#the one and only... sort of: ooc

[malka-lisitsa]

I am experimenting more in photoshop and looking for ideas so if you would LIKE me to mess around and see about making you a promo for free or an edit of our muses give this a like. NO PROMISES AT ALL-

This is just a post for me to go to and be like "oh hmmm maybe this..."

Please specify what you want (edit of our muses or promo) and then give me a vibe and your FC.

Again NO PROMISES- but never hurts to throw your name in the gobblet of fire right? Whats the worst that could happen?

[malka-lisitsa]

All I can think about is that time @cainevesson 's Mikael pspspsps'd katherine and it worked.

u can say pspspspss to get my attention bro its ok we're mutuals

[malka-lisitsa]

I am a low maintenance rp partner. I don't mind if you take your time, in fact I encourage you to because I intend on taking mine. I don't mind if you send me a link to a thread to ask about it, chances are its in my drafts, or queue, or I missed your reply- stuff happens you know?

I do not require a lot of ooc contact but I don't mind making new friends with low pressure conversation either. I can be slow with DMs but that's why I run a mutuals server (just ask) where I am very active and happy to talk. My object permanence is zero so if you think I'm ignoring you chances are you dm'd me and I didn't see or i did and clicked off the window and its gone forever till I remember to look.

Bottom line is, if we're mutuals I love interacting. Just send an ask or poke me about a thread. Just because I'm slow doesn't mean I don't want to interact. Just bc I missed your DM or forgot to respond doesn't mean I don't want to talk- I care about my mutuals. So if you've been nervous to reach out here is your sign that I don't mind. Ask me for my discord, send an ask, throw your muses at me I don't care. Just don't take my varying turn around time as indication that I don't care about you. My dash moves fast, my drafts pile up fast- I might miss it but it doesn't mean I don't care.

On the flip side I also don't mind if you don't keep consistent contact. A lot of us are introverts, a lot of us are shy, a lot of us have mental illness, and busy lives so I want you to know that there is no friendship decay with me either. If you drop off the face of the planet and come back I will always be happy to hear about your adventures. Rest assured there isn't an expiration date on your friendship with me.

[malka-lisitsa]

Happy new year!!!

Happy new year to everyone (except the copy cat </3) I hope all of you have a wonderful year. I know it looks bleak for some of us, theres a lot of unknown in our very near future but I'm standing with you and we'll get through it together.

I hope this next year brings everyone great memories, something they can hold on to when the skies are at their darkest, and many new friends to share your future with.

(again not you copy cat </3)

Shout out to a small selection of people who my dash wouldn't be the same without, but please know even if you're not tagged I'm really glad youre here and I value you as a writing partner!!

@klaeus @deceptivemorals @riprachel @dgrayd @havvkinsqueen @baby-royalty @broknfeed @multi-royalty @astrainclinantx @firstsoncain @painofhumanity

And of course my Stefan's you all know you're favoured most ;)

I can't wait to write new plots with current writing partners and new dynamics with new writing partners. Be safe, take a shot for me, and happy new year!!!

[malka-lisitsa]

Additionally

Don't feel pressured to interact right away, interaction isn't a race and sometimes it takes the perfect ask prompt or idea to spark the right situation

Don't be afraid to drop threads with me that you're not feeling. We can always plot new ones.

Don't feel like you have to answer every ask sent in a pack, most of the time this is to give you options not triple the work expectation

Don't be afraid to communicate to me when a pre-planned plot is changing direction bc of how things played out! Strong arming muses to make plots fit in a box kills muse!

Don't be shy! Send memes when you see one that looks appealing! Like posts! Send messages to let them know that you really liked how they wrote/did something! The rpc can feel isolating when everyone is too shy to reach out! Be brave and make a new friend!

