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[takethebunny-andrun]

i dont really understand why people are so against ridding of the concept of AGAB/ASAB altogether in the name of "well, how would we define being trans then?"

a woman is "someone who identities as a woman." there is no other definition that does not exclude people who are women.

why does it make people uncomfortable to define trans people as "someone who identifies as trans"? trying to force it into some other definition will always exclude or include someone who either does or does not identify with the label. even if we are defining transness using AGAB/ASAB to say "someone who is transitioning away from/does not identify with their AGAB/ASAB", this is already true; there are GNC binary men who were AMAB who identify as trans and bigender women who were AFAB who identify as cis.

we do not need to keep around an oppressive concept that harms thousands of people in systemic and medical fashions because it would be harder to define some words. words that are used for identification are already going to be nearly impossible to define due to the complexity of human identity.

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can we request a quiet robot headmate please 🙏

name: byte/pixel/gizmo

pronouns: it/tech/file/signal/radio/wire/program

age: ageless

gender: agender, mechyic, assistandroidish

orientation: aroace

height: 4’6

emoji(s): 📼📹📺📻🔌🔋

other: completely nonspeaking, uses the screen on its face to communicate thru images

faceclaim:

aesthetic:

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Ily @ created systems <3

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Turigirl blinkie! (Single)

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what are you waiting for? someone to grant you permission? the perfect and permanent emotion? a shooting star to magic away every problem you have or ever have had? alright, wait away then. but no one is going to live your life for you while you wait to become someone else

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Hi anon, I was a really big fan of your blog when it was up!!! It really helped me feel seen and accepted in such a small community! And if you decide to come back you have my support, and I too plan on making content to help aid our small community (even though I'm quite scared of receiving hate). Whether you decide to come back or not your existence is already a beautiful act of rebellion!

Hi. I was the creator of the short-lived “our-agabpunk-experience” blog. I deleted it after getting attacked from multiple sides. I’m still scared that making it made me a terrible person. Because I have no self-esteem.

But I want to start it up again. I’m feeling a little lonely. I want to build up a community again. A part of me still feels like being agabpunk is wrong. I don’t know. But running it was nice. For a bit.

Thoughts?

Hey friend, thanks for stopping by!! It's always nice hearing from you

I'm sorry people attacked you so much, you absolutely didn't deserve that, and there's nothing wrong with being agabpunk. Being agabpunk is just rejecting the arbitrary labels society has put on you, nothing more, nothing less. If anything it's an act of strength, independence, courage, and healthy self expression, nothing to be ashamed of.

If you want that community back, I think there's no reason why you shouldn't take it back. If you need time, if you need to think about it, if you need a friend or someone to help you, all of that is fine. Just take your time, do what you want and what feels best.

That's my thoughts anyway, take it as you will

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I don't know about you but it's always the lesboys, the afab transfems, the amab transmascs, the bilesbians, contradictory label users that have been the most kindest, well rounded, accepting people I've met.

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You hate the non-men loving non-men definition of lesbian because you're a terf, I hate it because it excludes lesboys and mspec lesbians, we are not the same

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So much queer discourse is just "i like pancakes" "so you hate waffles?" Type shit

"I believe mspec lesbians are valid" "so you think lesbians just need good dick?"

"I believe trans men can identify as lesbians if they want" "so you think trans men are women?"

"I believe transandrophobia exists" "so you think transfems oppress transmascs?"

No bitch that's a whole new sentence wtf are you talking about

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hey, just so we're clear: as an intersex person, it's not my business as to why someone identifies as an amab transmasc or an afab transfem, i accept & take anyone who tells me that is how they identify no matter what. i'm not here to police anyone, i don't believe i have the right to tell anyone they are or are not justified in calling themselves amab transmasc or afab transfem. doesn't matter if youre perisex, intersex or something else, not my business, you're allowed to identify that way & i take you in good faith.

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God, I wish some people would understand that plurality can often have NOTHING to do with dissociative disorders.

People's grounds for being "anti-endo" usually make no fucking sense. It's like saying therians aren't real. It's like saying trans people are delusional. It's like saying any other weird brain phenomenon related to your identity is made up.

Some people experience feeling like multiple people. Some people experience having multiple identies in one body. These experience don't need to have ANYTHING to do with disorders of any kind. They just- happen sometimes. Like every weird brain phenomenon related to your identity ever.

