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proposing at someone elses wedding makes the day entirely about You and Your Love instead of the people getting married. the bouquet thing doesnt even come close to the same
I mean maybe I'm weird but it wouldn't really bother me personally. Like I said, it would depend on context, like if someone's deliberately doing it to upstage you, that's shitty, or if they do it prior to the ceremony and make a big deal out of it that's also super rude. But if they keep it on the DL or if it's done with sincerity then like.... what's the big deal? Presumably I love these people or they wouldn't be there.
#tbf though im also not the sort of person who a) would spend a huge amount on a wedding with lots of pomp and circumstance#b) invite people who would purposefully or carelessly do something like that. like id want to be asked if it was fine#but like shit another excuse to open more champagne afaic#idk i have very little attachment to a lot of the traditional wedding shit we do in america#a wedding for me would probably just be a trip to the courthouse and then a party in the backyard ¯\_(ツ)_/¯#like i can see why people balk at the idea it just wouldn't really bother ME as long as it was done with consideration
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