#thats something ive definitely improved on over time like i dont give people my possessions anymore and i hold ppl borrowing from me accoun | Explore Tumblr Posts and Blogs

yuridovewing · 9 months

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Basically like. Onewhisker definitely has a point in wanting to keep relationships good when WindClan is just now setting up it's borders. Mudclaw instantly jumping to "no we gotta hate the other clans and beat the shit out of them if they look at us NOW" isn't productive and would have been a terrible beginning for WindClan. But also Onewhisker is definitely vulnerable to being taken advantage of. If he's too giving, then that's something the other leaders can exploit and hold over his head. Firestar in particular, cause they're besties, and they're both like "oh windclan owes thunderclan soooooooo much! we HAVE to give them everything or else we're ungrateful brats!" at this point. It's one of the reasons he doesn't bode well as a leader. I find it perfectly believable that he snaps so hard in the other direction when ThunderClan DOES take advantage of his kindness AND he nearly gets assassinated by half of his clan over this. Like goddamn I'd be throwing hands too.

#idk. i kinda relate to onestar in this regard? where other people will do a nice thing for me and ill feel compelled to defend them over it #but said people would also hold that over my head to make me do things i didnt want to do and give them so much #and i felt like i HAD to overcompensate and give them so much ''in return'' cause like. well i didnt want to be ungrateful.#i couldnt ever pay off my debt and i could not get out of it without being shamed. and then id face the consequences of giving too much awa #back at home where my family would be rightfully pissed saying that i was wasting their money by just giving so many things away #and also as soon as the well stopped? id get dropped like a hot potato and antagonized and mocked by those people #thats something ive definitely improved on over time like i dont give people my possessions anymore and i hold ppl borrowing from me accoun #accountable #but being a doormat is something i struggle with to this day. actually going through something that happened cause i was doormat #and idk i see that in onestar. hes being a doormat in starlight. hes being taken advantage of #so i dont blame him for finally snapping and full on being a dick to firestar. he kinda earned it #its better than him giving up everything for him #gn liveread

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