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life never answers it helps you by giving hints

Life never gives you answer, it gives you hints, based upon those hints we have to build our understanding, There are many Circumstances when you will be unable to understand ‘ what is exactly happening in life, to what direction is life taking you to what direction we are taking our life.

Sometimes I think humans got 100 years to live hence they are the most evolved species. They think, think may be over think and this over thinking shall be the reason of opening new avenues for newer ideas , discoveries and evolution. Imagine a case where you are in a position to get direct answer, you may not even give a single thought about the question. But in a case where you get hints, you think about the hints and try to join dots. Life seems to be somewhat similar, we live everyday for a new dot, sometimes we end our day making that dot a line which is nothing but giving a meaning to the dot, its like completing the incomplete, seeking the one who is awaiting for the seek, measuring the immeasurable, seeing the unseen, searching the unsearchable, undiscovered.

The reason to write about this incompleteness which we all feel some or other day in life is the unanswered question we get everyday from the mystery game called life. The idea here is to draw attention on the incompleteness which we keep feeling throughout, but don't disheartened as beyond incompleteness there exist complete. Understand what is the hint life is offering you today, accept it and keep the journey of celebrating your life on, the unseen will be soon visible to you, seeking the un seek will be far easy now, something beyond your expectations is waiting somewhere, all that require the acceptance of these small little hints, which we feel are incomplete. Which we feel are unanswered.

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The Art of Waiting

‘Please wait…!’ these words are enough to bring in many changes in the episode of our life, just after listing to this word, one can feel the silence of waiting, he or she can easily listen to the voice made by heart, the beating of heart produced while pumping the blood up and down. It make you to keep your eye to match the rhythm of ‘tick-tick’ produced by the clock on the wall. The time is running, the silence is in the air, the heart is now beating faster and faster with a pace, and you somewhere have this thought in your mind, when will the wait be over. But the wait demands the time, May it be seconds, few minutes, few hours, few days or few years. Wait means Wait, no shortcut for waiting.

It’s the same wait, a mother does for nine months to evolve a new life, it’s the same wait a farmer takes to enjoy the harvest, it’s the wait a father does, to match his shoulders with his son, the wait which makes a girlfriend angry and demand the apologies from her boyfriend. It’s the same wait love birds do to get marry to each other. The wait is magical because It may bring an unending smile on your face. The wait you do entire day, in a form of ‘upvaas’ or fast which brings satisfaction to the soul, as after a day of fast, the food tastes different, it is now touched by your soul. And you feel the happiness of waiting.

Therefore, waiting teaches you a great lessons, it teaches you the art of waiting, which develops ‘patience’, the wait, the wait with dedication, with a hope not expectation, with the positivity in mind, with assurance of one thing, that this hard time will also go, the pain of wait will soon end, and the celebration after a great wait will begin.

Thus, if one learns the art of waiting, one can easily withstand to the pressure develop while waiting, it’s just a thought which one needs to inculcate in mind during the entire process, that ‘My Day will come, ‘My time will come’, till that very own moment I will wait. And once the wait gets over, the celebration will begin. The life will begin, same as a life had begun, for a child for whom the mother and father waited nine months or more.

That’s life, for getting the ‘Moksh’ one is asked to meditate, to repeat the process of meditation, every day, and by doing so, one develops the thirst, the wait, the patience to get something at the end. May it be the ‘Moksh’ in your life. And trust me when the wait will over, you will run shouting ‘Eureka – Eureka’ and who knows, you might have invented something new, out of your wait for the world.

So if you are waiting right now, for something or other. Just keep a hope of positivity, and a faith on yourself, keep a thought that this wait will sure get something worth celebrating in coming days.

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WHO ARE YOU? DO YOU THINK BEFORE YOU TALK? OR, YOU TALK THEN YOU KEEP THINKING ABOUT IT?

