#we are in this queer shit forever bbies

[finexbright]

so much of what happened holds great significance not only to harry but to every single one of us. him acknowledging the flags, asking the fans to hold them up proudly, and thanking the audience for creating such a safe environment at his shows -- all these things weren't done in solidarity alone, they came from the heart of someone who's very much in the same community as us. he wants those flags there, he wants that pride there, he wants this safe space for both himself and for us, as has been the case for years now. the speech that he gave today came from a place of familiarity, he couldn't have said those words in the way that he did if he were just an ally. it was one of the very few times he acknowledged the flags using his words and i think that's monumental. rainbows are basically synonymous to harry's concerts now and it's because we felt safe and proud enough to do it and he wanted us to do it because he feels safe and proud too. i hope every single person who's been part of this fandom knows just how important whatever you do is. you are all important.

[ziracona]

Hey dude, im the one that bust thru the double doors. Okay, SO our GC isn't that big, about 20ish who's gathered to play this massive MMO game. Im close friends with like 2 ppl there, but we're on completely opposite sides of the planet. On the weekends tho, we've 'synced up' what times we're up so we can do some dungeon crawling or just goof off. This is where shit Gets Weird, instead of seeing us as peeps being bros, like 3 ppl comment on us being Romantically Involved. And seeing how we're all Queer, they dubbed us Soft Gay Bbies. All of us brought up how That's not only disturbing af, but you cant just... Pin That on to a REAL LIFE PERSON. WE AIN'T FUCKING FICTIONAL CHARACTERS. They try to argue how That's Not An Insult and how it just means that they see us really really Good 'Friends' and we're saying how thats SOME CREEPY SHIT TO SAY TO SOMEONE. Fucker n.1 then brings up how mlm relationships just seem a lot more relaxed and somber around each other (which, btw, NEITHER OF US SAID OUR GENDERS NOR PRONOUNS. WE JUST GO W WHATEVER) and how they apologized for 'simply stating the obvious'. At this point, im fucking LIVID and so Mad/Confused at what the FUCK WE WERE READING. Meanwhile, all you saw was a Several People are Typing, im holding my breath, bc Shit Could get Really Fucking Ugly or Really Blessed. I don't Know, i haven't been here long enough to get a good read on everyone. First one to pop up is 'What Kinda Clownfuckary'. Then multiple ppl are spamming Clown Emojis and Made the Music Bot play Circus Music while @ing them and when i say I FELT LOVE IN THAT CHATROOM THAT NIGHT. The Clown Trio ended up getting banned later on, but man, the amount of Emotions I had that night is forever ingrained in my BONES

Gross and horrifying, but I’m glad they booted their asses. As a proud ‘I’d be Justice in a Persona game’ person I am extremely pleased it was served here. Sorry you had to go through that fuckery in the first place Jesus. Gotta love fucking fetishization of real marginalized people! Not bad or horrible at all! Anyway my condolences dear god