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Two things that I think are way more common than most people realize because few people want to admit to them is having a period of time where you have no friends & never having really dated someone well into adulthood. The second one is observation but I find when I tell people a few years ago I had no friends it ends up resulting in them telling me that they also used to have/currently have no real friends. When I first was getting social again and felt like a feral child raised by wolves while all my peers had moved on w their lives my therapist told me “most people are as lonely as you are” and at the time I was like okay cope 😑 but now looking back she actually could not have been more right
#about the first part - YES#we consume media about friendship so much#sometimes it feels like everyone has a close knit friend group#or a best friend we hang out with every day#but that’s not how normal life goes#I often feel so bad about it#but life with young kids is lonely#and ironically talking with other daycare parents#made me realise most of us are desperate for company and friendship#but don’t know how to find them when we’re so busy#my parents didn’t hang out with friends when we were younger#but since we’re all grown now my mom especially has built a new circle of friends#they have weekends out together sometimes and everything#the 60+ grandma version lol#gives me hope!
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Credits on Blue Prince!!
on day 30! That was fun. But I have so many other puzzles to complete my completitionist brain is getting excited. But I really like the lore and have a lot more to put together.
#blue prince#it’s not a game for everyone sure#but I feel like it was made exactly for me#it’s just so satisfying to play#just putting together a house with all the rooms#and uncovering bits and pieces of puzzles with each run#I love it
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Drawing representing what I believe is existential anxiety by my 4 y.o.

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anonymously (or not) ask me any question you’d like to know about me
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The Pitt literally has everything. Socially awkward and highly competent autistic coded character. Sarcastic asshole with a heart of gold. Nervous white boy with the saddest eyes you’ve ever seen. Nepo baby child prodigy. Milf with a mysterious past. Noah Wyle. Need I say more
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It’s 12 one-kilo bags of coffee grains!!
considering the price of coffee these days it’s a really generous gift! 💝
Guess who won "a year’s worth of coffee" from a local store????
#can’t wait to try them all!#there’s even some decaf for my late-summer nights campfires at the cabin!
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Guess who won "a year’s worth of coffee" from a local store????
#incredible#I don’t know if it’s a giant box full of coffee or if I can get free coffee anytime#but !!!#couldn’t happen at a better time!
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So anyway I just finished watching Succession (late to the party as always) and thoroughly enjoyed it.
What should I watch next
#I subscribed to Crave specifically for late-night nursing entertainment#i have so many shows to watch#I thought maybe shogun or a BoB rewatch but I feel like#I should watch something quieter#and that has no children harmed in it lol
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Quick what are you doing RIGHT now (besides scrolling Tumblr)
#sitting in the dark next to the bassinet#he is sleeping… I think#might watch a show for maybe 30 minutes#to feel alive before going to sleep too#if he stays asleep
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Enjolras/Feuilly fic rec masterpost!
Sorting through my bookmarks and AO3 tags to compile the list I've been meaning to compile for ages but for which the motivation only just struck (looking at you, @lesmisshippingshowdown)
I've tagged people where I know their URLs; if you see your fic here and would like to be tagged please let me know!
Canon era
the fan-maker and his fan (series) by @boom-goes-the-canon
Just the sweetest canon-era series following Enjolras and Feuilly as they develop a relationship. So sweet and one of my ultimate favourites!!
Trading Faces by @fixaidea
Body swap AU but probably not in the way you're thinking!! Really sweet and some really interesting dynamics explored!!
Also by this author (who has many great Enjolras/Feuilly fics and you should read them all): Enjolras, Feuilly, and the Great Roadtrip of 1832
Multichapter fic set after the barricades in a future where Enjolras and Feuilly survived the fighting... it's both sweet and heartbreaking but it's so good and full of the kind of politics you'd expect with these guys <3
Agreeable by cheesethesecond
A fic about Enjolras and Feuilly meeting for the first time and immediately hitting it off! Short and sweet.
Two Marvels in One Day by kvikindi
There's a giraffe and great characterisation and some really tender moments and it's just incredible.
Becoming Commonplace by @surefireshore
Sweet and tender and soft and everything I look for in a fic!! Feuilly is ill and Enjolras takes care of him and the mutual respect and admiration is off of the charts :'')
To be Free by Nami_Roland
Lesbian Enjolras/Feuilly AND one of the best Feuilly characterisations I've come across <3
Modern AU
then burn the ashes by @kvothes
Incredible fic with incredible characterisation; Enjolras gets arrested and Feuilly is there when he gets out
Among the Leaves by bloodscout
Feuilly has a rare day off and spends it hiking with Enjolras. Just really nice and sweet!
and slow things are beautiful (orphaned)
Long distance Enjolras and Feuilly who begin talking politics online and eventually meet in real life! Lots of good Amis content!
Lull by @breadvidence
A fic I only just found on my latest AO3 sweep but which is absolutely incredible in its pacing and so so beautifully written.
Explicit fics and shameless self-promo under the cut!
Explicit!
To Let it Occur (Laisser Faire la Nature) by @dannypuro
One of my all time FAVE Enjolras/Feuilly fics out there!!! They don't speak the same language and yet they connect so strongly with each other and it's just so so sweet and I literally think about it all the time <3
You walk like you're a God, can't believe I made you weak by @ronnlynch
The best way to get rid of excess adrenalin after a protest is by making out, obviously.
Les Mains (orphaned)
Enjolras is obsessed with Feuilly's hands and it's just really hot.
Gunplay by vlc
Literally just what it says. Great characterisation, great smut.
Shameless self-promo because I will be pushing the Enjolras/Feuilly agenda however I can
under the eyes of the revolution
Canon era! Oneshot! Enjolras and Feuilly sharing a quiet moment at the barricades in the wake of Le Cabuc's execution
a capacity for affection
Canon era! Multichapter! Each chapter features a different member of Les Amis finding out about Enjolras and Feuilly's not-so-secret relationship
The Future's Owned by You and Me
Modern AU! Multichapter! 46k of union organiser Feuilly being very smitten with Enjolras and Enjolras being very smitten with him in return! (and they were roommates!)
Please reblog if you have any additions! Feel free to promote your own Enjolras/Feuilly fic if it's not included here :D
#if I had any energy instead of going to sleep at 8 pm I would stay up tonight (re)reading all of these!!#les mis#Enjolras/feuilly#still my favourites#fic rec
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Nothing is a mood like a 4-year-old faceplanting into a snow bank and groaning "uuuugh I’m so sick of winter!"
Me too baby, me too

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I’m 36, have two children, a job, a husband, a house, and I still catch myself walking back to the car after picking up groceries thinking "Wait… am I really an adult? Do I actually know what I’m doing?" so I’m starting to feel like that impostor syndrome from having actual responsibilities never fully goes away…
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Three weeks old and we’re already out of the newborn diapers and onesies 🥲
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#this is my ex#he said the exact same thing about a bed#and also curtains#and more than one dingy towel in his entire apartment
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Baby Félix is here!! He arrived on Saturday and is now getting comfortably settled at home :)
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I'm reading an article in The New Yorker about potential plagiarism in romantasy land and they talked to a number of authors to provide context. Including . . . . Cassandra Clare.
I just . . . you talked to CC in a story about alleged plagiarism in fiction? I have passed away from a terminal case of irony.
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