Whatever we talk, does it really has something to do with our thinking? In the news channels or in the films, one classic dialogue often comes to our ear, “ Aapki baaton se aapki soch pata chalti hai…” (The way you talk shows a lot about the way you think) But what do your words mean, ever thought about it?

It’s about your identity, your philosophies, your thought process, your behavior.

We often say this person is a soft-spoken or he/she is so loud. One sentence about the way we speak is enough to build our image or our identity. So this brings to a conclusion that your words are significant enough to make or to ruin your identity.

 While we talk, the brain works in a conscious way, we often recollect, memorize, find out appropriate words and then we speak. Most of the time, we listen to our brain about what all we are supposed to speak.

But there are few moments in life when we almost forget this diplomatic, materialistic, so-called practical, ‘Brain’ in that moment of time, we speak our heart out, words may not be suitable but the emotions may do.

 Whatever we talk, makes such a great meaning, after a conversation, we make new relations or we end up breaking hearts. Yes! The ‘Heart,’ the most beautiful organ of our body or the most critical part of our life, you decide? It creates the entire confusion that takes us to another part of the story. When words come out from your heart, the brain is asked to be on flight mode, tears may fall out, or burst out laughing. When we talk from our heart, we forget what we said to someone and this brings to the deeper analysis on our talk, we think about it … we think about it ... and we keep thinking about it that, what have I said, what does her or he has taken it, did he misunderstand? Has she is been hurt? Leading to sleepless nights of overthinking.

Life is like a storybook, like a Bollywood film, few things we write on our own and few things are already written for us. We just turn a new page every day to read out those things. So, our words play a vital role in whatever we write on our own. 

One of the spiritual philosophy says, whatever we say, we think and we visualize that’s what becomes real. This brings us back to the question, that who are we? Do we ever think before we talk? Or, we talk first then keep thinking about it?

 Therefore, the way we talk plays an important role in our day to day life, try to use some polite and humble words during your talk, be the one, to whom people would love to listen, use words which people will be related to, which will give a smile on their faces. Your words could be an inspiration to someone or it may yield tears.

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Curiosity is a Synonym to Creativity.

Curious? Word with seven letters is mighty to make you do what so ever is needed, this word is the prime reason, behind the majority of your thoughts. When you are curious, you are in question, and your thoughts are in making. Curiosity is the journey which demands an appropriate answer. Curious? Who will win the next match, curious? Who will be the next prime minister, Curious which will be the next film by a superstar, curious? About upcoming technologies, curious? About 4G, 5G and so on, and curious? What’s there in today’s blog. Curious? Curious? Curious?

We all are curious with something often in our mind, our relatives are curious more than us on our day of result, our friends are curious about our relationships, our parents are curious about what we think about our careers. But what we are curious about, makes our future.

 Curiosity is something that makes we human different than other animals on this planet. We were curious regarding rubbing of the stone, that curiously gave us ‘Fire’ we were curious enough to walk on two legs, changed the anatomy of humans resulting in the continuous evolution of human race. We were curious about each other, we started interacting, and we started developing the most important factor in human evolution, ‘Language’. We were curious about the climate, soil, flora, and fauna, we invented the practice of agriculture. Curiosity to survive made us invent war tactics, self-defense diplomacies, to safeguard our self against animals, nature, and calamities. Curiosity is something which makes us learn, which make us think, which make us work, toward developing a new solution. We were curious about other planets, something called as the sun and the moon of a planetary system, this curiosity made us travel to the distance of million kilometers.

 These unending curiosities have resulted in the birth of incredible creativity that is there in every human being. A thought may sound lighter, but when it’s nurtured, with the amount of curiosity, it may lead to the life-changing idea. There are many such things which we ignore, but on another hand, there are people who are curious about the things which you have ignored, those people invent something new, something more creative. It might have been the same curiosity that made us develop millions of vaccines against our challenging sicknesses. It’s the same curiosity, which makes an investigator to solve those unsolved criminal mysteries.

 The journey of creativity is often incomplete without the anxiety of being curious.