If we are RPing together

you do not have to:

get to my thread just because you’re working on other replies

avoid posting often just because we’re both online and it’s your turn

push yourself to write something just because you see me on

I understand:

that sometimes you only get muse for certain threads

you may not know what to reply with at the moment

some threads you have are in an exciting moment and you’d rather put your focus into those

RPing is for fun. Don’t force yourself to get stuff done. Your replies are worth the wait.

[malka-lisitsa]

what are must follow blogs for tvd fandom?

Well i assume you're already following me, so that's step one down.

Step two: Canons (mostly active so you actually have something to see) @deceptivemorals @klaeus @crowsalvation @aboutforbes @sonofmikael @touchedbydestiny (Nadia and Amara are flawless)

Step three: Ocs (again active ones so you have something to see)

@victorylost @flappervcmp @painofhumanity (Tom my baby) @baby-royalty @dopplgaenger

I would have included more but theres a lul in activity for a lot of people and if you're asking for blogs to follow you probably want ones with things to see- so. Hope this gets you started!

[malka-lisitsa]

If English isnt your first language

Then youre a rock star for being here tbh. Most people who have English as a first language can't even speak it. The fact that you're here with it as a SECOND language is astounding. Please remember that if you mess up and get made fun of the person being nitpicky probably only knows one language and you should tell them off in your native language and ask them if they can figure it out without google translate.

Youre doing amazing, and I support you.

Bonus point some of you not having English as your first language actually makes your characterization of your foreign muse even MORE convincing.

Ya'll are amazing and I'm glad youre here.

[malka-lisitsa]

Gucci gang besties

@crowsalvation @flappervcmp

We look fabulous PERIODT.

[malka-lisitsa]

Then there's me whos like-

*KICKS IN THE DOOR*

WHATS UP FUCKERS YOU WANNA PLOT? YOU GOT DISCORD? LETS GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO.

dm'ing a mutual you've never interacted with one-on-one is so embarrassing like. hi.... im sorry. you can kill me if you want... can i have your discord..... if not.. feel free to shoot me down where i stand... im sorry.. i'll leave..

[malka-lisitsa]

PSA

AND IM SORRY FOR THE POLITI.CS TALK

Just a reminder for those in America, tomorrow is el.ection day and every v.ote to keep the che.eto out of off.ice is a vo.te for the safety of your lgbt and poc friends and family. Please dont skip. We cant afford to play around in this el.ection.

This will be my only post about it. But i beg you please use your voice to protect others. It matters. You matter.

[malka-lisitsa]

Nah you were evil for this and you know it. @deceptivemorals

[malka-lisitsa]

@deceptivemorals @klaeus @retconned-royalty

Do y’all ever read your partner’s reply and it’s just… so beautiful, so well-crafted, you really just have to sit back, and read it a couple more times, and wonder how in the heck you got so lucky to write with someone THIS talented??

[malka-lisitsa]

Why do people like you (the mun) so much???? I don't see it.

Beats the fuck out of me, but here we are.

Maybe it's the shiny crown that attracts them, it sure lured you in here.

You can sign your name on the hater wall to the left on your way out if you'd like. Not that post-it-note thats my grocery list, the white board of revolving door haters. Feel free to pick a fun colour too. Totally support you expressing yourself.

Have a great day booboo.

[malka-lisitsa]

Psa smol travel hiatus

I will be in maryland for like 4 days starting tomorrow- but to be honest it shouldnt super affect activity! And I will be on discord too! Queue will be running!!

Try not to miss me too hard ;)

[malka-lisitsa]

Smol activity notice

Tomorrow I'm heading for Chicago!! I will be there till sunday (including the travel time)

Activity shouldn't be too badly affected (give or take icon usage or gifs) But just a heads up if im not as active as usually I am probably driving or doing cool shit ;)

If you need to reach me you can on Disco!

Malka_lisitsa

Tell me who you are before you add or I wont accept <3

[malka-lisitsa]

I just remembered i have a carrd and i need to make sure its accurate lmfao. On like.... all of them.

I havent logged in in a while or looked.