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[thatonelesbian-me]

free yourself from the idea of insecurity.

you’re not inadequate in any way, you’re you…growing every day in every way whether people see it or not. it’s never a linear journey, enjoy your life.

[thatonelesbian-me]

Being queer saved my life. Often we see queerness as deprivation. But when I look at my life, I saw that queerness demanded an alternative innovation from me. I had to make alternative routes; it made me curious; it made me ask, "Is this enough for me?"

— Ocean Vuong

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[thatonelesbian-me]

Arizona is my happy place🥺🥰

[thatonelesbian-me]

You’ll miss her

you’ll miss her when it’s 2:37am and you’ve woken up, and she’s no longer there to call

you’ll miss her when you’re no longer getting the good morning and goodnight messages, full of affection

you’ll miss her when you’ve had a bad day at work, and no one will listen to you complain like she did

you’ll miss her when you see her laughing in the street, knowing you’re no longer the reason

you’ll miss her when a song comes on that reminds you of her, because you used to blast it in your car while singing to eachother

you’ll miss her when you get a whiff of her perfume on a stranger, and remember the days you were buried in her chest

you’ll miss her when it’s cold at night and the only things you have next to you is your phone devoid of messages and a few tangled sheets

you’ll miss her when the only messages you get are “streaks”

you’ll miss her when you wanna cry and be in her arms again, but she doesn’t even glance at you in the street

you’ll miss her when you see her dancing and you’ll remember all the times she wanted to dance with you and you said no

you’ll miss her when you find yourself talking about her all the time, and you’re not even on her mind

you’ll miss her when the alcohol doesn’t get rid of the thoughts of her smiling in the sunlight in slow motion

you’ll miss her when she no longer complains about her day and is overdramatic about it

you’ll miss her when she doesn’t answer your messages in less than 20 seconds, and when she doesn’t answer your calls

you’ll miss her when it kicks in that she’s no longer there

you’ll miss her when you realise no one genuinely cared for you as hard as she did, no one genuinely loved you with their whole heart like she did

you’ll miss her when you go to reach for her hand and it’s not there

you’ll miss her when she doesn’t send you selfies and videos of her being goofy anymore

you’ll miss her when “i love you” is only something you’ll hear from your mother or best friend

you’ll miss her late at night when you’re laying there alone and you realise you have no one to talk to 

you’ll miss her when you realise no one asks about you as much as she does; if you ate, if you slept okay, if you’re feeling alright, if works okay

you’ll miss her when you don’t have someone annoying you all the time, and you just have silence

you’ll miss her when you drive past somewhere and all you’ll see is her in your arms, laughing that laugh of hers that was enough to warm up the room

you’ll miss her when you realise no one would forgive you like she did, no one would let go of things like she did

you’ll miss her “pinky promise?”s, her “i love youuuuu!”s, her smothering your face with kisses

you’ll miss her thumb tracing your hand as you hold it and the laughs you both shared as you tried to sing

you’ll miss her smile and the way she looked down at the ground or off in the clouds

you’ll miss her getting excited over the most random things like the stars or an animal

you’ll miss the random calls and the messages and the spamming

you’ll miss the “one more kiss goodbye!”s, the “cmonnn it’ll be fun!”s, the “i miss you”s

you’ll miss her smile, her big bright eyes, her soft hands, her lips

you’ll miss it all

but by the time you realise you miss her

and you love her

and you care about her more than you’ve ever cared about anything

it’ll be too late

she’ll be in the arms of another, giving them the love she gave to you

she’ll be sharing that laugh with them and putting her soft lips on theirs

being cradled in another’s arms

have new “our songs” with them and new places to visit

and that’s when it’ll hit you the absolute hardest

when this beautiful, one in a billion girl with the heart of gold, is long gone

[thatonelesbian-me]

You say you love me. But if you really loved me it wouldn’t be so easy to ignore me or delete me out of your life so easily.

[thatonelesbian-me]

You’ll miss her

you’ll miss her when it’s 2:37am and you’ve woken up, and she’s no longer there to call

you’ll miss her when you’re no longer getting the good morning and goodnight messages, full of affection

you’ll miss her when you’ve had a bad day at work, and no one will listen to you complain like she did

you’ll miss her when you see her laughing in the street, knowing you’re no longer the reason

you’ll miss her when a song comes on that reminds you of her, because you used to blast it in your car while singing to eachother

you’ll miss her when you get a whiff of her perfume on a stranger, and remember the days you were buried in her chest

you’ll miss her when it’s cold at night and the only things you have next to you is your phone devoid of messages and a few tangled sheets

you’ll miss her when the only messages you get are “streaks”