As an architecture student, I believe the amount of curiosity a user gets while experiencing a space is directly proportioned to the creative thought developed by an architect while creating, crafting or making that particular space.

 Be curious, about the world near you, try to unfold the mysteries in the world. Being curious doesn’t mean being suspicious, try to act as an active participant, witness, record, analyze and learn. This gives you an experience. This experience plays a significant role in enhancing your creativity.

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Let us Explore, discover that thing, called LIFE

Imagine or believe for a moment, we humans are the people with a lantern in hand, standing in the darker space, where we carry one miss conception with us, the misconception is about the size of the space which we are actually unaware because of the deep darkness around us. Fact is we are familiar about the space, which is visible in this darkness, with walking, few steps ahead, we discover that, the space is not limited to what we see with the light of lantern, but it is limitless, actually the fact is more we walk, more we discover, and that’s the life is all about.

Exploration begins from that second when we open our eyes, someone expect, you to repeat after them, ‘say papaa,’ ‘say mummaa,’ ‘say dada,’ and we try to grab, these words, we try to explore, who is who, we start saying, ‘mummaaa’ to everyone, we learn with repetition, we learn with experimentation. Thus we explore first, then we learn. We evolve with this art of exploration somehow, we explore other people of our age in our neighbourhood, we discover each other, by our likings, disliking, hobbies, behaviour, anger, love, the nature of helping us, and other characteristics, which try to create an image, of the individual in our mind, with this quest exploration in us, we explore, who is that friend in ‘need’ and who is our friend ��indeed’. With exploration, we discover our enemies, with explorations we discover our strength and weakness. Example, after every maths test, I explored, Numbers were not my cup of tea, the only thing maths gave me were those countless tears in my eyes.

When we start exploring, we start trusting our senses, we see, we observe, we enquire, and some kind of inner voice help us to trust, and with the journey of discovery, we ultimately learn, witness something new in our life. The exploring is one such quality, which make us equipped with even the most random thing of this world. We often see our mother cooking, we enquire, about the ingredient of food she prepared, and from her descriptions and our findings, we can now identify hundreds of flavours, taste even with the one bite of a given food.

We travel, place to place, villages to villages, meet people all around our journey, learn to appreciate the language they speak, the food they eat, the dressing they do, that make us competent enough to appreciate cultures, traditions, customs other than ours. With the country like india, where the opportunity exist in its ‘diversity’ we got so much to explore, so much to ‘discover’ and so much to learn.

Intelligence comes from exploration, because exploring make us to know that wisdom, which we really didn’t knew, till this moment of life. So get started, to explore, to discover, to find, something which is unknown to you, and when you met, the unknown, you witness the unexpected realities, the unexpected results and you finally, learn to explore because it will somewhere teach you, what your life is about, why your existence is for, how you can enhance yourself toward this gift called ‘life’    

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Believe it, Live it.

Belief, this six letter word is significant, as it is responsible in giving birth or in bringing out the change in many things. The belief is something, which ties many knots together to weave the fabric called life, we get birth into an unknown world, with strangers around us, we start believing them, we start listening to their suggestion, why? For next two seconds, just give a thought on this, why? We believe people who are close to us? Is it because their suggestions and ideas, have made things happen in our life? May be yes.

The belief takes time to build but it becomes sturdy. Once the belief is build, it’s hard to overlook. No one knew, there are planets other than earth, or there is a world, other than our own world, but few likeminded people believed, and they discovered, rather they proved that whatever was believed as a hypothesis is real. And today, we are actually talking about it. One single belief is that powerful. It can create, it can destroy, or it can make things happen, sometimes in fraction of seconds or sometimes in centuries. But once we belief it has to be there.

One common example is, we often starts believing he or she is egoistic, he or she don’t want to continue the relationship, he or she is busy, and with these kind of believes we actually stop communicating to the person, which somewhere changes our relationship status, from its happily being to its complicated. One single belief is that strong, which brings out change in almost everything. Whether it’s associated to you or the people around you.

