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barnbridges · 5 months

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i fucking hate the bear man question, just say what you MEAN don't use meaningless metaphors about social behaviors and then get angry men don't get them. be fucking direct and tell them their friend has a rapey ass fucking face. tell them what you think and feel, not dance some elaborate metaphor johal sounding social experiment, it really doesn't get the point across as well as you think it does.

#“my roman empire” is already pushing it towards infantilization of feelings for me but you dont use fucking silly metaphors about sa #im sorry im from the city #im familiar with strategies and measures to avoid and report rape #there's never a zero chance of being assaulted as a woman and yes im afraid of it in certain situations #yes im never alone with one man or with more than 4 men #but id get so killed by a bear #im fucking clueless on bears #sure bears might not attack you if you're not a moron #but most of us have more experience avoiding rapists than bears #its normal to think its a fucking false equivalence and inconvenient #like why would you say it like that and then be annoyed when men don't get it #its a very stupid way of expressing genuine concern #i just think it doesn't get it across well towards most people who don't speak the same “in language”#its just playing stupid games

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