#technically we have the anon/emoji club

[anendoandfriendo]

The last thing we want to do is ask emotional labor if any of you, but damn I kinda just wanna ask something if it ain't too bad.

Now that I'm finally typing this I don't even know how to say it. It's been on my mind for months. Especially after the slime spam started.

The majority of us who are actively, like, wanting to interact with the world happen to have fictional or factual counterparts, so being wildly ourselves is always a awkward challenge in feeling allowed to say the least. I notice it a lot, we want to be able to joke and laugh and be proudly the clusterfuck we are. Make silly profiles, collect identities, and reblog ourselves and likes a lot but there's like this damn wall in the way.

Doesn't seem to mater we know it's a bullshit wall. Past experiences dealing with shit like the Yandere Bitch Club is hard to go back to innocent fun from even after all this time.

We keep making new blogs, we keep trying, but that wall won't go away.

How do your mindsets I guess work to be able to say fuck it and just have a blast and reblog and say each other by your names and not care? I wanna, and I know others do to, just wanna join you all in the fun and maybe become friends one day and just @ each other in things people like and send asks all the lot. It's all we ever wanted to get back to with people.

Yeah sorry. I really hope your jobs and your day goes like super good and you actually have a chill one.

- Hayakawa of DMX

Hey there Hayakawa!

Our general advice in this situation, just speaking from personal experience, is to start smaller and get bigger and bigger interactions as time goes on! I know that sounds cheesy and Raphael is also saying that is cheesy, and I think Deulara is rolling their eyes, etc etc etc. but I don't think they can deny this is what helped us, either, ortherwise I would have gotten a more legitimate interjection by now. c:

So like, for us we started off with maybe reblogging random fanart of ourselves or if not ourselves but a fandom we're in or would like to be in. And then after that would hide stiff in the tags signing our names off. And after that we started signing off on our posts and comments weather we made them ourselves or if we're commenting on someone else's thing. We don't think most of us are quite ready to engage in fandom in the way of writing fic, doing our own fanart, or anything like that and many of us go at paces slower or faster than this too. For example:

I do not believe I have gotten to the point of signing my name off of my own comments for reblogs yet when I see Vanilla (World's End Club) fan art simply because I think it would be too weird for me and because I'm worried about potential anti-endogenics/ableists, for example, but both are technically easily taken care of with a block on the end of just one party.

There's a few of us who sign off with emoji or use emojis when talking or engaging with the online world for their sanity -- we're on laptop at the moment but to vaguely summarize the ones I remember -- (beach), (sailboat), (vampire), (shining star), and (blue circle) all stand for someone who uses the blog or did use the blog regularly in our system.

Someone in our system literally introduced themselves as [REDACTED] or [NAME REDACTED] until further notice. It's quite on the nose but can only be done a few times before it's difficult to track.

We also actively seek out blogs that are friendly to our existence and are loud about it and request content for fandoms we are in, weather we have an Xive or not for that thing, and sometimes we do it on anon and sometimes we do not. We implied this earlier but we also use the block button liberally and generally expect other individuals to do the same instead of throwing a hissyfit in our inbox or messages.

And while not all blogs tag (we do not currently tag, for example, although we do plan to start at some point in time and go through all of our posts accordingly) using the tags and post filers has still helped us a ton. We mirror the tags and post filters so if one does not catch something we wish to avoid, the other will.

And, as an additional tip, this is for desktop/laptop website only but we fell in love with Xkit the moment we started using it, Jade Leech 1.0 had become distressed about a particular post but we loved a specific blog otherwise, and the post in question was not technically "wrong" or "bad" in any way, it was just...dysphoria-inducing because of the headcanon. So we used Xkit to mute/block that post and that post only and now we have a dysphoria-free Jade Leech.

So a lot of it is space curation both mentally and literally, and part of it is just kind of snowballing your way into it, if that makes any sense! I'm hoping this helped and if you need any clarification then we can try our best to help with what we can.

~ Vanilla

[herri-writes]

For ask game : 💫💖💞🎀💌  i hope this isnt too much <3 take your time!

Ask game here.

Oh, anon, I love your choice in emojis for this ask. One question, did you scroll everything in my blog for this reblogged post or saw this in your dashboard? This is the most recent ask game with emoji I reblogged so far before the other ask game.

answers under the cut^^/

💫 what is your favorite kind of comment/feedback

— Unhinged simping comments. Periodt.

No seriously. It gave me a good laugh that I can make simping comments that are so unhinged with them— may it be a meme, a gif, or sane feral comments, you name it. I often do that at tags lol.

💝 what is a fic that got a different response than you were expecting

💖 (omg where is this kira kira heart? I havent seen it in this post... if you picked this heart (💝), then I'll answer it for you.