Recently, a scene was featured in film, titled, ‘Tubelight’ where Salman khan stands, first in front of a bottle and then in front of a mountain, with a ‘belief’ that he can make it move, sounds a bit weird, but he actually do this, the entire scene is fabric, around a notion, “yakeen hai to hoga” (meaning: If you believe it, it will definitely happen.)

Inventions often narrates the stories, one single ‘belief’ of Graham bell, brought in the interactions through wires,  Galileo believed that stars can be seen through the naked eyes, and the invention of telescope happened.

The belief system plays a vital role in forming a society around us, we belief and it became another set, regulation, which is mandatory to follow while living in a society. Believe systems had somewhere lead to form our religions aswell, with a belief of one god or with the belief of many, we live together, then the nationality, the patriotism, has also a belief system of its own. Culture, is another element of a human life, which is totally based on the belief. The customs, the traditions, the day to day activities, all of them revolve around this six letter word, called ‘belief’. With practising these notions called religion, culture, patriotism, the belief attached with each of them gets stronger and therefore, it leaves a major impact on our life. Believes had also taken us to misconceptions, taboo which had actually created difficulties for many of us on this earth, the belief of evil, enemy, or considering someone inferior had ruined the moral values around us.

Belief is really contagious too, it begins with the birth of a ‘belief’, which takes place in the mind of one person, and then like fire in the forest, it spreads, the furious spread even led to the formation of movements, our freedom movement is example of one such belief, the belief of having our own identity, our own land, our own freedom towards living this life. Many such movement were result of one single ‘belief’ which had made humanity stronger and human values richer.

We may be a common man, but our belief can be uncommon, we may not speak well, but we can believe well, it’s just the matter of belief, start believing, in yourself, in the world around you, in the humanity, in the society around you in your actions, in your dreams.

Now, it’s entirely your decision, either believe it, and live it, or believe it, or leave it. Think about something you wish to do, start believing on that, it’s not difficult anymore, just start believing…

[sandeepathe]

Being Indian....

                          है प्रीत जहा की रीत सदा, गीत वाहा के गाता हू....                           भारत का रहनेवाला हू , भारत की बात सुनता हू II

These lines made me to stop my bike in front of one of the corporation schools near my home, the very famous song featured by Manoj kumar, the melodies music by Kalyanji-Anandji, and Mahindra Kapoor. The type of proud you feel about being Indian after listing to this song is incredible. This made me to think about this term, ‘Being Indian.’

Being Indian sounds so youthful, as there is a trend to write being human on every possible merchandise endorse be the great Salman bhai. Being indian it takes a lot many thing to entitle one for this proudly designation. Say it takes passport, driving licence, Pan card, Voter Id Card, Aadhar card, and two passport size photographs… Simply kidding.

Being Indian is nowadays limited to this list of requirements. Submit them show your authentication, and then we will trust you are an Indian. I mean why, Indian had never been known like this, today also Indians are known by their use of spices in food. Sweets made out of ‘shudh deshi ghee’, the secret of potato within the envelope of samosa. The complexities of a simple jalebi, these things define India in far more fashion as compared to the list of requirements to justy you as an Indian.

Being Indian is that brazen dance which you do when your friend or relative get married, it’s about that feeling when India wins the Cricket match; it’s about celebrating the festivals year long. It’s about those colours of Holi which brings Same coloured faces with white teeth on selfies, it’s about that hug which celebrates the first look of moon, it’s about that spark which runs through your body when you listen to a national anthem, it’s about that sharing of sweets over the short heighted boundary wall with neighbours. It’s about looking the love we Indians have for everyone here, it’s about that kind of respect which, we Indians say ‘Mother’ to the river, it’s about even bowing your head in front of a tree, stone etc. because we believe that god reside inside everything, inside everyone. Therefore we start our day by ’Surya Namaskar’ and end our day by taking name of God.