Why is it so unbelievable to be multiple people? When other's identify as literal animals and objects and concepts, is it somehow so radical to be plural?

Thinking to be multiple, one must have a dissociative disorder, is like saying to be an animal, one must suffer from clinical zoanthropy. Have you ever considered our brains just... do stuff because they're weird, and not because they're broken?

You can dislike endos using the word system. Fine. Whatever. But don't you dare try to take the word plural from us. "Plurality" is specifically meant to include everyone who experiences being multiple. Endos will never stop being plural. It's the definition of who we are.

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I love you traumagenic systems that feel like you don't have enough trauma because the thing that traumatized you was something "small". It's not about what happened that matters but how your brain responded to it. Hell just living in late stage capitalism is enough to traumatize a person into forming a system!

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Another list of shout outs since you all liked the last one

This is for anyone who is alterhuman, nonhuman, therian, otherkin, otherlink, otherhearted, etc.

Shout out to:

Identities caused by trauma

Identities caused by delusion

Identities caused by neueodivergence

Identities caused by other psychological factors

Identities caused by reincarnation/past lives

Identities caused by other spiritual beliefs

Identities caused by gender/xenogender identity

Identities caused by religion

Identities caused by dysphoria

Identities caused by pet regression

Identities caused by shifts

Identities caused by urges

Identities caused by hyperfixations/interests

Identities caused by plurality

Identities that are for coping

Identities that are for fun

Identities to give you euphoria

Identities that don't have a specific reason

Alterhumans

Therians

Holotheres

Otherkin

Fictionkin

Physical alter/non humans

OCkin

Clinical zoanthropes

Object/concept kin

Otherhearted people

Copinglinkers

Transspecies people

Otherlinkers

Voidpunks and beastpunks

Those who are out/open about their Identities

Those who are keep it hidden

Alterhuman pet players

Alterhuman objectum people

Xenogenders

Petre people

Plural systems

Whatever folks I missed

I don't care how "weird" or "unusual" your identity is, you're still valid. If it's not hurting anyone, run wild! Be yourself.

I hate the amount of negativity and gatekeeping that goes on within the alterhuman community. People make lesser known or misunderstood identities feel unaccepted.

All. Of. You. Are. Valid.

I accept you all and this blog is a safe space.

Now don't forget it.

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describing a queerplatonic relationship as "more than a friendship": incorrect, minimizes what friendships can be, leads to confusion or dismissal of what a qpr is because "but you can still do all that stuff with a friend. i still don't see how this is different than a friendship"

describing a queerplatonic relationship as "more than *what is typically societally expected of* a friendship": far more accurate, acknowledges the variety of ways that platonic relationships can be, adresses the societally constructed nature of relationship hierarchy

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My name is Alice and I use all pronouns. I am auto, transfemmasc, physically nonhuman, and the host of a mixed origins system. This blog is mainly for transgender, queer, and plural topics, especially the more "out of the norm" and "contradictory" aspects. Do not come here with the intention of spreading hate, you likely won't get the attention you're demanding.

🪞🩵

DNI -

Anti endo/nontraumagenic. anti-(mspec,contradictory labels, lesboys, afab transfems, etc). Anti anti, pr0/c0mship, m4ps, z00s, r4dqueer, trans1d, transmeds. Against physical alterhumans of any verity. Really ableist against people with delusions or hallucinations.

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Shout out to any and all agab nonconforming/agabpunk folk

The ones who look at agab and just say "fuck that, I don't have an agab"

The ones who make up their own agab or use one so obscure no one else knows what it means

The ones who still use traditional ones but not the one they were assigned by a doctor

The ones who only identify with their agab sometimes

The ones who used to identify with their doctor assigned agab but don't anymore

The ones who didn't used to connect with their doctor assigned agab but are starting to feel more connected to it now

The ones who are genderless or have countless genders and that affects their connection to agab

The ones who are trans to their doctor assigned agab

The ones who have more than one agab

Intersex ones

Disabled ones

Ones who use xenogenders

Ones who use neopronouns

Nonhuman ones

You're all awesome af, and your experiences and unique takes on the world and gender are so interesting and special. Don't forget that!

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just gunna say: agab doesnt fucking matter. trans identities are not dictated by whatever sex you have. that is an absurd concept. much love!