you’ll miss her when you wanna cry and be in her arms again, but she doesn’t even glance at you in the street

you’ll miss her when you see her dancing and you’ll remember all the times she wanted to dance with you and you said no

you’ll miss her when you find yourself talking about her all the time, and you’re not even on her mind

you’ll miss her when the alcohol doesn’t get rid of the thoughts of her smiling in the sunlight in slow motion

you’ll miss her when she no longer complains about her day and is overdramatic about it

you’ll miss her when she doesn’t answer your messages in less than 20 seconds, and when she doesn’t answer your calls

you’ll miss her when it kicks in that she’s no longer there

you’ll miss her when you realise no one genuinely cared for you as hard as she did, no one genuinely loved you with their whole heart like she did

you’ll miss her when you go to reach for her hand and it’s not there

you’ll miss her when she doesn’t send you selfies and videos of her being goofy anymore

you’ll miss her when “i love you” is only something you’ll hear from your mother or best friend

you’ll miss her late at night when you’re laying there alone and you realise you have no one to talk to 

you’ll miss her when you realise no one asks about you as much as she does; if you ate, if you slept okay, if you’re feeling alright, if works okay

you’ll miss her when you don’t have someone annoying you all the time, and you just have silence

you’ll miss her when you drive past somewhere and all you’ll see is her in your arms, laughing that laugh of hers that was enough to warm up the room

you’ll miss her when you realise no one would forgive you like she did, no one would let go of things like she did

you’ll miss her “pinky promise?”s, her “i love youuuuu!”s, her smothering your face with kisses

you’ll miss her thumb tracing your hand as you hold it and the laughs you both shared as you tried to sing

you’ll miss her smile and the way she looked down at the ground or off in the clouds

you’ll miss her getting excited over the most random things like the stars or an animal

you’ll miss the random calls and the messages and the spamming

you’ll miss the “one more kiss goodbye!”s, the “cmonnn it’ll be fun!”s, the “i miss you”s

you’ll miss her smile, her big bright eyes, her soft hands, her lips

you’ll miss it all

but by the time you realise you miss her

and you love her

and you care about her more than you’ve ever cared about anything

it’ll be too late

she’ll be in the arms of another, giving them the love she gave to you

she’ll be sharing that laugh with them and putting her soft lips on theirs

being cradled in another’s arms

have new “our songs” with them and new places to visit

and that’s when it’ll hit you the absolute hardest

when this beautiful, one in a billion girl with the heart of gold, is long gone

[thatonelesbian-me]

My 3 yo experienced her first harassment from a boy at preschool, and we’re all feeling tired. We’re talking to her teacher about it - we’re building her confidence to say No.  It’s time to change the way we treat casual harassment. Let’s teach our kids what isn’t appropriate to do to other people, while they are still kids!  Love you all Mayticks

[thatonelesbian-me]

be like Thor, be there to support your loved ones,accept who they are and celebrate them

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[thatonelesbian-me]

Joey Batey? More like Joey

BABY

[thatonelesbian-me]

Don’t kill yourself today

Because your Netflix trial still has a week left

Don’t kill yourself today

Because no one else will finish off the chicken in the fridge

Don’t kill yourself today

Because I know for a fact that Starbucks is releasing a new Frappuccino sometime next month

Yes, your mother will miss you

Yes your bully will make a sappy Facebook post about how what a a wonderful person you were

And yes

Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem

You know that

You’ve known that

Everyone and anyone has been shoving that down your throat since they first learned what the word suicide meant

So don’t kill yourself

Until you finish your shampoo and conditioner at the same time

Don’t kill yourself

Until Doctor Who is finally cancelled

Don’t kill yourself

Until you tell someone your best pasta recipe

Don’t kill yourself

Because I will keep coming up with reasons for you not to

And I need you

To hear all of them

Don’t kill yourself

I love you

You’re important

It’s a bad day

Not a bad life

There is more to this

The world will keep spinning on its axis without you

But

Think of all the sunrises you’d miss

I know this sounds pointless

But when you’re sitting in front of everything deadly you own

Revising your goodbyes

There will be too much darkness

To see anything else

But this is not about seeing anything else

This is about turning off the lights

This is about finding the bed instead of the noose

This is about giving yourself one more day

Even if it takes ten thousand of those

One more morning’s

Until

“I can’t wait for tomorrow”

This is about staying alive

Because there’s gonna be a new Marvel movie

No one should miss that

This is about staying alive

Because the future is coming

And it’s ready for you

I don’ t need you to see it

I just need you to believe you can make it

Until then

- Hannah Dains

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#relatable

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“The ability to sit down with another person and talk for hours, about anything and everything, is more attractive to me than anything else.”

— Koi Fresco (via deeplifequotes)