Being Indian is very near to be Human, because Indians are the one who are known for their love and affection. For their Justice and mercy, for their Bravery and Pride. For their Humanity sometimes it made me think that an Indian could only invent ‘ZERO’ because invention of zero itself demands the stability, the patience the trust in you and Indians are blessed to have all these qualities from thousands of years. Going to ‘mars’ with the lowest budget shows the ‘Simple’ lifestyle of an Indian. It also reflects the master skill of millions housewives which manage their house in lowest budgets. In India we love everyone, may it be a cow, or a horse or a dog. We love the trees and plants, it our style of expressing a gratitude for the fruits and food they give to us.

  Being Indian is nothing but, being a part of nature, accepting the nature’s gift. Accepting the people’s deed. Accepting individuality of a person and therefore, Being Indian is super fashionable, as here attire and language changes from every 150 Kms of distance. That’s the secret of India’s Unity in Diversity. Being brave is a quality of every Indian right from the time he or she is born, we have Rani Jhasi here so We have Shivaji Maharaj, We pray to Mahadeo, We bow our heads in front of Maa Durga.

 So go out there, be an Indian. Keep your gratitude that you are lucky enough to get born in this thousand year old civilization. Respect everyone; spread the love of humanity, that’s what being Indian all is about. With these very one lines describing the ‘Hundustani’ness of we Indians I wish you all a happy Republic Day. Celebrate the Honour and Pride of being Indian.

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Smile please…

The thought to write on smile came up in my mind when I recently took one of my friend to doctor, the place was like a super-hyper market accomodating doctor’s clinics and medicine shops all over.  While parking my bike, I saw a flex depicting the schemes undertaken by a dental clinic like, root canal, teeth cleaning, smile design etc. I found this term, ‘Smile Designing’ interesting.  As this sounds so manipulative in terms of giving a smile... It itself gave a smile on my face. I mean what kind of world are we living today, where we need to design a smile..?

Smile, that’s such a beautiful gift given by god. Which we regularly use. Smile is just a smile may it be a king or beggar, may it be a boy or girl, may it be a child or an old lady, person with or without teeth, every one of us belonging to the Homo sapiens sapiens as a family has this little expression in common. Smile may be innocent, smile may be notorious, smile may be louder, and smile may be just a smile.

In democratic country, where we live we have the right to expression. And you can count, right to smile as a subcategory in it. A minute observation of mine, says everybody has its own smiling attitude, some smile a little, as they don’t want to spoil the show. Some have the loudspeaker smile, they call it as laughter, and it can be termed as the overflowing smile. Some smile by making a funny voice. Some smile wickedly. And some smile without any reason, these people have taken my last blog on Love seriously… :p but jokes apart, it happen you carry a very different style of smiling, if you don’t believe try to analyse this, you will feel this is again the quality which makes you. Add up in building your character. And anything which makes YOU as a unabridged, should never be re-designed.

Smile please, the dialogue which is used several times mostly while taking a photograph. The question arises in my mind why they use this term, I mean whatever it may be like. Why you need to show off your smile. And then the people say photograph not looks good, can we have one more please? Take this as hint, your fake smile will never make any photograph or video beautiful, it will be twinkling only when you smile unconditionally, with the purest expression on your face. That’s the smile which is gifted by god. Rest all are the designed one, say to make your work done, to look happy, to make someone happy for time being. This smile is false one. And it will never ever give you the immense pleasure of happiness.

They say, “You came in this world crying, at least leave this world smiling.”

So go out there smile, with full of energies and make the world beautiful place to live in. smile and make people smile, because this is like a contagious disease it spreads from person to person…  

So next time when you take a photograph, avoid saying, ‘Please Smile’ and say ‘just a smile.’