— Hm... I checked my works and what would I expect from the reblogs and comments that got drowned in the sea of likes. I guess it's at my old akuneko fics back in 2022.

💞 what's the most important part of the story for you? the plot, the characters, the worldbuilding, the technical stuff (grammar etc.), the figurative language

— Oh, here's my answer. All of the above.

It's always the plot, the characters, the technicall stuff, and the figurative language when it's a oneshot or a drabble fic. But the worldbuilding is included when it's a whole series or closely to a book. Been there, through that, done that.

🎀 give yourself a compliment about your own writing

— Here's a compliment to myself about my own writing.

"Oh, god. You're so dumb that you made such bad works. You did well and you're hot for writing the same thing almost 10 times in one week to one month. You have limited vocabulary and you did well in writing such beautiful yet annoying works, sweetie."

💌 share something with us about an up-and-coming work (WIP) that has you excited.

— Oh I am making my Izumi and Leo speaking in fluent Italian headcanon canon in my mind. I can see Leo being a dumbass in doing Italian hand gestures while talking like the dumbass he is (affectionate)

— Reader running away from Wataru because of PTSD and war flashbacks. Hokke and Tomo rating a 10000000/10 for you calling Wataru the most iconic nickname given from the duo and formed a Wataru Hate Club with you in my current fic series.

— Self-indulgent LeoHerri fic that both of us are inspired and in our own world, having our alone time while doing something we are passionate of in the same room. *dreamy sigh*

— Knights being kidnappers but in phantom thieves version. I want them to rot. (affectionate)

— A world where Lilia and reader sing a lullaby for baby Silver. *cries*

[inkykeiji]

i have really truly never watched bnha lmao but i did search up “dabi voice” and he has the perfect voice for degradation sfkjsl i sat there like 😳

I LOVE THAT EMOJI THAT IS SO CUTE THANK U 🥺🥺 also lmao you should just start a smol club and have all ur short anons & moots join. i will join.

okay idk how the forearm thing would work w the skin grafts b u t the dabi voice vid came w some visuals and i think canonically he already has nice forearms so idk i would bend reality a lil to have dabi choke me out </3 that says nothing about the forearm thing but everything about my thoughts on dom dabi

t-thigh riding w dabi? 👉👈 biting dabi’s thighs 🥺

i saw some like?? soft dom dabi earlier i think??? i jus like . obviously yall know best bc i dont know dabi lmao but i envisioned him as a very hard dom? like spreader bars and maybe cages and impact play and yes i agree lots of dumbification good but also when you go into subspace he is delighted

i also like??? think his aftercare is very like???? he swaddles u in blankets and has a point of contact with you but isn’t super cuddly and puts on a comfort show/movie as he cleans up and always makes sure to be in your line of sight or making lots of noise if he’s not because he knows you feel secure with him around. cuddles you when you’re asleep and you wake up feeling v safe and warm. idk thoughts pls?? only if u wanna reply tho

thats all have a nice day/night clari <3333

- 🦦

his voice is gonna put me in an early grave good god let me fucking tell you like,,,,,, so smooth and low and just fucking indifferent to everything, almost careless in a way, with the slightest hint of teasing laced in it,,,,,,,, ok ok goodbye

dabi is 100% into choking but oH OH OH thigh riding is just !!!!!!!!!!! oh holy fuck yes a hundred thousand times YES and he’d be such a cocky bastard about it too, yk?? would get off on the fact that you get off on just his thighs alone, that he can turn you into a stupid, trembling, drooling mess just with his thighs,,,

no i agree w u for the most part. soft dom dabi wouldn’t come out until he’s extremely comfortable with you, until he really really loves you and cares about you more than him. i just adore the idea of dabi having that one person that he truly falls in love with, and it takes him forever to actually accept the fact, yk dude’s got a lot of issues and insecurities surrounding relationships that he’s definitely not ready to get into etc etc but liiiike once he finally accepts it my good god would he love you fiercely (probably too fiercely, to an unhealthy amount, borderline yandere, v possessive n terrified you’ll leave him blah blah blah these are my personal headcanons ehehe)

ooooh aftercare w dabi is an interesting and complex topic!!! again i think it would depend on what stage your relationship is at, if that makes sense?? i really like what u said and think that that’s definitely dabi at least at the beginning of your relationship, like he’s kinda awkward w it and doesn’t really know what to do but also has that nagging sense of responsibility because he cares about you (which irritates him at first). it would be v slow and gradual but i think eventually he’d be more present and begin cuddling u before you fall asleep, whispering praises and sweet nothings into ur hair <33