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meiffel-tower · 2 years

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In yet another experience supporting my trust of my gut/intuition, my sister just sent me a picture of the card her husband gave her and I saw that he specifically wrote "you are super special to me" and yesterday I wrote "you're extremely special to me" in my own birthday message to her. Neither of us wrote a huge flowery paragraph, we both did just 2-3 short but genuine sentences. And like one of the things I've always liked about him is that i feel like we both love my sister in similar ways, and anyways yeah this was just a little thing that just validated my belief that we're similar in some ways lol (and my personal theory that I might end up with a guy with a personality/way of loving me similar to my sister's lmao)

I just think it's interesting how we're drawn to certain types of people and you can kind of feel it even before you really know them that well

#i really do believe in a kind of spiritual intuition #ever since i met one of my best friends in college and without even really talking i was like #'for some reason I feel like i could be friends with this girl'#and i was right and we got along really well and i still consider one of my best friends even though we don't talk that much anymore #bc i feel like we just click in a way thats not dependent on talking super frequently #and anyways this is why i really do not like dating apps and am not the best at casual dating #bc i guess im waiting for that feeling of 'i don't know how but i strongly suspect this is right' with a guy #bc ive had it before with friends and jobs and the decision to stay in VA rather try and find a job in GA like i originally planned #this is also why i go nuts for SJMs mate stuff hahahaha i just love it!!#i really do believe theres something more to life and some people peoples souls and spirits just immediately mesh in an unexplainable way #be it platonically or romantically or whatever #personal #txt #and i also know what its like to feel attracted to someone but also know deep deep down in your gut that its not quite right #or like what im looking for #and that time i ignored it because i wanted things to work out and i did love him and care about him a lot #but i got my heart broken in a long drawn out way #so not trying that again lol #i won't settle for less than an intuitive green light about a guy and if that means i never get married then so be it i guess #id rather be happy on my own with my other loved ones than be married to someone i dont believe in my soul with a right decision #as hippie dippy as that sounds lmao

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