[sandeepathe]

LOVE IS BEST OF TIME…

Lyrics from recent blockbuster film ‘pk’ where the song explains how one had wasted time in the popular feeling called ‘LOVE.’ What does it means in being in ‘love’ and how it’s associated with ‘time’? One can go into a deep research in solving these questions, but on other hand it’s very easy to solve the theory of being in love. Actually it’s true that you start looking into mirror for several times a day, especially boy’s start doing this. They start investing time in planning the attire, like should we go for shirt of T-shirt, white or blue? That’s something really true. One starts smiling without any reason; one starts wasting time just to get a look of someone special these can be named as the symptoms of being in love. Love is something which happens without a practical planning or schedule. And here it encounters with the term, ‘TIME’. Because time is pre-planned but love it’s the craziest thing in the world which is un-planned. It can be compared to an accident to happen having its mark of injury for a lifetime. Actually we are so busy in today’s materialistic world. We don’t even have time for ourself. For an example, till date whenever you had looked into the mirror it was for someone else it was for that board meeting in your office, it was for the interview on which your financial prominence is depended, it was for the client whom you want to impress so that you earn bread butter for life.  But this time when you are looking yourself in mirror, it’s not for someone else, but it’s for your heart, for your feeling, it’s for you. Being in love itself makes you sensitive enough towards you. You start wearing good clothes, you start looking good, and these are small small things which add to build your personality. It makes you what you are. And that’s the beauty of love it makes you ‘YOU’. And that’s why sometime wasting time is also profitable because what you get after wasting this precious thing called TIME, is priceless. love had been taken always as a waste of time. let’s change our mind sets so start wasting time in LOVE for someone, we know that you are busy, but sit near you parents for a while listen what they want, we know that your office, your day to day schedule is so tightened that you don’t even know when your child has next examination, waste a little time in taking him or her to the park, play games with them, make them realize your presence. Experience this wonderful part of life, and to do so, you have to waste a little time. and that’s the beauty of LOVE, but if you are thinking to fall in love, then you are mistaking my dear it’s not about thinking it’s about feeling rather falling in love and getting the wounds on your heart which makes you realize about your hidden beauty, about how cool you are, just like some Bollywood actor which you going to be for her, if she really loves you, she not anymore need a SRK to open his arms to pose as a Dilwala Raj. Or for him she will be the most beautiful girl in the world. It sounds filmy but it’s a part of life. Being in LOVE is that feeling which every one of us experience once in the life time. So if you are looking into mirror before going college, office, or to meet someone special, or you smiling without any reason. Boss you are already into it. So go out there start wasting your time. Because, Love is a BEST of time….

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Being oneself… Be Yourself…

                                   “Be Dont Try to Become”                                                                      - OSHO About 15 years ago I attended a summer camp, where the guest speaker asked each of us what you gonna become in the future, the answers were coming from one by one, someone said, SACHIN TENDULKAR, someone mentioned AMITABH BACHCHAN , someone with a lenient expression said SHAHRUKH KHAN, some girl confidently mentioned KIRAN BEDI. Slowly the answers started coming from children. Suddenly after 15-20 answers the guest speaker stopped children from answering, he with a startling face said, “What you guys are doing, I mean how you guys can become Amitabh or ShahRukh Khan. You can mimic them you can copy their personality but none of you can become the SRK or BigB. They are created by god and yes they gonna be the only one Shahrukh, Sachin, BigB, or Kiran Bedi in this world. No one can or say it’s near to impossible to create another such a personality like the one they are.” I felt messy hearing this rigid explanation, so I stood u and questioned the guest, “sir, then what should we become, if we cannot become Shahrukh khan or BigB.? “   “Wonderful question..!” he uttered. He said “it’s true that you cannot become a Sachin Tendulkar, but you can be a Master of any Game say cricket, tennis, or Hockey. It’s true that you cannot become Amitabh bachchan but you can act in such a versatile way. You cannot become Kiran Bedi, but you can be brave cop. That’s the beauty in understanding the meaning of, ‘Be- Don’t try to Become.’  Quoted by spiritual master Osho.” That’s how the guest speaker explained the lesson for a life.

This simple incidence of my life taught me a lesson for life….

