woman with no apologies and amazing people in my tribe who appreciate themselves and who I am.

✌🔮

#whoareyou #firstblog #selflove #myjourney