#this was a fantastic question unfortunately i am very unequipped to answer it </3

[bisexualsmallishbeans]

I looove hearing people resonate with 'confusing' identities!!!! Please tell us more about why pan lesbian is a comfy label for you if you want!!!/gen

Uhh- how do I say I'm not the host and I'm just an alter that was being silly on main-

Honestly? That's a fantastic question. Part of the answer is that I'm an alter that was originally the genderbend/opposite/reciprocal/"evil twin" of an alter that's pan with a preference for men? So as we started diverging more + becoming more distinct I just kinda found my way to that "equal but opposite" label.

The other part of the answer is that I like all people but specifically women and I like labels that make exclusionists mad :P

But the best answer I really got is "I just came into existence like this."

I wish I had a better answer ghjfgfg... mspec lesbians and other "confusing" identities need more love <3