We all here in this small world living with one identity. The identity officially reflected on our passports, Driving Licences, I.D Cards etc. and unofficially reflected the way we talk, walk, the way we do our hairs, the way we dress up. In fact the unofficial stuffs add more life in you as you. You are one single character created by god. And it’s you who gonna play the lead role.

Suppose your life is a Biopic and you are the lead actor playing yourself. Imagine how tough it going to be to play yourself, and that’s the game of life. For this let’s do a simple exercise. Stand in front of a mirror and stare yourself in the mirror for few minutes you will forget about the world, and to forget the world and the silly thought of ‘What People will say..’ make you What ‘YOU’ really is.

Everybody lives their life with some morals, values or say practice some kind of code of conduct. And almost everybody practise these ethics to perform the day-to-day rituals in life. And that’s how, this way of living Life, carves you in a unique way. Say like few people are deeply interested in helping out people nearby them. This is inherent quality in them, this makes the nature of that person, and just because of this society gets to know the person and he or she becomes popular.

That’s the magic of being oneself.

No matter what comes as a challenge, stick to your thoughts and your values.

Speak out your opinions, speak out the truth, and be fearless.

Nobody can stop you becoming you.

You are the unique one carved by the almighty god.

It will always help you to get love, blessings and success in your life….

Go out there be yourself.

[sandeepathe]

Words, they means a lot!

Walking in with slow pace, hands in pocket, head down, eyes on the open shoelace and thinking, what made it happened? Was it a bad situation or any kind of misunderstanding, or my words….??

Words, yes there you are. These words are mightier, stronger and that powerful that they can change the entire situation, chemistries between relations, love, affections and create misunderstandings. You say it unintentionally and it may hurt anyone, and then you may again say words of sorry, this makes me think for a while, words are the most important part of the most unique feature of human being, that’s language. Agreed every animal have their own way of communicating using their own language. But these words are the major factor which changes or makes our language different than other animals. They say we talk, and that’s the secret behind our survival. We can even talk with our enemy as well and he/she will listen. Even the prisoner before being hang, is asked for his last words, the only wish. That’s the power of these words.

More complex, little simpler, depends on how you use them and for whom and in what situations, he/she said me this in a very bad words, he/she really mean those word? Why he/she said like that, what make him/her to say those words? Are our regularly used sentences in these society of words? This easily prove, that words play a very important role in our life. It is said that man is known by his words, after his death. Our parents are proud of our first word, whether it was, ‘maa’ or ‘paa’. Another thing which adds to our personality or character is the habit of keeping words, the promises we make with our near and dear ones. ‘pran jaye par vachan na jaye’ which states that the words uttered in the way of a promise are the most important and one should consider them of a great importance.

On other hand there are the words which inspire people, the words of wisdom as we popularly call them, which are responsible to change one’s life. Often these words impact people with the greater intensity that results in a positive transformation. The quotes, thoughts positive slogans are the most important catalyst of revolution, of evolution, of the transformation which occur in one’s life or within entire world. Those are also the words, which form the dialogue for lifetime, whether it may be from some popular cinema. The actors, villains are known by their own filmy words. The leaders which are popular among people are known because of their words, their slogans, which later becomes way of life for many people. They say, “few words can make it happen.” That’s the beauty of this four letter, ‘word’.

Therefore what we learn, it went wrong between us, because of the use of that wrong word. That word which cannot be even replaced by the word which mean sorry. The realization of what our words mean to others is the most important realization, remember, someday we you will also be remembered by your words, in a similar way as we remember Ram, Krishna, Mohammad, Gautam Buddha, Mahavir, Guru Govind Singh, Kabir, Gandhi, Tilak, Bhagat Singh, Nehru, Mandela, Kalam, Obama, Modi and many more. Words can even make a person immortal.

Words really means a lot, they are just not the form of literature but are our tool to survive, to communicate, to connect, to relate, with oneself, one’s relatives, friends, community and even with the entire world.