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madonna performing vogue at the mtv video music awards, 1990

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Vivienne Westwood Horn Tiaras

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Radiohead - Weird Fishes/Arpeggi

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𓂃 ࣪˖ ཐིཋྀ

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Can I please be held and kissed and have my head buried in someone's chest while they hold me tight and tell me it's all okay? To let out every tear and moment of grief and sorrow and emptiness and have it replaced with tenderness and love and belonging? Please?

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Yoshitaka Amano: ‘Amon Saga’ Artworks from Anime V Magazine (1991)

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the thing with, "if I stopped showing up/posting/participating in chat/going online, would anyone notice?"

is you have to realize that the only way for you to actually know this information is to ask.

if your goal is to see if anyone is going to reach out, which is not the same as someone noticing your disappearance or being worried about you, you have to be prepared for what happens if nobody reaches out. I am very serious about this. not every friend is going to reach out, and maybe nobody will. maybe they are trying to respect your space and privacy. maybe they think you are mad at them. maybe they are super busy. maybe they were too occupied with their own life to notice. you have literally no way of knowing unless you ask.

what do you plan on doing next if nobody reaches out? because it happened to me. I disappeared for weeks. rough stuff was happening. nobody reached out. I was crushed. I felt so alone. and then I moved on and became a stronger person with a better understanding that feeling bad in silence is the absolute worst way to try to get support from people.

if you want to be reassured by your friends, you have to talk to them. if your friends do not communicate with you in the way you want, you have to talk to them. do not play the disappearing game. nobody is telepathic. nobody can read your mind and guess what you want them to do if you disappear. you have to communicate or everyone fucking loses.

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Chapter 176: Kagome’s Heart

犬夜叉

BY RUMIKO TAKAHASHI

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talking heads will forever make the depression go away ilu talking heads

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Talking Heads - Making Flippy Floppy 

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go lie in grass with me?

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Katie Maria, from the closing circle