#so my confidence is secure and not vunerable to the flows of constantly changing and flimsy ideals of beauty. or my own natural change | Explore Tumblr Posts and Blogs

multapohja966 · 1 year

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its so weird to hang out with people who haven’t abandoned stuff like traditional beauty ideals, status based human worth, etc assimilation mindsets. like who am i to these people if they still view the world through this framework

#talked about body image with a gay guy im friends with and said that im so secure in my own body bc i grew my self love from within #which was maybe a bit easier for me as a trans person than to a cis person bc for me it was a 'limitation creates innovation' thing #since society does not understand nor value trans beauty or bodies so we can't even truly cling to reaching beauty ideals and status.#so my confidence is secure and not vunerable to the flows of constantly changing and flimsy ideals of beauty. or my own natural change #and he went on a whole 'no no no don't think like that so many of the trans guys i see on grinder are so fucking hot'#outside of the obvious. our value doesn't come from the tip of your cis dicks. it's just so sad to think our closed ones think that we are #some poor souls aiming to assimilate to the idk prison they live in. as if the trans journey and fight isnt to annihilate that #its so arrogant. do you see me as a failed soldier and poor soul? embarrasssing

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