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carcinized · 1 year

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the older & more mature i get the more i kind of settle into being percieved as cishet. this isnt at all shade to people who DO care, because its your identity and you get to care, but like for me there is sooo much power in not caring. and its kind of fucking awesome. im an undercover gay. need to know basis. not everyones business. im chillin

#like well no im not TECHNICALLY a cis girl. but id prefer if you thought i was 100% cis and had no nuanced feelings about my gender tbh #no im not straight. yes i only really want to date boys. would i date a girl tho? yeah. i dont even really find boys all that attractive #am i ace? am i aro? yeah. also i have crushes on people sometimes and want to kiss them though #so yeah.... i guess you could call me 'cishet.' if you didnt know about all the silly little feelings inside.#but i am basically a cishet girl in love with a cishet boy for all intents and purposes #this is all anyone needs to know unless they actually matter #like im chilling #tobin talks #but then again i was talking to a coworker recently and i was like 'yeah ive had like 2 crushes in my entire life.'#and she (cishet) was like 'have you heard of being asexual'#so maybe im pretty aspec 😔#BUT STILL PEOPLE DONT KNOW THAT UNLESS I TALK ABOUT IT. MY POINT STANDS

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