#sorry but if i had a gf i wouldnt insult on a daily basis like that and i would hope most other people wouldnt either | Explore Tumblr Posts and Blogs

dodecademons · 2 years

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Not to generalize or whatever, but I'm sorry but like wtf is going on with some of the cis hets? I literally got to know this couple and the guy just... insults her? All the time? "Lovingly" he says, she just kinda lets it happen. So far i have heard him insult her looks, hygiene, weight, voice, personality, intelligence, and just overall is mean to her. They've been dating for 3 years. Girl that sounds like a toxic af relationship to me. I have NEVER (and will never) insult my partner while we were dating, and even after we broke up (except one because they were literally manipulative and gaslighty). I like to be loving not insult their literal existence like that guy does. I will tease them sure but what that is isn't teasing babe, that is reason to break up. Biggest red flag

Wild.

#I know it isn't all the cis hets but wtf #why is the majority you guys get them in check #i so desperately want her to ask about my past relationships cause it will sound nothing like hers #it's sad cause they are surrounded by garbage people that just kind of feed off his energy and sometimes also insult her #you can tell they don't mean it but she speaks and her bf tells her to stfu all the time #where are the gays someone go tell her this aint it #sorry but if i had a gf i wouldnt insult on a daily basis like that and i would hope most other people wouldnt either #tw?#idk I'm just shocked #maybe i need to not interact with them anymore #thoughts?#lgbtqia #save me from them #I'll literally leave that group if they are always this toxic

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