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WHY PERFECTIONISM STARTS IN CHILDHOOD (AND HOW TO BEGIN HEALING | Understand People | jeffkinkade

WHY PERFECTIONISM STARTS IN CHILDHOOD (AND HOW TO BEGIN HEALING | Understand People | jeffkinkade https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CUshK-oj8mw Perfectionism promised to keep you safe.To protect you from shame. To earn you love.But what if it lied? In this video, I share the deeper truth about perfectionism that most people never hear—how it’s often born out of childhood pain, shaped by moments of loss, abandonment, or the fear of not being enough. I tell the story of one man whose perfectionism began the day his father walked out—and how, decades later, that wound still shaped his life. If you’ve ever felt like you have to be perfect to be loved…If you’ve built your identity on being dependable, flawless, or “the strong one”…If you feel exhausted, disconnected, or quietly lonely… This video is for you. You'll learn: * Why perfectionism often starts in childhood * The hidden emotional cost it carries * How shame and fear shape our perfectionist patterns * How to begin the journey of healing Sometimes, healing starts by admitting that perfectionism didn’t protect me. It left me lonely. 💬 Comment below:When did you first feel like being perfect was the only way to be safe? Or just drop a “Yes” if this resonates with you. 🔗 Watch Next:[How Perfectionism Is Wrecking Your Relationships (And You Don’t Even Know It) – link when available] #Perfectionism #ChildhoodTrauma #MentalHealth #EmotionalHealing #SelfWorth #JeffKinkade #UnderstandPeople #TransformRelationships 📌 Subscribe to understand people and transform your relationships. 🔗 Stay Connected With Me 👉Instagram: https://ift.tt/HWvdTuO 👉X (Twitter): https://ift.tt/yOQj51T 👉Linkedin: https://ift.tt/wizUfCp 👉TikTok https://ift.tt/3uCQVKU 📩 For Business Inquiries: jeff@jeffkinkade.com 🎬 Recommended Playlists 👉 Understand People https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLIBut6b361ELFinGTN00y0zDbBqrZYUtT 👉 Transform Relationships https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLIBut6b361EIfqzGRQ2JBt8QwBkjXE7BB ✅ About Jeff Kinkade Most people feel more disconnected than ever—and no one taught us how to do relationships well. We’re facing a quiet crisis of loneliness, conflict, and relational confusion. Romantic relationships, friendships, professional teams—everything feels harder than it used to. Self-help tries to fix this with tips: be more confident, set better boundaries, say it this way instead of that way. But that kind of advice stays on the surface. I’m Jeff Kinkade—a pastor and counselor with over 30 years of experience helping people go deeper. What I’ve seen again and again is this: The quality of your relationships depends on how well you understand people—including yourself. Because when you understand someone’s inner world—their beliefs, patterns, and history—you don’t just interact. You actually connect. That includes behavioral patterns. Emotional reflexes. Family wiring. Assumptions about love, safety, power, and connection. On this channel, I help you make sense of what’s really going on underneath the way you relate—so you can build relationships that are honest, wise, and lasting. Not just in your marriage or dating life—but in your work, your community, your family, and your faith. If you're tired of surface-level advice and you're ready for insight that leads to real change—you're in the right place. Hit subscribe to understand people and transform your relationships. Understand People. Transform Relationships. 🔔Please subscribe! https://www.youtube.com/@jeffkinkade/?sub_confirmation=1 For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below: 📩 Email: jeff@jeffkinkade.com Copyright Notice: You are authorized to share the video link and channel and embed this video in your website or others as long as a link back to my YouTube channel is provided. © Jeff Kinkade via Jeff Kinkade https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCTSCRVHKQb0Boo89KG6-RMA June 07, 2025 at 01:00AM

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